How long do you spend making love and how frequent ?

[KatoeyLover69]

How long do you spend making love with your wife/girlfriends/lovers/mistresses and how frequent ? :confused:

[KatoeyLover69]

Report from The New Straits Times (Malaysia) dated Wednesday 18 April 2007 :-

Malaysians rank 6th fastest in love-making

KUALA LUMPUR : Malaysians spend an average of 19.9 minutes when they make love.

Hardly the stuff romance novels are made of, they ranked 6th quickest in the world in terms of time spent in a love-making session.

However, if it’s any consolation, the average time spent is above the global average of 18.3 minutes.

India’s lovers were the world’s quickest, spending only 13.2minutes per session.

Nigeria once again topped the ranking on a leisurely 23 minutes.

Singapore, Hong Kong, Japan, Thailand and Australia were all well below the world average time.

Malaysians were just a heartbeat ahead of China’s lovers who took 20 minutes.

This was the findings from the "Global Sexual Wellbeing Survey" by condom-maker Durex. It was revealed at the ongoing World Congress on Sexual Health in Sydney, Australia.

More than 26,000 people from 26 countries were screened online by global research firm Harris Interactive from August to September last year.

Durex’s local distributor SSL Healthcare Malaysia general manager Voong King Yee said sex played a fundamental role in the physical and emotional well-being of a person.

The survey found two in five (or 38 per cent) of the 1,026 Malaysians polled were fully satisfied with their sex lives.

Forty per cent of Malaysian women were completely satisfied compared with 37 per cent of their male counterparts.

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"Seven in 10 (74 per cent) of the Malaysians surveyed said the situation could be remedied by injecting some old-fashioned love, tenderness, adventure and romance.

"Two-thirds (64 per cent) like more intimacy and better communication with their partners," said Voong.

Even in the "country of romance", France, they do not get it right all the time. Only 25 per cent said they were satisfied with their sex lives.

Nigerians, on the other hand, know something others don’t. They have the most people (67 per cent) satisfied with their sex lives, followed by Mexicans (63 per cent) and Indians (61 per cent).

The survey found that Malaysians have sex 115 times a year compared with the global average of 103.

The Greeks made an Olympian effort of 164 times, with Brazilians the next most amorous at 145, followed by the Poles and Russians (both 143) and Indians with 130.

The survey also found that Asians were least satisfied with their sex lives.
Australia’s Bond University sex expert Gabrielle Morrissey said it reflected cultural issues relating to sex in Asia. "Work is more important than sex in many Asian countries."
--- KatoeyNewsNetwork

[KatoeyLover69]

Report from The STAR (Malaysia) dated Wednesday 18 April 2007 :-

Few Malaysians satisfied with their sex life

KUALA LUMPUR : Although most Malaysians agree that sex is important, fewer than two in five (38%) of them are satisfied with their sex lives.

According to the latest Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey 2007/08 report, loss of romance and sexual prowess are key factors for the lack of sexual satisfaction.

SSL Healthcare Malaysia general manager Voong King Yee said: “Many Malaysians have lost the sense of adventure, interest and romance, which explains why they are not fully enjoying their sex lives.

“Sex plays a fundamental role in our physical and emotional well-being. Thus, it is important that we protect and nurture our sexual health as well as that of our partner's,” he said, adding that 64% of Malaysians would like more intimacy and better communication with their partners.

The survey was conducted on more than 26,000 respondents across 26 countries, of which 1,026 were Malaysians.

The respondents were asked about every aspect of their sex lives. covering health, general well-being, education, beliefs, attitudes to sex, and social circumstances, in a bid to comprehensively chart what constitutes sexual well-being.

Consultant clinical andrologist, reproductive and sexual health specialist and Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey local expert Dr Mohd Ismail Mohd Tambi said: “There are reasons why people are not satisfied with their sex lives. It could be due to problems in physical and emotional health as well as physiological issues such as vaginal dryness, painful sex, and erectile dysfunction.”

“Such issues can be dealt with and cured. Despite sex being perceived as fun and exciting by most, satisfaction is still only marginally equal between men and women, with 40% of Malaysian women saying they are satisfied, compared to 37% of men,” said Dr Ismail.

He pointed out that people could also improve their sex lives and sexual satisfaction by spending more time with their partners, de-stressing and introducing more romance into their sex lives.
“The ability to talk things out with your partner can lead to an emotional relationship filled with love and respect, which can then lead to ultimate sexual pleasure.
--- KatoeyNewsNetwork

[spidey69]

Judging from the number of members actively participating in this forum, I would say SEX is very much alive in S'pore.. :D

[KatoeyLover69]

Judging from the number of members actively participating in this forum, I would say SEX is very much alive in S'pore..


Singapore, Hong Kong, Japan, Thailand and Australia were all well below the world average time.

