Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[shysaint]

That's why I saidmany times before .. everyone have their very own experiences to share .. everyone have their points and all will be different ... n some will common ...

While some is good, some is bad , some is based on hearsay, some copy one another's quote , some boasting ...

It's up to the individual to listen, find out and experience it ..

We should address the issues n concerns ... i believe thats the main aim of this thread ....

[Peacock29]

I feel bro SV is right in his approach. He prepared fellow bros interested in VB (WL or whatever) for the worst. But things might not be as bad as he had described.

Bad People everywhere also have. SG, VN, or whereever in the world.
Lazy People everywhere also have. SG also got a lot. At least 10% of taxi drivers are good examples

One thing i strongly agree with Bro SV is, we Singaporean, i meant the majority of us, due to our protected environment and our education system, we tend to lose out to people from 3rd world countries where dog eat dog strongest survive in terms of scheming etc.

You have your own eyes to see and make judgement yourself whether this relationship is feasible. You make the wrong judgement you have only yourself to blame as bros here had already prepared you for the worst situation.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Peacock29

I feel bro SV is right in his approach. He prepared fellow bros interested in VB (WL or whatever) for the worst. But things might not be as bad as he had described.

You have your own eyes to see and make judgement yourself whether this relationship is feasible. You make the wrong judgement you have only yourself to blame as bros here had already prepared you for the worst situation.

haha...now you knew why I had been reading and contributing to this thread for the past 5 yrs...this thread is a must for sinkies who are keen to marry a Vn spouse...dun go in to Wetnam blind and then dun know what hit you...can be a big shock...can also be very frustrating...can also be bitter sweet..depends on individual...we only share our experiences and cautions...up to the individual to play the lead role...we just hope more will come here to share their true experiences...

one thing we had in common...the love for VBs...otheriwse we won't be here or this thread will not have so many samsters contributing...

this is just one of the Viet threads I am reading...

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by shysaint

when going cheong again ? lets go la beer ...

Please org one for us, thanks! Year-End-Sexploration

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Please org one for us, thanks! Year-End-Sexploration

can i be notified too...hehe...

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Golden question

haha good sharing.waiting to find out more from my wife about my in law 5 figure debts to ah long before i share here

Bear in mind,vietnamese is not as simple as what we think,the less expected things that u feel will not happen CAN also happen.Trust me haha

Possible tat they incur such debt thinking u are able to help? I really fear this kind of assumptions

[Kim91]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

this is just one of the Viet threads I am reading...

This is the one n only lively forum on spouses in whole internet.. Dun pray pray

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

can i be notified too...hehe...

U already post BIG BIG that U dun chiong in Singapore liao.... who dare ask u again???

Anyway not I org, I just wan to tag along only.... i try to org b4 and then let people blamed that i XXX YYY ZZZ....

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Anyway not I org, I just wan to tag along only.... i try to org b4 and then let people blamed that i XXX YYY ZZZ....

i dun blame you lol...hehe...must tag along ma once a while...hehe...

[Kim91]

Bachelor's nite?? For those wed in dec?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Possible tat they incur such debt thinking u are able to help? I really fear this kind of assumptions

I dont understand why u have to be fear.If your wife love u,she will not ask u to settle but if your wife only think about herself and her family,then u have to settle

For me is simple,settle can.help can.throw money for stupid reason can

But how much i throw,UP TO ME.I call the shot and not them.

Simple reason cos i have my own family to feed

Take it or leave it and dont give me those cry father cry mother story.

[Golden question]

My wife ask me not to settle so i just keep quiet.

When i know is time to help,i will help.

Help how many depends on me.

Not happy,then Fxxk OFF,i not santas clause.

Simple as that

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

hahhahh ... Thanks thanks .. now she little devil ... ahhhah

when u free .. lets go la kopi .. long time no catch up with u liao ...

Ai ya,u busy man.Anyway i your estate neignbour liao.so if free,let me know or maybe come my house next year to collect red egg

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Kim91

Possible tat they incur such debt thinking u are able to help? I really fear this kind of assumptions

what if your fear come true?what will u do?

If u know u able to settle but have to use up your saving,will u help?

If your wife tell u if u dont help,her mother will be beaten to death,will u empty your bank and help?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Please org one for us, thanks! Year-End-Sexploration

u know i dunno which place to cheong... can we organise 1 before 7 dec before my wife come ?

any day i onzzzzzzzzzzz ...