Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 825

Golden question · #**12361** 12-12-2011, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by X_plorer

Viet Life Partner? Izzit a good choice? I bet a lot of our Bros here has been thinking about this qns...

Quite a few of my friend also married Viet wife.. Including me.. Haha.. But all have the same character.. Very hot temper.. But other than that.. They can be a very good wife, and not so materialistic also..

Any bros here got diff thinking?

Hot temper,i agree but materialistic or not,it depends on luck

Golden question · #**12362** 12-12-2011, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

The initial few years of marriage when there were lots of arguments and misunderstandings, i did regret a bit. But thru these years, when efforts were made to understand each other, sacrifices were made for the family, i have not regretted. They make good spouses (not all) although they have their short comings. We also need to put in effort to provide them with proper living standards, a proper family, simply we need to be responsible too.

But i did come across quite some marriages breaking down due to variety of reasons.

No matter what, communication and understanding is very important.

I have the same experience with u.I almost ended up in divorce and ask her how is the procedure like.Not once but twice.I seek my family member advise.My sis told me:She is not that bad as to what u think,she really do something wrong but learn to forgive and forget and look forward.Is fate that both of us is together.Dont give up until one day,u saw her outside with other man or fool around,then that is not forgiving

elth · #**12363** 12-12-2011, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

Indeed their man is a shame to man.I saw myself before whereby that guy ferry her girl for me to f$$k.They treat it as nothing.Their culture is like that,most people is taking advantage of each other until there is no right or wrong.Honesty and pride will not pay off there.After staying there longer,u will know more about them.Like what some senior bro have point out:

Only believe 20% on what they first tell u
Sometime is good to pretend you are deaf when they tell u something
Telling lies is a norm for them

Is like their chaos traffic,just follow the flow when riding.

hi bro, last time me really believe 20% but now 50%

Golden question · #**12364** 12-12-2011, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by elth

hi bro, last time me really believe 20% but now 50%

If u are refering to your spouse or girlfriend,then i think is a good thing

Even my wife,i not yet 100%,how about other bro?

elth · #**12365** 12-12-2011, 10:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

If u are refering to your spouse or girlfriend,then i think is a good thing

Even my wife,i not yet 100%,how about other bro?

only time will tell

shysaint · #**12366** 13-12-2011, 08:23 AM

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Originally Posted by lasupkia

Don't sound like you??

Alamak ... Pijak lobang roi

shysaint · #**12367** 13-12-2011, 08:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

If u are refering to your spouse or girlfriend,then i think is a good thing

Even my wife,i not yet 100%,how about other bro?

GF definity Not 100% ... Wife better be 100% ...

The strange thing about guy ... We want the gal to believe us 100% BUT we don't want to believe the gal .... I am guilty of such situation ...

We can fool around but NOT them ... I am too not agreeable to such behavior gals fooling around outside .... Rod n hole can never be equal ...

vietboy · #**12368** 13-12-2011, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro Vietboy .... SOunds like you leh ... hahahahah ..

Pls loh i not so free n so stupid to just go ktv to meet her loh. Go ktv have to ordar drinks no need $$$? Somemore that place so ex. I not so stupid loh.
I rather save up for my Le Cuoi n like i said buy something more meaningful for my bxa.

vietboy · #**12369** 13-12-2011, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro Vietboy .... SOunds like you leh ... hahahahah ..

Pls loh i not so free n so stupid to just go ktv to meet her loh. Go ktv have to ordar drinks no need $$$? Somemore that place so ex. I not so stupid loh. If wan meet vb, meet her when she free, not working.
I rather save up for my Le Cuoi n like i said buy something more meaningful for my bxa.

vietboy · #**12370** 13-12-2011, 09:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

Indeed their man is a shame to man.I saw myself before whereby that guy ferry her girl for me to f$$k.They treat it as nothing.Their culture is like that,most people is taking advantage of each other until there is no right or wrong.Honesty and pride will not pay off there.After staying there longer,u will know more about them.Like what some senior bro have point out:

Only believe 20% on what they first tell u
Sometime is good to pretend you are deaf when they tell u something
Telling lies is a norm for them

Is like their chaos traffic,just follow the flow when riding.

Recently, i asked a vb this:
Me: e muon lay chong vn hay quoc khac?
Vb: em khong muon lay chong vietnam . con trai viet nam ko take care bxa va gia dinh duoc.
This is how they think about their vn man. To them, the guys r useless.
But i think there are good vn guys out there just that their head count is not many.

Golden question · #**12371** 13-12-2011, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Recently, i asked a vb this:
Me: e muon lay chong vn hay quoc khac?
Vb: em khong muon lay chong vietnam . con trai viet nam ko take care bxa va gia dinh duoc.
This is how they think about their vn man. To them, the guys r useless.
But i think there are good vn guys out there just that their head count is not many.

That is their thinking and culuture,not suprise.So my advise to those soft hearted bro who pity them that they are made use by their boyfriend,better think twice.ALthough we sg man will feel sad for them cos we have been living a good life since we are born, is their culture and way of doing things.Not all viet man is like that but most is useless and their girl dont really bother,so why should we?

Golden question · #**12372** 13-12-2011, 09:50 AM

[QUOTE=shysaint;6669005]GF definity Not 100% ... Wife better be 100% ...

The strange thing about guy ... We want the gal to believe us 100% BUT we don't want to believe the gal .... I am guilty of such situation ...

We can fool around but NOT them ... I am too not agreeable to such behavior gals fooling around outside .... Rod n hole can never be equal ...[/QUOTE]

bro,i like this sentence haha

Golden question · #**12373** 13-12-2011, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by elth

only time will tell

yah,i agree

KangTuo · #**12374** 13-12-2011, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by vietboy

Recently, i asked a vb this:
Me: e muon lay chong vn hay quoc khac?
Vb: em khong muon lay chong vietnam . con trai viet nam ko take care bxa va gia dinh duoc.
This is how they think about their vn man. To them, the guys r useless.
But i think there are good vn guys out there just that their head count is not many.

recently had arguement with a vb...
she say that vn guys no money but they got true love one.
sillypore guys got money but no ture love.... dan ong sillypore kg tot, xao xa.

did the vb tell you that vn guys are useless? be aware that we are always in conversation with WL vb in jC/GL. mostly they see vn guys as no money to take care her needs and family demand.

vietboy · #**12375** 13-12-2011, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by shysaint

GF definity Not 100% ... Wife better be 100% ...

The strange thing about guy ... We want the gal to believe us 100% BUT we don't want to believe the gal .... I am guilty of such situation ...

We can fool around but NOT them ... I am too not agreeable to such behavior gals fooling around outside .... Rod n hole can never be equal ...

I trust my wife 100%.

I agreed too! As its the same thinking for me too! Guessed we Guys are a bit it ky. Haha.