Sex may be alive in S'pore but S'poreans score below the world's average time of 18.3 minutes :mad:

This means that S'poreans spend maybe < 18.3 minutes before they wash up and call it a day ................. hemnnnnn, must be due to the 'rat race' ...... everything must finish fast

[Xgenre]

Sex may be alive in S'pore but S'poreans score below the world's average time of 18.3 minutes :mad:

This means that S'poreans spend maybe < 18.3 minutes before they wash up and call it a day ................. hemnnnnn, must be due to the 'rat race' ...... everything must finish fast

Well, if Singaporean ladies don't stop saying 'Are you done yet? Why so long one???' when we are having sex, perhaps I will last longer. Whenever she says something like that, me very sian, just fuck and let go, patterns all no need to try anymore.

[Castrol]

Well, if Singaporean ladies don't stop saying 'Are you done yet? Why so long one???' when we are having sex, perhaps I will last longer.

next time tell her "no not yet done, now turn facing the other side while i bonk you from behind, you wont be seeing my face for a while." :D

[spidey69]

[QUOTE=KatoeyLover69;1973040]Sex may be alive in S'pore but S'poreans score below the world's average time of 18.3 minutes

Bro KatoeyLover69,

Tonite i shall be on a mission: i will time myself and try to exceed 18.3minutes :D

[Cyber Tiko]

BUt me usually 30-45 mins leh .....

[KatoeyLover69]

Well, if Singaporean ladies don't stop saying 'Are you done yet? Why so long one???' when we are having sex, perhaps I will last longer. Whenever she says something like that, me very sian, just fuck and let go, patterns all no need to try anymore.

My advice to S'porean gals : " Please stop saying 'fai ti, fai ti' while your husband/lover is screwing you ! " :eek:

[KatoeyLover69]

[QUOTE=KatoeyLover69;1973040]Sex may be alive in S'pore but S'poreans score below the world's average time of 18.3 minutes

Bro KatoeyLover69,

Tonite i shall be on a mission: i will time myself and try to exceed 18.3minutes

It depends on who you are screwing ........ your wife ? your girlfriend ? your mistress ?

Of course, if you screw your wife it won't last more than 15 minutes because you are too used to her hole :mad:

[spidey69]

[QUOTE=KatoeyLover69;1973216]My advice to S'porean gals : " Please stop saying 'fai ti, fai ti' while your husband/lover is screwing you ! "

Yeah bro, they should say ' dai leg ti, dai leg ti ' instead :D

Then we will go all out n give it to them :D

[KatoeyLover69]

[QUOTE=KatoeyLover69;1973216]My advice to S'porean gals : " Please stop saying 'fai ti, fai ti' while your husband/lover is screwing you ! "

Yeah bro, they should say ' dai leg ti, dai leg ti ' instead

Then we will go all out n give it to them

I prefer them to say " Suck it ! Suck it ! " :p

[KatoeyLover69]

Report from Today dated Wednesday 18 April 2007 :-

Singapore needs sexing up

Singapore needs sexing up

Locals not satisfied with their sex lives, according to survey

SO MUCH for their staid reputation — Singaporeans say they are not having enough sex and are unhappy with the quality of their sex lives.
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The latest survey by condom maker Durex found that just one in three Singaporeans — or 35% of the respondents — are "completely happy" with their sex lives.
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Singapore was ranked 22nd out of 26 areas in terms of sexual satisfaction, ahead of Thailand, Hong Kong, France and Japan. The study, dubbed the Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey, was compiled over August and September last year. Some 26,032 people were polled, including 1,021 Singaporeans.
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Nigeria aced the survey, with 67% of respondents saying they were fully happy with their sex lives. Mexico (63 per cent), India (61 per cent) and Poland (54 per cent) followed.
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Stress and — to some extent — sexual problems are to blame for Singapore's flaccid performance.
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36% of Singaporeans said they were too stressed "for their own good", said Mr Cesar Balota, country manager of SSL Healthcare, the local agent for Durex.
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Mr Balota added that the latest survey was aimed at uncovering feelings, attitudes and habits, while previous sex surveys had a more quantitative purpose. "We want to understand what would help people enjoy their sex better, as opposed to just asking if more frequent sex would help," he said.
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Results of five other segments — sexual experimentation, physical pleasure, emotional aspects, first sex and sex education — will be released over the next 18 months.
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Said self-styled sex guru and radio deejay Lim Anna: "The thing to learn from this study is, how do we make ourselves happier? It doesn't mean you will be happy if you do it 7 times a week."
--- KatoeyNewsNetwork

[LeDivorcee]

Funny thing is the how come Durex never do their survey here on SBF? Sure will boost our ratings one leh... :D

Maybe can ask Boss to enquire about getting Durex to setup their survey here...

[Derelict]

Maybe can ask Boss to enquire about getting Durex to setup their survey here...

Will that really help us in any way to have better sex?