Finding underwear which is not yours at home - Page 3

soccerpicks · #31 06-07-2010, 02:07 PM

This is a tricky situation and there are many possibilities behind it.
What I suggest is to pay more attention to your wife and if you notice something is very strange with your wife maybe you can hire a private investigator to find out the truth.

Chinapuss · #32 06-07-2010, 02:38 PM

Find out de truth first b4 jumpin to conclusion...it could juz be a harmless situation...juz dont leave your wife for too long and too often, she has her needs and vibrator can't satisfy all of tat...talk to her.

Savanna · #33 06-07-2010, 02:45 PM

Spy on your wife more and find out who is the other person!!!

Could be one of your Neighbors!!!

deptrai4u · #34 06-07-2010, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Savanna

Spy on your wife more and find out who is the other person!!!

Could be one of your Neighbors!!!

Likely to be TS's best friend lah... or the Bulter... either one..

devil9992002 · #35 06-07-2010, 04:31 PM

TS, my 2 cents are : "I can forgive, but I won't forget."

Divorce is the last thing on my mind. It's not because of the financial/alimony/assets divided. It's because she's part of the family. My family. I'm sure parents will forgive children, children forgive parents, siblings forgive siblings, even forgiving relatives, friends. Why not my wife ???

But the cracks will definitely be there till the last day of my life. It's part and parcel of life to forgive, to forget, to live, and to die.

I'm no saint, and I also cheats on many people on many occasions. The only person you cannot cheat is yourself. Be truthful to yourself and you will find the answer to the questions you wanted.

Longitude · #36 06-07-2010, 05:36 PM

Love, honour and negotiate.

Bangkok Master · #37 06-07-2010, 06:20 PM

I think most men will not be able to accept the fact their wives stray, somemore at your own backyard, but alot of ppl including me never realized that we ourselves are also fuckers who fucks around hoping not to get caught by our wives.

My suggestion is not to stir anything and just leave it as it is unless the affair gets outta control, try to service your wife more and hopefully that will kill her sexual addiction. I also had been involved with a married woman before which I was also kinda guilty after that and I had asked her why did she resort to having an affair, the answer was "Why can't I fuck around if my husband is doing the same for a longtime".

oOoLyRrAdoOo · #38 06-07-2010, 06:43 PM

could be a samster brother's

Castrol · #39 06-07-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by slider_72

I make no judgment about whether who is right or wrong. However, I do think your wife should not have brought her lover home. After all, you have kids and it is not in the children's best interest to find out that their mother was shagging another man at your own home.

If this affair has ended and you do not want to talk about it anymore, well and good. But if her affair continues, it would be a good idea to give her a wake-up call and tell her not to bring her lover home.

tell her not to bring her lover home. is it can do elsewhere?

slider_72 · #40 06-07-2010, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by digdug

For me, I didn't question or bring this up. I thought to myself that by voicing it out would not have any good results. Well, I have not also been faithful, so I guess it sort of "evens out"...

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Originally Posted by Castrol

tell her not to bring her lover home. is it can do elsewhere?

In TS's first post, he said that it sort of "evens out", so I take it that he doesn't really want to confront his wife about it. I suppose if he is prepared to sweep it under the carpet and close two eyes to it, its his choice. But for the sake of the children, I think the wife really should not bring her lover home lor.

Same principle applies for men, if want to drink milk, no need to bring the cow home mah.

RayCom · #41 06-07-2010, 07:13 PM

hmmmm.........how come most people just jump into conclusion that the wife must be having a affair with someone?

I strongly believe that the underwear is planted there to see if the hubby ever notice anything about the house / wife /kids....etc etc. Believe she wans attention from TS.

A mans underwear can also means that it belongs to her brother who wet his undies and left it there for the sis to help wash it. who in the right mind would want to leave his undies with a married lady FB?

Lets say if you got lucky with a married woman and she bring you home often to have sex, would you leave your underwear for her to wash? think about it guys . Gals are not simple, they do such things to get your attention.

Shogun456 · #42 06-07-2010, 10:25 PM

haha, sometimes u will never know. maybe ur wife just want ur attention and leave another man's brief there to make u anxious

cumfast · #43 06-07-2010, 10:48 PM

pardon me if i sound rude...

we know that the underwear is not yours and 99% she is having sex with a man in your house...

do you actually feel upset, angry or ... you feel excited by the thought of it?

i don't know... maybe i am naive... but i see it as an opportunity to change your sex life... threesomes?

i think with the nature of your work and the nature of her sex addiction it is better for her to have another sex partner (a single sex partner) to satisfy her rather than multiple sex partners which may increase the chance of her catching unwanted diseases...

sandman1 · #44 07-07-2010, 12:06 AM

wait.....could it be possible the other guys is prancing around with your undies since he wasnt wearing his own?!?! Yucks!

or maybe he stayed overnight and had tossed his undies under the bed and wore new ones the next day and your wife assumed it was yours and threw it into the laundry?

ive known a few friends whose spouse cheat on them( yes women too)
and only stop when confronted.
its a huge scar to mend which will take years to heal if not at all but its way better than having the issue eat away your soul

hope for the sake of TS tat its all a hoax and his wife just wants attention

digdug · #45 07-07-2010, 02:25 AM

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Originally Posted by RayCom

Lets say if you got lucky with a married woman and she bring you home often to have sex, would you leave your underwear for her to wash? think about it guys . Gals are not simple, they do such things to get your attention.

Hmm.. never thought of it that way. But I've always given her as much attention as I can when I'm home. I can't help it when I'm out of town as my job requires me to be away.

I don't think she knows of my affairs. Maybe she has some kind of gut-feel that I'm having an affair and could have planted the underwear there.