Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jf66312

mine is a boy..due in december...

Congratulations to you...why not share with us the following

1) where and how you met your bx
2) brief us some interesting stories of your r/s before marriage
3) where you hold your wedding
4) where you are staying now

[jf66312]

well..as bro requested...

i met my bxa at one of the ktvs here in chinatown in 2009...

i went down to support one of the mummy that i knew for years...
she happen to be working there for that day only as she brought her friend who was a newbie to work in singapore...

normally she work in one of the ktvs at havelock work but that fateful day i met her, she was there to guide her "sister"...

my friend actually wanted to pick her but ended up letting me have her..
all the while i did not get hanky panky during the session & she just sat quietly beside me...i also had a malaysian gal with me that day but didnt know why i ended up sending both home(not tabao)....

I shall not bore u guys with details...i got her ctc & started to chat with her & sending her & picking her up from work almost everyday...

she brought me to her circle of friends that she stayed with..that was when i met some SG guys whose wife were her friends...i chatted with them & got to know them & my current wife better as well...

soon , i found myself very attached to her & she started to tell me not to pick her up from work but do not mind me sending her to work..

in the beginning , i did not understand the rationale behind this until one fine day...

(to be continued....)

sorry bros..need to fill my stomach now..gtg for lunch...update later again...
apologise if i sound boring as this is the 1st time i am writing my life encounter...

cheers

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by jf66312

well..as bro requested...

i met my bxa at one of the ktvs here in chinatown in 2009...

Good to know that there are more and more success stories with viet gals working in pub/ktv.

[xyman]

Originally Posted by jf66312

well..as bro requested...


in the beginning , i did not understand the rationale behind this until one fine day...

(to be continued....)

sorry bros..need to fill my stomach now..gtg for lunch...update later again...
apologise if i sound boring as this is the 1st time i am writing my life encounter...

cheers

Like those in the "Adult Discussion about Sex' Session, camping for more. But now is real life encounter....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by jf66312

tell me not to pick her up from work but do not mind me sending her to work..

Mine was the opposite ....

No need to send her to work coz going with her friends .... But want me to send her home after work ....

[jf66312]

hi bros,

am back from my lunch break..
hope you all had a wonderful lunch too..

i shall continue from where i left off...

normally i would wait for her sms to inform me that she is finishing soon b4 i make my way down to pick her...

as a result , as time passed by , i had a rough idea of the time that she normally knocks off so one fine day , i decided to head down slightly earlier so that i will not keep her waiting everytime i pick her ( i normally drive down frm my home to her work place..take abt 15mins)...

i parked my car at the hotel entrance & waited inside...time passed...it was passed the normal time she always sms me so i got out of the car & smsed her :"Darling , u finished work"...

she replied soon after :" in a while...wru?"
i replied: i reached
she replied: " coming down soon. wait awhile"

i then walked towards the lift & decided to wait for her there(normally she will be sitting at the taxi stand waiting for me)..

the lift is the only access to her workplace so i waited there as i knew she would definitely come out from the lift...

then out of the corner of my eye , i saw her walking from the hotel lobby towards the lift lobby to her work place....i was stunned...i could tell she was surprised to see me waiting there too...

she said: wait a while..i go up take my things & change..
i just nodded in silence...

my head was spinning with tonnes of questions..

me: why she came from hotel lobby?
me: wasnt she at her work place?
me: she told me b4 she never go out with clients after work ( i believed as i always send her home)
me: where did she go?
me: what did she do?

all these questions & doubts i had... i was exasperated..i was numbed...i didnt know what to think...i wanted to ask her but i did not know how to..

soon after , she came back down..with her handbag & she changed to normal clothes...she said: "lets go"..

i nodded and walked with her back to my car in silence.....what to do? should i ask her?

on the way back to her place in my car , i took a deep breath trying hard to keep my sanity...

me: hows work?
she: ok..busy..
me: tired?
she: ya..abit..
me: hungry?
she: no...

i could not control myself any longer..

me: why u came from outside? tot u at work..
she: customer bring me go out..
me: bring you go where? can go out during work?
she: why u ask so much.. u know i working right...please stop the car.. i go back myself...
i was stunned
me: ...nono...i send you back...

