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Old 16-07-2008, 06:54 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Hi bros.. been reading this thread of sometime now.. I too have a viet g/f, whom i intend to marry. Does anyone know how to get married in vietnam? eg, necessary documents to prepare, etc etc, will the police there know if you are married in SG?

Reason being.. my divorce in sg isn't thru yet.. but I've fallen deeply in love with my con gai and intend to marry her.
Bro, i got married in Vietnam around 5 years ago. Not sure if the procedure has changed.

Documents you will need:

(1) Singapore passport and the photocopy, notorised by Notary public of Singapore, endorsed by Singapore foreign ministry office and also the Vietnamese Embassy in Singapore

(2) A letter from Singapore ROM stating that you are single or officially divorced (i think you will have problem with this)

(3) Letter from employer stating your work

Depending on the province that your viet con gal came from, you will need to travel with her back to her province to lodge a marriage with foreigner request to their province government. The province government will send a letter to her house to ask you and yr con gai to go to the province government again in around 2 to 3 weeks time. They will interview you and her to make sure statement is true and really getting married. You will also need to go the mental hospital to check yr mental health. If everything alright, the proivince government will approve and ask you and yr con gai to go down to sign on province government marriage book and issue you with marriage certificate.
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Old 16-07-2008, 07:36 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Hi guys! I just came back from HCMC as well.

Must say the KC trap very scary.....

If not careful really will hurt your $$$ deep deep.

Thanks to this thread i have learned alot. Kudos!
what is KC trap?
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Old 16-07-2008, 07:56 AM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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bonk her twice (hotel and beach) long before. This time bring her home to bonk than discover that actually she got boyfriend/fiancée.

She has been telling me that it is her 'sister' home. 'wu zhi zhe wu zhui' better no karma. I got a VN girlfriend myself.
Hey Bro,

Recently i hapen to know a few Viet gals which is my wife's friends who brought them to Singapore to get married, eventually, all have found their husbands. But here comes the true part, almost all of them got kids in Vietnam and all wanted to earn extra even though they already found their husband, and this is very very f**ked up.. I sincerely feel that Viet gals cannot be trusted at all.. Which i've seen most of them, I've seen more than 80% does these things. I've seen good ones also though the husband is poor, but it is really very hard to find. I also wonder myself if i fail in my businesses and what will happen to me then once i gone broke also...
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Does anyone know how to get married in vietnam? eg, necessary documents to prepare, etc etc, will the police there know if you are married in SG? Reason being.. my divorce in sg isn't thru yet...
You should wait till your divorce is finalised first otherwise you may be accused of bigamy. I just came back from HCM and read an article in a magazine there. Getting married in Vietnam is a long and tedious process. Easily 1-3 months of waiting, according to the magazine. I think you will need a cert to show you are divorced or single. Got mental check and interview. Good to have photos of you and the girl.

Even foreigners marrying foreigners in Vietnam goes through the process. So if an Aussie guy marries a French lady in Vietnam, the process is the same as if a Sing guy married a Viet girl. Troublesome.
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what is KC trap?
Kum Cheng trap...An ordeal which one of my friend is going through now. Financial torment is nothing...It's the feelings involved cum mental torture...

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I sincerely feel that Viet gals cannot be trusted at all.. Which i've seen most of them, I've seen more than 80% does these things.
The reality is...These genre of gals can be found in all nationalities, not only Vietnamese. Just gotta open yer eyes big big!!

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Even foreigners marrying foreigners in Vietnam goes through the process. So if an Aussie guy marries a French lady in Vietnam, the process is the same as if a Sing guy married a Viet girl. Troublesome.
Most would deem a wedding ceremony being sufficient...Why go through the time-consuming process??
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You should wait till your divorce is finalised first otherwise you may be accused of bigamy. I just came back from HCM and read an article in a magazine there. Getting married in Vietnam is a long and tedious process. Easily 1-3 months of waiting, according to the magazine. I think you will need a cert to show you are divorced or single. Got mental check and interview. Good to have photos of you and the girl.

