Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[lornjourney]

I believe whoever read or actively participate in this thread 8/10 experience it before. Or else, where got so much time/effort to accumulate to 1000+ pages.

[thebrokenheart]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

I believe whoever read or actively participate in this thread 8/10 experience it before. Or else, where got so much time/effort to accumulate to 1000+ pages.

yes definitely. i guess most cannot openly share such story with friends and this is an avenue for it.
despite all these story and heard of it, it is sometimes hard to avoid the experiencing and falling into it

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by lalana

Sound u have bad experience before lah hahaha

haha...mine wasn't that bad but a few of moy friends really kena badly...so never believed true love...all Viet gals love were conditional love...

dun ever think she let you fark raw is true love...when she allowed you raw means she allowed others raw...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

I believe whoever read or actively participate in this thread 8/10 experience it before. Or else, where got so much time/effort to accumulate to 1000+ pages.

When TS started this he wanted to share his experience with his wife...

He succeeded somehow...

Go read bro Kangtuo love stories...he had also succeeded somehow...

What I had written based on my past expereinces and my friends experiences which I was guiding them those days...many had failed...so we are sharing not to fall too deeply into this...

If you asked me why the current gen of Viet gals still behaving similar to decade ago...simple answers...these gals were guided by some of the seniors in the industry...

Most of the young gals around 16 to 18 yo...enter entertainment industry becos of some "sisters" guiding them bringing them to bug cities and outside of Vietnam...so here you go...why this thread is still viable...

In fact we overheard countless times how the bug sis teached the gals how to milk for more cash and gifts...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by thebrokenheart

yes definitely. i guess most cannot openly share such story with friends and this is an avenue for it.
despite all these story and heard of it, it is sometimes hard to avoid the experiencing and falling into it

Yes, when they brought the heart broken man to meet me...that chap was beyond redemption...he trusted the gf loved him but only if he can satisfied the gals conditions and greediness...

Till I showed the chap how to verified all his questions...

Example 1 - the gal supposed to be meet him oustide but failed to turn up...get a friend to verify she was meeting another man...

Example 2 - detailing the steps that the gf will request more and more cash and gifts....

Example 3 - catch the gf unguarded...by paying a visit to her home without informing in advance...also tell the friend how to track her gf...

Then friend will suddenly wake up and start to play again...but already lost plenty of money...

[thebrokenheart]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Yes, when they brought the heart broken man to meet me...that chap was beyond redemption...he trusted the gf loved him but only if he can satisfied the gals conditions and greediness...

Till I showed the chap how to verified all his questions...

Example 1 - the gal supposed to be meet him oustide but failed to turn up...get a friend to verify she was meeting another man...

Example 2 - detailing the steps that the gf will request more and more cash and gifts....

Example 3 - catch the gf unguarded...by paying a visit to her home without informing in advance...also tell the friend how to track her gf...

Then friend will suddenly wake up and start to play again...but already lost plenty of money...

i am still trying to climb out of it and it is not easily. but day by day just starting to know more.

i realize today that the age factor accompany raw sex with a young girl is definitely killing. i will just keep thinking that a 16 yrs old girl is innocent and still has chance to lead a proper life in the future. so despite many signs of lies, i will still try to think of her as good and innocent.but i guess you are right they lilely receive guidance from seniors. coupling it with raw sex and all the sweet talk of only having you. i guess this 2 factors really brokenmy guard.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by thebrokenheart

i realize today that the age factor accompany raw sex with a young girl is definitely killing. i will just keep thinking that a 16 yrs old girl is innocent and still has chance to lead a proper life in the future. so despite many signs of lies, i will still try to think of her as good and innocent.but i guess you are right they lilely receive guidance from seniors. coupling it with raw sex and all the sweet talk of only having you. i guess this 2 factors really brokenmy guard.

raw sex...

Most Viet gals dun like guys to wear condoms... especially those not in the sex industry...

Used to date some decent gals in Vietnam and if wear CD she will quietly cry silently after deed before sleep...asked her why cry...she said

anh khong thuong em...
anh hoi tai sao khong thuong em...
tai vi anh suy nghi em biet lam tinh voi nguoi khach khong mac bao cao su...

[Banaber]

i second that!

[charger]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

raw sex...

Most Viet gals dun like guys to wear condoms... especially those not in the sex industry...

Used to date some decent gals in Vietnam and if wear CD she will quietly cry silently after deed before sleep...asked her why cry...she said

anh khong thuong em...
anh hoi tai sao khong thuong em...
tai vi anh suy nghi em biet lam tinh voi nguoi khach khong mac bao cao su...

