Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by naemlo

KNN, u jumped out suddenly, want to scare me? Long time no see....

As usual ma...log in once in a blue moon to see see look look...

I ok la...not too bad...you soak in vn so long do what sia?

Good eat good sleep and good tinh ha?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by casannova03

I ok la...not too bad...you soak in vn so long do what sia?

Same same, as usual... 10 yrs dun change.

[Beachsea]

Oh man....seriously Good luck to the old guy ...

I think all of us knew its a super wrong move.......end up no house no money no nothing...maybe in the end need to borrow money to fly back silly-pore....

Hai.....i see my friend i already vomit blood, this week buy desktop, next week buy laptop...cause more convenient......its like his vietnam wife and family requires more computer usage than us at their Ulooo village...

things to buy (standard VBs SOP)
- computerSssssss
- LC/LEd Tv Ssss
- Motor cycleSSSSSsssss
- then Land and build house
- monthly allowance for wife and immediate family cum non immediate family
- Money for investment, sure make money and also for 'our' Vietnam future
- Ipad Ipod Iphone and Samsung...no worries..they more savvy tech then us..everything new also want..confirm will need one.
- Gold chain, earrings...cause Gold good for keepsake , ''i will save for you''

simply : JUST GIVE ME ALL YOUR MONEY , We the VBs are better at wealth management then those bankers or relationship managers in SINGAPORE.
'' See my handphone, i poor like fuck , no money eat no money sent home but i got the newest Iphone 6 ''

[milfmilf]

2 years ago when my FB thought of getting I-porn 4 with her $$, I managed to convince her that S3 was a much more superior choice. She bought S3, though she might have brainwashed by many goondos that rotten fruit is good & blah blah.. And later upgrade to S4 with her own method

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Beachsea

Oh man....seriously Good luck to the old guy ...

I think all of us knew its a super wrong move.......end up no house no money no nothing...maybe in the end need to borrow money to fly back silly-pore....

Hai.....i see my friend i already vomit blood, this week buy desktop, next week buy laptop...cause more convenient......its like his vietnam wife and family requires more computer usage than us at their Ulooo village...

things to buy (standard VBs SOP)
- computerSssssss
- LC/LEd Tv Ssss
- Motor cycleSSSSSsssss
- then Land and build house
- monthly allowance for wife and immediate family cum non immediate family
- Money for investment, sure make money and also for 'our' Vietnam future
- Ipad Ipod Iphone and Samsung...no worries..they more savvy tech then us..everything new also want..confirm will need one.
- Gold chain, earrings...cause Gold good for keepsake , ''i will save for you''

simply : JUST GIVE ME ALL YOUR MONEY , We the VBs are better at wealth management then those bankers or relationship managers in SINGAPORE.
'' See my handphone, i poor like fuck , no money eat no money sent home but i got the newest Iphone 6 ''

interesting

by the way rotten fruit phone already beaten by Samsung, Sony & LG all the way back to stone age liao, not gona make it anymore. Next, their sanitary pad will be gone case when consumer start to get their hands on Samsung's new 8.4" tab S.

rotten fruit fanboy may find it hard to accept but that's the HARD TRUTH

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

interesting

by the way rotten fruit phone already beaten by Samsung, Sony & LG all the way back to stone age liao, not gona make it anymore. Next, their sanitary pad will be gone case when consumer start to get their hands on Samsung's new 8.4" tab S.

rotten fruit fanboy may find it hard to accept but that's the HARD TRUTH

Andriod !!!! I like....

[topcook1]

Originally Posted by Beachsea

Oh man....seriously Good luck to the old guy ...

I think all of us knew its a super wrong move.......end up no house no money no nothing...maybe in the end need to borrow money to fly back silly-pore....

Hai.....i see my friend i already vomit blood, this week buy desktop, next week buy laptop...cause more convenient......its like his vietnam wife and family requires more computer usage than us at their Ulooo village...

things to buy (standard VBs SOP)
- computerSssssss
- LC/LEd Tv Ssss
- Motor cycleSSSSSsssss
- then Land and build house
- monthly allowance for wife and immediate family cum non immediate family
- Money for investment, sure make money and also for 'our' Vietnam future
- Ipad Ipod Iphone and Samsung...no worries..they more savvy tech then us..everything new also want..confirm will need one.
- Gold chain, earrings...cause Gold good for keepsake , ''i will save for you''

simply : JUST GIVE ME ALL YOUR MONEY , We the VBs are better at wealth management then those bankers or relationship managers in SINGAPORE.
'' See my handphone, i poor like fuck , no money eat no money sent home but i got the newest Iphone 6 ''

So scary to know all these truth...One of my friend just went Golden mile tower and seems keen to select a viet bride. He told me is much cheaper than to engage a maid. Can do house work and free bonk.BTW he is approaching 50s and a divorcee.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by topcook1

So scary to know all these truth...One of my friend just went Golden mile tower and seems keen to select a viet bride. He told me is much cheaper than to engage a maid. Can do house work and free bonk.BTW he is approaching 50s and a divorcee.

haha...let me share what is your friend risks..

after marriage...women charter applies...means any divorce wife gets half or more of his asset (including sale of HDB)
your friend still need to pay for her family expenses otherwise she may go to work and who knew what other work she can do...
after deposit paid for the marriage...the bride may mia with all the downry...
after marriage she may gone mia with all the savings...your friend cannot divorce because cannot find her...
foreigner bride...many trips to ICA for LTVP, LTVP+, PR, Citizen...many many trips if your friend dun have enough CPF savings or currently dun have high pay (anything above SGD3.5k basic)


your friend dun understand Viet culture best advice dun touch Viet bride...ask him to spend time in Vietnam a few months and find one proper wife there...learnt the Vietnamese language Tieng Viet and learn their culture...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by topcook1

So scary to know all these truth...One of my friend just went Golden mile tower and seems keen to select a viet bride. He told me is much cheaper than to engage a maid. Can do house work and free bonk.BTW he is approaching 50s and a divorcee.