Even foreigners marrying foreigners in Vietnam goes through the process. So if an Aussie guy marries a French lady in Vietnam, the process is the same as if a Sing guy married a Viet girl. Troublesome.
Bro, thank you for the info...long and tedious process...
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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Hi bros.. been reading this thread of sometime now.. I too have a viet g/f, whom i intend to marry. Does anyone know how to get married in vietnam? eg, necessary documents to prepare, etc etc, will the police there know if you are married in SG?

Reason being.. my divorce in sg isn't thru yet.. but I've fallen deeply in love with my con gai and intend to marry her.
There were quite a few posts made in the past about your question by SV and some other samsters, pls do a search

As to your second question, DO NOT ever commit bigamy regardless of registration in other countries, just wait a while more to complete your divorce before embarking on the marriage.

Its a matter of when you are going to convince the Singapore Authorities (e.g. CPF board, HDB....etc) that you are married and wants to enjoy some of the benefits of being a married man (e.g. use CPF to pay loans...etc), this will means having to produce your Vietnamese Marriage Certficate, which also means, if you still don't get it, they will know you have gotten married while your divorce is not finalised yet, aka committing bigamy.

Hope this helps.

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Hi bros.. been reading this thread of sometime now.. I too have a viet g/f, whom i intend to marry. Does anyone know how to get married in vietnam? eg, necessary documents to prepare, etc etc, will the police there know if you are married in SG?

Reason being.. my divorce in sg isn't thru yet.. but I've fallen deeply in love with my con gai and intend to marry her.
I remember bro Singviet said can just do customary marriage without ROM. In Vietnam, they accept this as married....But not sure is this what you want??
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I remember bro Singviet said can just do customary marriage without ROM. In Vietnam, they accept this as married....But not sure is this what you want??
Yeah bro, was looking for that too. wanted to know what are their procedures as well as costs. I dont wanna become a robert if you know what I mean.
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Hey Bro,

Recently i hapen to know a few Viet gals which is my wife's friends who brought them to Singapore to get married, eventually, all have found their husbands. But here comes the true part, almost all of them got kids in Vietnam and all wanted to earn extra even though they already found their husband, and this is very very f**ked up.. I sincerely feel that Viet gals cannot be trusted at all.. Which i've seen most of them, I've seen more than 80% does these things. I've seen good ones also though the husband is poor, but it is really very hard to find. I also wonder myself if i fail in my businesses and what will happen to me then once i gone broke also...
Did these girls go through those marriage agency?
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Yeah bro, was looking for that too. wanted to know what are their procedures as well as costs. I dont wanna become a robert if you know what I mean.
Bro, I dun know how much it will cost because never did this before. Maybe Bro Singviet can advice....
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Hey Bro,

Recently i hapen to know a few Viet gals which is my wife's friends who brought them to Singapore to get married, eventually, all have found their husbands. But here comes the true part, almost all of them got kids in Vietnam and all wanted to earn extra even though they already found their husband, and this is very very f**ked up..

I also wonder myself if i fail in my businesses and what will happen to me then once i gone broke also...
I think majority of viet spouse want to earn outside,may due to their husbands r of low income group and can't support them much.
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

well, I guess it's the same every where... got $$ do big, no $$ do less lor

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Bro, I dun know how much it will cost because never did this before. Maybe Bro Singviet can advice....
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I remember bro Singviet said can just do customary marriage without ROM. In Vietnam, they accept this as married....But not sure is this what you want??
You need to register your marriage either in S'pore or Vietnam to validate
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If the husband dun mind, then we LL.

If the husband dun know, i felt UNFAIR to husband. If she know th husband dun earn much, then why married to him at FIRST?! Wanted to make him a stepping stone is it?!

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I think majority of viet spouse want to earn outside,may due to their husbands r of low income group and can't support them much.
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