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in fact it is good that those bros who hv viet spouses should discourage their wives to work, or else will hv alot of problems! for eg.

these are some of problems that i thk may happen. if for me i will not allow my future viet wife to work.
For me, I already tell my gal that she need to work in order to make life easier and comfortable. On the other hand, she will be learning more things of life rather than still be a frog in the well.

It all depend where your wife work and work as what. my own view.
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Old 22-03-2007, 07:00 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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For me, I already tell my gal that she need to work in order to make life easier and comfortable. On the other hand, she will be learning more things of life rather than still be a frog in the well.

It all depend where your wife work and work as what. my own view.

It is understandable that wife should support husband financially, it will make life easier and comfortable for the husband.

If wife not working does not mean that, is a frog in the well.
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Old 22-03-2007, 07:12 PM
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

If you do not want your wife to work, you should be earning more than enuff to support her and the family expenses. At the same time, when your wife work, it doesn't mean she will have affairs outside. This will depend on how much you trust your spouse and your spouse trust you. Life in Singapore is not easy, to depend on one source of income is not enuff most of the time. unless the source of income is big source
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If you do not want your wife to work, you should be earning more than enuff to support her and the family expenses. At the same time, when your wife work, it doesn't mean she will have affairs outside. This will depend on how much you trust your spouse and your spouse trust you. Life in Singapore is not easy, to depend on one source of income is not enuff most of the time. unless the source of income is big source

My secondary school classmate married a viet gal thru marriage agency about 3 years ago. He is working as a school attentant, monthly income is about $1600. I did not know how he can survive, as his wife is not working. anyway he seen to hv no financial problem, he and his wife are still very loving.
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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For me, I already tell my gal that she need to work in order to make life easier and comfortable. On the other hand, she will be learning more things of life rather than still be a frog in the well.
If i do marry my viet g/f one day, i will let her work if she wants to because i don't want her to feel bored at home waiting for me to knock off from work. It's more like letting her past a bit of time and of course it must be a day time job. In this way she can also supplement abit of the house expenses and if she needs to send money back to vn, she can use hers...

If she don't work, its ok for me. Anyway one of the criteria to meet when marrying a foreign wife, we need to show that we can support a family with only our own income.

Even if we earn $1600, it will be enuff to feed 2 mouth without any luxurious things like car, big house, home theather system...
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Old 22-03-2007, 11:14 PM
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Life in Singapore is not easy, to depend on one source of income is not enuff most of the time. unless the source of income is big source
we cant compare with urs...urs is big source
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Old 22-03-2007, 11:16 PM
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anyway he seen to hv no financial problem, he and his wife are still very loving.
seen from surface you wont know....
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seen from surface you wont know....
So lets give him benefit of doubt bro..
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It is understandable that wife should support husband financially, it will make life easier and comfortable for the husband.

If wife not working does not mean that, is a frog in the well.
if a viet gal work in singapore, it will definitly help alot in improving her general knowledge and ways of life. nothing to worry about she becoming like singapore gal.

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Old 23-03-2007, 06:29 AM
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seen from surface you wont know....
This one i agree. From the surface, some couples hide their problems damm well
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Old 23-03-2007, 06:31 AM
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if a viet gal work in singapore, it will definitly help alot in improving her general knowledge and ways of life. nothing to worry about she becoming like singapore gal.
maybe its their education system and culture, there's a lot of things that Vietnamese need to learn and adapt when they settle in Singapore.
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Old 23-03-2007, 01:42 PM
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we cant compare with urs...urs is big source
Do business will earn slightly more than normal salary job la. This little extra is to compensate businessman for the extra risk he is undertaking. If do business earn same as salary job, then i might as well work normal office job.
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

I'm beginning to experience the priority sense oredi... u may be 'ongxa' here or 'ongxa' there.. but ultimately what comes first in priority is:

a) family mbrs (father, mother, grandfather, grandmother, bro, sis)
b) offspring of family mbrs
c) in-law (even bro inlaw gets better treatment) mbrs
d) good friends of the person
e) close frens of family mbrs acquainted with
f) then the so called "ongxa"

The family tenets in the Sg Planning Agency is, in terms of priority:
a) your partner
b) your kids
c) your family mbrs

Only then harmony comes in the family...

Sad life...maybe I should change boat...
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I'm beginning to experience the priority sense oredi... u may be 'ongxa' here or 'ongxa' there.. ..
So many months already then u experience this huh? I experienced it right from the start. trust me, after some time, u will be used to it
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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

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I'm beginning to experience the priority sense oredi...

Sad life...maybe I should change boat...
don't need to feel sad abt it, i know ur feeling of being neglected! personally i hv not experience with any viet partner yet, but i know that they place priority on family first.... the last is oxa, all these i hv heard from jc area.

overall i still fancy viet gals!
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