Your friend thinks that he will be getting the best deal of his life, a maid with bonk. He is really naive. The viet gals are not as demure as he thought they are. Why are they willing to be match made? Viet guys aren't good enough? Its because they think its a GOLD MINE out there in other developed countries. The few standard things they will ask from their foreigner husband:

(1) Build a house for them in the province
(2) Buy a bike or a few bikes for their family
(3) Feed their whole family every month.

For sure it will cost more than a MAID and soon it will make him MAD. Don't give? can no problem `don't touch me' or the gal will out there looking for other Singaporean man while your friend is at work. They need residency status badly, so once they get residency status, they can carry out their plan. They are unlike Singaporeans , they have plans in their head.

i give an example i know. 20 something year old Viet lady married to 40 over year old Singapore man who is working as Security Supervisor. They got 1 daughter. Husband slog like mad outside, long hours, low pay. Wife goes back to VN a few times a year. Every time before going back, will ask husband to buy bags , phones etc for her to bring back to VN to shower her family. Husband not enough money, she ask her father in law to buy. Father-in-law working hard at over 70 years old. If never go back VN, she will ask her parents come Singapore. Husband owed so much money to credit card because of her, took a few years to pay back and had to cancel card because of bad credit rating. This viet lady whole family of gals all marry foreigners , her sisters in taiwan, divorced after a few years also.

Cheap? your friend will regret.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by SingViet

(1) Build a house for them in the province
(2) Buy a bike or a few bikes for their family
(3) Feed their whole family every month.

(1) no such request... Only renovate (paint and false ceiling) before the wedding in vn
(2) no such request
(3) no such request... Only $300 per month for mum and dad to spend

[mutantchicken]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

(1) no such request... Only renovate (paint and false ceiling) before the wedding in vn
(2) no such request
(3) no such request... Only $300 per month for mum and dad to spend

or so you say...what man would say HELLOOOO LOOK AT ME IM A WILLING CARROT...alll your posts seems to be you are a hero super manipulator of vbs...you a champion

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Your friend thinks that he will be getting the best deal of his life, a maid with bonk. He is really naive. The viet gals are not as demure as he thought they are. Why are they willing to be match made? Viet guys aren't good enough? Its because they think its a GOLD MINE out there in other developed countries. The few standard things they will ask from their foreigner husband:

(1) Build a house for them in the province
(2) Buy a bike or a few bikes for their family
(3) Feed their whole family every month.

For sure it will cost more than a MAID and soon it will make him MAD. Don't give? can no problem `don't touch me' or the gal will out there looking for other Singaporean man while your friend is at work. They need residency status badly, so once they get residency status, they can carry out their plan. They are unlike Singaporeans , they have plans in their head.

i give an example i know. 20 something year old Viet lady married to 40 over year old Singapore man who is working as Security Supervisor. They got 1 daughter. Husband slog like mad outside, long hours, low pay. Wife goes back to VN a few times a year. Every time before going back, will ask husband to buy bags , phones etc for her to bring back to VN to shower her family. Husband not enough money, she ask her father in law to buy. Father-in-law working hard at over 70 years old. If never go back VN, she will ask her parents come Singapore. Husband owed so much money to credit card because of her, took a few years to pay back and had to cancel card because of bad credit rating. This viet lady whole family of gals all marry foreigners , her sisters in taiwan, divorced after a few years also.

Cheap? your friend will regret.

u always appear when u need to and always back with case study whereby I believe not much people able to challenge u.

u paint a real picture when most is still naïve of Vietnamese girl or culture.

The more u appear,the more cases it show more sg man will fall into this knd of trap.Rather than blaming the foreign side,is time to reflect on our sg side.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

u always appear when u need to and always back with case study whereby I believe not much people able to challenge u.

u paint a real picture when most is still naïve of Vietnamese girl or culture.

The more u appear,the more cases it show more sg man will fall into this knd of trap.Rather than blaming the foreign side,is time to reflect on our sg side.

bro SingViet is telling the truth...because truth is hard to accept for many commoners...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by mutantchicken

or so you say...what man would say HELLOOOO LOOK AT ME IM A WILLING CARROT...alll your posts seems to be you are a hero super manipulator of vbs...you a champion

I mean no such request from my wife...
Other vb who requested such things as bike and built house, i run far far and disappear or give crap reasons.

I have been a carrot (in terms of $) to some vb though.
I am very direct and simple... No pussy no money

[Seletar]

Originally Posted by SingViet

i give an example i know. 20 something year old Viet lady married to 40 over year old Singapore man who is working as Security Supervisor. They got 1 daughter. Husband slog like mad outside, long hours, low pay. Wife goes back to VN a few times a year. Every time before going back, will ask husband to buy bags , phones etc for her to bring back to VN to shower her family. Husband not enough money, she ask her father in law to buy. Father-in-law working hard at over 70 years old. If never go back VN, she will ask her parents come Singapore. Husband owed so much money to credit card because of her, took a few years to pay back and had to cancel card because of bad credit rating. This viet lady whole family of gals all marry foreigners , her sisters in taiwan, divorced after a few years also.

Cheap? your friend will regret.

In May I bonked a Viet lady age 33 her Singaporean husband is 53 years old, an illegal bookie, don't understand English. She officially married this man in Spore already 4 years, but this girl stays in VN and will visit her husband 3 or 4times in a year. Her husband only visits her during tet. She claimed that the husband no give money to her and her mother house need to repair, her husband don't care.
So the moral of the story is even the vb is married, she will go out earn extra money if the husband don't give enough.