Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Blast88

My Bx when 1st came singapore was also against gambling, however under my mum influence & of course some time me & slowly she begin to look into this game how we play, in fact she strike S$4K somewhere last year & that was only her 3rd attempt of buying (& you have to believe in beginner luck), that started the whole habit.. Occasionally, I also bet on soccer & she now learning from me how to see the odd & with Euro2012 just around the corner, I think I have to keep an eye on her.

Good luck to u, u need a lot of this. The path of most gamblers always start from small, follows by big money, slowly losing all the saving and lastly in debt.

When u dun stop her bad habit, then be prepared to face the worst.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Blast88

Forget about the gold, let divert back to this main forum topic, does bro out there mind to share whether their bx or gf in singapore are addicted to buying 4D or ToTo

No for my bx.
She used to ask me to help her buy when she is still in VN, when she 1st come here she also used to buy 4D herself but after not winning for 2 mths, she stopped buying. Maybe she realised that she is dumping $$ in the singapore river.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by Blast88

My Bx when 1st came singapore was also against gambling, however under my mum influence & of course some time me & slowly she begin to look into this game how we play, in fact she strike S$4K somewhere last year & that was only her 3rd attempt of buying (& you have to believe in beginner luck), that started the whole habit.. Occasionally, I also bet on soccer & she now learning from me how to see the odd & with Euro2012 just around the corner, I think I have to keep an eye on her.

U r a bad influence, yur mum too.
Better do something before too late. Try to tell her to control n just buy little for fun. 玩玩可以，不要沉迷.
When my bx used to buy, i only allow $4 most for a set.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by SingViet

You are right on this. I do not gamble and i do not want my ba xa to gamble. Many relatives use gambling as an excuse to dig large sums of money from gals that married foreigner husbands. I know vietnam villagers have the tendency to gamble a lot, but to avoid trouble, i told my ba xa many years ago that if she lose money in gambling , she no need to come back Singapore as i will not pay for her .

Totally agreed! I told that to me wife too. Also i make it clear to her if her family members own $$ bcos of gambling, buying 4D, i will not help them settle. I dont own a money printing machine.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Just to check with experienced samster here.

If i go viet nam for 2 night 1,5 day. How much money must i change?

No KTV or visiting girls, just normal eating. (good food that are not expensive.) and some shopping. Staying at 3 star cheap hotel.

About S$400. Depends if u travel alone or with friends. If with friends can be lesser. Also depends if u not planning to buy any things back, even lesser.
BTW, 3 star hotel not cheap. If u not particular about hotel standerds, 2 star will do. Most of their 2 star hotels are pretty good.

U can go to bro Hurricane88's thread: HCM(Thread2), read through or ask bros there. Some of the bros are stationed in HCMC so can better answer yur question.

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

what is DNC?

Da Nang City.. can come to visit me.. hehe..

[ReferencePoint]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

god bless you when bx starts gambling...wish you good luck...i had enough of gals gambling...no way to fund another gambler...

When a love one start to gamble, its really downhill all the way. Seen too many sad stories.

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

come join me in HCMC.. going DNC in a few days.. now its quite hot though.. note that in north and middle vietnam there are 4 seasons, but in south, there are only 2 seasons, rainy and sunny.

still inviting more partners to go SCRAMBLE.. you can insert a message to me..

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

Da Nang City.. can come to visit me.. hehe..

no wonder u ask so many questions on vietnam. next time just straight to the point lah, say: i need to know more as i'm going to vietnam soon. bros here can advise u more appropriately.

[asdfghjkl]

I like to know more about what members think of Viet women, especially when my company is moving over to SG.

I like SG as a top financial capital.. one can develop relationships with the top of the top, best schools in Asia, strong and safe financial institions of the World.

There is so much mind power in SG that they can help to propel one straight to the peak.

But I am getting old for a female. My family wants me to start a family, they say I am too old and I have to get married.

Sometimes I think about starting a family, sometimes I do not think I can do that because I am not good at everything. I am scare that I cannot take care for my family good enough.

I think I am crazy, what do members here think?

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

I like to know more about what members think of Viet women, especially when my company is moving over to SG.

I like SG as a top financial capital.. one can develop relationships with the top of the top, best schools in Asia, strong and safe financial institions of the World.

There is so much mind power in SG that they can help to propel one straight to the peak.

But I am getting old for a female. My family wants me to start a family, they say I am too old and I have to get married.

Sometimes I think about starting a family, sometimes I do not think I can do that because I am not good at everything. I am scare that I cannot take care for my family good enough.

I think I am crazy, what do members here think?

Sorry but i think u worry unnecessarily n too much.

BTW, what has yur personal problem got to do with vietnamese women?? Even no connection to a city that u are not born in, raised, educated, not even sure u will moved there for long in the future n grow old there?

1st of all, u are not vietnamese. How can u apply wat they are experiencing to yurself? It totally different culture, different society, different environment.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

But I am getting old for a female. My family wants me to start a family, they say I am too old and I have to get married.

Sometimes I think about starting a family, sometimes I do not think I can do that because I am not good at everything. I am scare that I cannot take care for my family good enough.

I think I am crazy, what do members here think?

you certainly is not crazy...rather spoilt with choice in sinkie...if you were to compare with a VB then there is no contest when it comes to perseverance and diligence...VB beat you hands down on this...VBs are good at looking after their hubbies...making sure they are well fed and taken care of...dun think any sinkie gals can do such simple things...

some simple comparisons which written many times in this thread...

1. VBs will ensure hubbies eat first and the best food...before they eat
2. simple things like peel the prawns and feed the hubbies
3. take care of hubbies when they are ill..
4. looked after all the family members...
5. conscientious, diligent and persevere are some of the traits...
6. looked after babies...

anyway above are just my 2 cents worth and some may not agree...

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by vietboy

No for my bx.
She used to ask me to help her buy when she is still in VN, when she 1st come here she also used to buy 4D herself but after not winning for 2 mths, she stopped buying. Maybe she realised that she is dumping $$ in the singapore river.

Saying is always easy, however to a punter psychology the more she lost, the more eager she want to recover back. Furthermore, the 4D shop is directly downstair & she will definitely pass by when she go market, how to reject the temptationJust wondering bro out there got any brilliant idea to stop this

[teletubbie]

haha...sort of.....

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by Blast88

Saying is always easy, however to a punter psychology the more she lost, the more eager she want to recover back. Furthermore, the 4D shop is directly downstair & she will definitely pass by when she go market, how to reject the temptationJust wondering bro out there got any brilliant idea to stop this

i think the only way is to slowly educate her....

my bx also dun gamble but when she went few times with her frens to casino and saw easy money, she was hooked for a while...

but there was once she lost quite a bit , and when she came home , she stayed donwstairs didn dare to come up ...so i went down to bring her back ,ask her how much she lost , settled for her then from then on she stopped going... painful lesson learnt...

[asdfghjkl]

Originally Posted by vietboy

1st of all, u are not vietnamese.

I am mix blood ler..

I thank every members for posting their views here.. sharing them with my cousins.. my English is not good so I may make mistake translating them.