I agree with you that most Viet girls don't like CD . Recently I met a 20 year old girl, who had a 1 month stint in Sgp, in Hcm. She accompanied me for a few days.On the first day when I hinted sex.
She brought me to a 7-11 store and I presume she wanted to buy cd but instead she asked me to buy ky.
When we made love she was abit shy especially when I wanted to taste her young pussy. Noticed some viet babes don't like you to go down under. Anyway like a responsible guy l shot my load outside. 10 years ago I would have recklessly unloaded into her pussy. Now we know why there are so many unwanted pregnancies in Vietnam.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Rubbaking

Anyway, if back to the topic of understanding vietnamese as life partners, i have my fair share of vietnamese gfs. Culturally it is really different. From my experience, they could be fiesty, easily jealous, self-indulging and self-centred and they tend to only believe in themselves and they will hardly listen to explanation even when they wronged you. In summary, there is lesser tendency to have faith in you, and they do not appreciate it regardless of how well you provide for them, especially those who think they are prettier than most. However, i do not wish to generalise but these are just what i realised from my past 4 relationships with them so no offence to anyone. It is just my luck and i am sure there are good examples out there. The only good thing about my experiences is their fair slim slender body and they can be really sweet at times when they are happy. Perhaps those who are overseas educated especially an english speaking one, might have a more akin character. Or perhaps find someone who may not been pampered by sugar daddies or men before in the past. The prettier a woman is, the higher the risk and the harder the maintenance of a relationship.

Originally Posted by lornjourney

For me, I don’t even trust those “clean joint” massage lady. Some didn’t pretend and go straight to the point. While some act holy (go temple, vegetarian etc). How I know? I had bad encounter as well. Since she is pretty and seem to be quit innocent until Time proof that I’m wrong. She is contaminated as well.

Pretty + work as masseuse + speak English/Mandarin = Very likely contaminated.

She didn’t really scam customer money but she will always hint others to buy her food or essential needs. She won’t reject if you offer the help. She seem very use to accepting things from others. Sadly, I only woke up when I realise she is leeching from all her customers and it is impossible to win her heart. Her looks is her bait for free stuff and tips. When I told her I want to save money. Suddenly, she unfriended me.

By the way, she always read Buddha scripture but when I groped her and kiss her when we went out privately. She didn’t fully resist it or angry. She just say I’m her friend. I need to respect her. I guess as long as any guys willing to continue feed on this parasite. She will let you eat soft tofu but no further advancement.

Although my posting are not directly related to Vietnamese life partner. But my point is if you really like this VN girl. Make sure she is not in any male servicing sector. Best if you can find more about her past. VN got tons of pretty girls. Just move on to next target if she got any Red Flag symptoms.

As for those guys who always give TikTok gifts to SG Massage Spa.. I hope you guys wake up earlier too! If you willing to pay because you too rich. Please go ahead… but it might be better off to donate to orphanage or old folks home.

Thx senior bros for sharing info on VN girls. Definitely VN girls are hot and chio and farkable, but caution is needed for indecent VN girls.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

Agreed with all seniors collective sharing. You can only find this person by fate. Likely this person just work at VN cafe, bookstores, pharmacy etc. You can only know her if you stay at VN long enough. Also, check her facebook and zalo sharing. Whether got go party with friends or not. TBH, I am very afraid of having VN woman as spouse. A lot of VN families have toxic relationship with each others. They only Love themselves only.

But recently, I got to know this person from language exchange program and I felt she quite "ok". Why? Because she is not SYT (30+ and within my radar), she work as a normal admin person and came from the northern side (my filtering process immediately take out S and C). Lately, I started to have some thoughts and chat with her more often. She not pretty but acceptable looks. Nonetheless, she also talk to other foreign guys before. Very likely she is filtering potential partners as well (just like how to pick VN girls).
__________________
(1) Never turn a great sexual experience into a relationship.
(2) Always filter and logically swipe off when you are overpaying for what you need. Be Stoic.

Hi bro hope to learn from you regarding VN girl choosing process. Thanks for sharing the helpful tips. Any reason for Northen side being better?

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Go read bro Kangtuo love stories...he had also succeeded somehow...

stories of yester-years hardly apply to this generation.

Gen Z thinking is very very different now. 99% Boomers will not be able to accept.
So need to adjust your expectation if Boomers is thinking of getting Gen Z as life partners.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by lornjourney

check her facebook and zalo sharing. Whether got go party with friends or not.

why would you want to check your partner facebook and zalo and worry if she party?

it is not healthy relationship at all.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

stories of yester-years hardly apply to this generation.

Gen Z thinking is very very different now. 99% Boomers will not be able to accept.
So need to adjust your expectation if Boomers is thinking of getting Gen Z as life partners.

No matter what gen...all Viet gals still need money to feed family...so what's not different is still no difference...

The hungry moms are still hungry for money and willl need the daughters to earn as much and send to mother to feed lazy brothers...

Hierarchy still remain no change...

Mother, grandmothers, grandfathers, sons, daughters, brothers, sisters, then only hubby, boyfriend...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

The hungry moms are still hungry for money and will need the daughters to earn as much and send to mother to feed lazy brothers...

Hierarchy still remain no change...

observe and choose wisely then. Not all are hungry mums and lazy brothers.

my bx very big family got no lazy people. Last time brother/sister till now grown up niece/nephew, all working hard to provide and living up to their means.

no hungry mum also. from the day I know my bx till now still same fix monthly allowance, At one time, my mum-in-law keep saying don't need give anymore as she don't want keep so many cash at home. and she don't spend much in province.