Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[ykhttq]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

hahaha...not accurate if elder sis din marry foreigner...local no way la...

The elder sis married a Taiwanese...so that's why I intend to find out more about it.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Dont worry, KT is cash -rich

mai luan luan kong wei hor!!!

but then I deposit alot CASH in Sillypore pool. 1 fine day I will draw ALL out

[miua55555]

Originally Posted by tupac_rip

Bro

I just marry my wife last yr, my total cost is just 3k . 20k is rubbish.

wow.... you the man !

[naemlo]

I read the question of how much to marry a viet wife and I find it funny.

Those who wants to marry Viet wife, dun be lazy, use a bit of thinking, do some researches before asking how much is the cost. No one here can tell u the exact sum.

Having a wedding dinner with 10 tables with top range menu in Sheraton is much more expensive than having 100 tables with local food in village.

So the question is how comfortable you can spend. If your bank has unlimited money then get 100 tables in Sheraton Saigon, invite all relatives n friends n provide transportation. If your money is limited, then discuss with your wife to be.... tell her the truth. I seriously doubt, she will force u to get loan to have a grand wedding dinner. If her parents insist and because of face then you are in trouble. You are marrying their daughter and you become their tools for money.

I dun see the point of having a grand wedding and burden yourself. Do your sum right, wedding dinner, photo shoots and a lot of others which need money, end of the day, everyone is happy.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I read the question of how much to marry a viet wife and I find it funny.

Those who wants to marry Viet wife, dun be lazy, use a bit of thinking, do some researches before asking how much is the cost. No one here can tell u the exact sum.

Having a wedding dinner with 10 tables with top range menu in Sheraton is much more expensive than having 100 tables with local food in village.

So the question is how comfortable you can spend. If your bank has unlimited money then get 100 tables in Sheraton Saigon, invite all relatives n friends n provide transportation. If your money is limited, then discuss with your wife to be.... tell her the truth. I seriously doubt, she will force u to get loan to have a grand wedding dinner. If her parents insist and because of face then you are in trouble. You are marrying their daughter and you become their tools for money.

I dun see the point of having a grand wedding and burden yourself. Do your sum right, wedding dinner, photo shoots and a lot of others which need money, end of the day, everyone is happy.

You are right...no money no wife meh...

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

You are right...no money no wife meh...

In HCMC, I have seen wedding dinner only 2 tables(one for bride's family and the other for bridegroom's family) held at bridegroom's house. 1 million VND still got change.

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Dont worry, KT is cash -rich

NNKC.....to you everyone is CASH rich

[ykhttq]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I read the question of how much to marry a viet wife and I find it funny.

Those who wants to marry Viet wife, dun be lazy, use a bit of thinking, do some researches before asking how much is the cost. No one here can tell u the exact sum.

Having a wedding dinner with 10 tables with top range menu in Sheraton is much more expensive than having 100 tables with local food in village.

So the question is how comfortable you can spend. If your bank has unlimited money then get 100 tables in Sheraton Saigon, invite all relatives n friends n provide transportation. If your money is limited, then discuss with your wife to be.... tell her the truth. I seriously doubt, she will force u to get loan to have a grand wedding dinner. If her parents insist and because of face then you are in trouble. You are marrying their daughter and you become their tools for money.

I dun see the point of having a grand wedding and burden yourself. Do your sum right, wedding dinner, photo shoots and a lot of others which need money, end of the day, everyone is happy.

Don't have to be so worked up, Bro. Be it marrying a local or foreign wife, many people did their homework and asking others for opinons in a forum is one of them.

I believe people are smart enough to know that marriage is a life-long affair and not a one-night event, so everyone is mature enough that they don't get into financial trouble just because of a wedding. No point painting a nice picture to your wife-to-be knowing that when she finds out about your true financial problems, hell could break loose.

So far my gf's side has not ask for much and they are considering just having a dinner at her parents' house inviting relatives and friends over.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by ykhttq

So far my gf's side has not ask for much and they are considering just having a dinner at her parents' house inviting relatives and friends over.

Foreigner who wants to be a Singapore Citizen has to invest 5 million SGD...so you oredi given your wife alot of ang pow...just my 2 cents worth...

To me marriage is 2 person affair and as long as both happy will do...

[ykhttq]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Foreigner who wants to be a Singapore Citizen has to invest 5 million SGD...so you oredi given your wife alot of ang pow...just my 2 cents worth...

To me marriage is 2 person affair and as long as both happy will do...

I agree, Bro. Marriage is but not the wedding. Often the whole family plus friends will tend to get involved.

As for her to be a citizen, I don't see any benefits in doing so in the near future.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by ykhttq

Don't have to be so worked up, Bro. Be it marrying a local or foreign wife, many people did their homework and asking others for opinons in a forum is one of them.

I am not worked up, I just want ppl to ask sensible question. No doubt forum is where u ask and share info, but a lot of ppl asked stupid question or dun bother to read up or research. Guess this is the way SG are brought up, asking is always easier.

A single statement question like, "how much is the wedding dinner in Vietnam?"
The answer will be USD100 to USD1million wedding dinner.

A similar question, "How do I get lay in Vietnam?". What do you expect the answer to be???

Anyway, getting marry in Vietnam, dun have to be expensive. Spend within limit then everyone is happy.

[SureScore]

Originally Posted by naemlo

A single statement question like, "how much is the wedding dinner in Vietnam?"
The answer will be USD100 to USD1million wedding dinner.

A similar question, "How do I get lay in Vietnam?". What do you expect the answer to be???

Anyway, getting marry in Vietnam, dun have to be expensive. Spend within limit then everyone is happy.

Actually, all these are very simply answered. Just buy Bro naemlo a drink and then pick his mind. Or simply read all the posts in this thread or just follow this thread then sure all answers are available.

[shysaint]

Hi Bros ... Its my turn to marry soon. and it will be at a hotel at BD.

I have cater the following for the event:

1. Wedding Photo / Video @ Vung Tau: approx $1k max.
2. Wedding Ring Buy in Singapore : aprrox $1k max.
3. ROM in Singapore + 2 Tables Reception: approx $800 max.
4. Flight for Mum, Auntie and Uncle to attend ROM: approx $500 max.
5. All in Wedding in VN: $4k
6. $$$ for Mother-in-law: $1k

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by v.killers

NNKC.....to you everyone is CASH rich

No, not everyone. U, KT, and a few which dun wan to mention names.

No wonder u guys are consider good life partner of the VBs

[ykhttq]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I am not worked up, I just want ppl to ask sensible question. No doubt forum is where u ask and share info, but a lot of ppl asked stupid question or dun bother to read up or research. Guess this is the way SG are brought up, asking is always easier.

A single statement question like, "how much is the wedding dinner in Vietnam?"
The answer will be USD100 to USD1million wedding dinner.

A similar question, "How do I get lay in Vietnam?". What do you expect the answer to be???

Anyway, getting marry in Vietnam, dun have to be expensive. Spend within limit then everyone is happy.

Whether a question asked is sensible or not it depends on individual's perspective. Just as same as the replies given, one has to filter out if someone is truly being helpful or not.

Even if one has did their research and homework, who are we to say that they cannot and should not post questions about it?

If one can't stand the questions that were asked, please skip the post then. That, everyone will be happy.