i was hurt...really hurt...felt like knives piercing thru my heart..my eyes started to get wet & swell...

throughout the journey back , we were both silent while i could not control tears started to roll down my cheeks..

soon , we reached her home , by now i was trying hard to fight back my tears..
she turned to me & said ,

she: i think we better stop...lets end it... dun come look for me..(in a firm tone)
me: why? i am sorry...i wun ask too much...
she: u cant...and i dun want to hurt you...

seeing me in such a state , she could not control & tears started to well up in her eyes..

i was desperate..didnt know what to do

me: please...i love you...dont leave.... i promise i wunt mind...
she: dun cry...(she hugged me).. go back & rest...you need to work...
me: i hugged her back..tears streaming down...pls dunt leave me...
she: okok....u go back rest...tml need to work...drive carefully & call me when u reach home.. ok?
me: ok...

with that , after seeing her back disappear from my view , i drove slowly back home....

(to be continued...) sorry bros...need to go for a meeting 1st..be back later to update..apologise if it sounds bit drama..but its true...i really cried..i didnt know why..but was so overcome by emotions & could not control..
she is my second serious gf relationship(by the way am 28 today..

cheers

[xyman]

Originally Posted by jf66312

hi bros,

(to be continued...) sorry bros...need to go for a meeting 1st..be back later to update..apologise if it sounds bit drama..but its true...i really cried..i didnt know why..but was so overcome by emotions & could not control..
she is my second serious gf relationship(by the way am 28 today..

cheers

Guess is part of parcel of being in a relationship with them. waiting for more....

[shysaint]

Sounds like the earliest post - Happily married with an ex-WL or something like that

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by jf66312

(to be continued...) sorry bros...need to go for a meeting 1st..be back later to update..apologise if it sounds bit drama..but its true...i really cried..i didnt know why..but was so overcome by emotions & could not control..
she is my second serious gf relationship(by the way am 28 today..

cheers

Dun take too long...camping here...very good forum...well written too...

Want to know how you paid her $5 mil at the end...hihihi...

[shysaint]

Hi BROs, I would like to share this website given by a friend of mine

http://www.vietnamwomen.biz/page2.htm

Rgds

[情感王子]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Hi BROs, I would like to share this website given by a friend of mine

http://www.vietnamwomen.biz/page2.htm

Rgds

just another matchmaking website aiming at ang mo.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by 情感王子

just another matchmaking website aiming at ang mo.

Yeah .. I realised alot of the VN websites are geared towards Ang Mo , especially the US.

I was finding out how can I register a marrriage in VN , all i got for related to US, UK and Canada ...

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I was finding out how can I register a marrriage in VN , all i got for related to US, UK and Canada ...

See this link
http://www.helplinelaw.com/law/vietn...e/marriage.php

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

See this link
http://www.helplinelaw.com/law/vietn...e/marriage.php

Thanks BRO KT, this website really helps ....

I guessed the procedure of 'Recognising a Marriage' is much much simpler than to 'Registering a Marriage' in VN .....

Rgds

[baka123]

Hello there bros. Need to bother u guys again regarding some issues in HCM city. Hope bros can help me here again.

My Bx is currently renting a hse in HCM city D-8 for ard 350k dong. But her family grew tired of moving hse every once in a while due landlord agreement. Right now my Bx is proposing to "long term loan" a hse. Here is how she describe how it works.

A person is in need of $$ but he got nothing except a hse. instead of selling the hse which he do not want to do so, he will want to "borrow" some $$ from some 1 by subletting his hse for a period of time like 2-3yrs. At the end of the subletting period, he will return the amount he "borrow" back to the guy whom he allow to stay inside his hse. If in the event the hse owner did not managed to pay back the $$, the hse occupier can continue to live inside the hse until the $$ is paid back.

My Bx said the abv mentioned will be written in black and white with proper paperwork and red stamp with relevant authority (police?). But i find it very fishy cos this is like having free lodging but she said this is common practice in HCM city.

The amount she talking is abt 10k sing for a subletting period of ard 2-3yrs. doing a simple calculation, this work out to be ard 350k dong per mth but with $ back to u after the period. I hope i grasp 100% of what she is describing and wish some bros who are well verse in HCM city culture can advice me in this. Many thanks!!