An Affair with an older married lady... and the aftermath...

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by unsung80

Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a theory of motivation which states that five categories of human needs dictate an individual’s behavior. Those needs are physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging needs, esteem needs, and self-actualization needs. *Google*

温饱思淫！
Isn't Chinese beautiful? - 4 words replaces Rebecca's complex explanation using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

[ouzo18]

Originally Posted by Neoguri

温饱思淫！
Isn't Chinese beautiful? - 4 words replaces Rebecca's complex explanation using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs.

Wow bro Neoguri, you Chinese power!!! 说得好.

[BugsBunnyLee]

Nice one bro

[diputs1269]

SEX is the basic needs listed under Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Cheers!

[talismann]

Originally Posted by diputs1269

SEX is the basic needs listed under Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. Cheers!

Then we can surmise monks transcend Maslow.

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by ouzo18

Wow bro Neoguri, you Chinese power!!! 说得好.

Haha, my Chinese improved after using WeChat to chat up all the PRCs....

Back during my school days, we have to learn how to write and I always struggle with Chinese.
Nowadays with software input, it is becoming much easier.

I suggests reading erotic stories in Chinese is another good method to improve our Chinese in a fun and exciting way.
Check out bro lipe thread => https://sammyboyforum.shop/showthread.php?t=267769

[lipe]

Thanks for the recommendation.

Up your points before, will do if able.


You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Neoguri again.

Originally Posted by Neoguri

Haha, my Chinese improved after using WeChat to chat up all the PRCs....

Back during my school days, we have to learn how to write and I always struggle with Chinese.
Nowadays with software input, it is becoming much easier.

I suggests reading erotic stories in Chinese is another good method to improve our Chinese in a fun and exciting way.
Check out bro lipe thread => https://sammyboyforum.shop/showthread.php?t=267769

[Neoguri]

Originally Posted by lipe

Thanks for the recommendation.

Up your points before, will do if able.


You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Neoguri again.

No worries about the points. - I had benefited from your Chinese stories.
Although the traditional Chinese is more difficult for me, I could still read and understand 80% of the words.

[Shrouded]

Originally Posted by Neoguri

No worries about the points. - I had benefited from your Chinese stories.
Although the traditional Chinese is more difficult for me, I could still read and understand 80% of the words.

At least you guys can read and write Chinese. I can only read hanyu pinyin these days...

[Shrouded]

So I guess Rebecca was stuck at fulfilling her physiological needs.

Based on what I read, I tried to figure out where everyone else was at in terms of their motivations, but I gave up halfway as it seemed like they were all, me included, still at the physiological stage.

Working from home the rest of the week was really boring, and I ended up just watching Netflix or playing games on my desktop.

Felicia actually texted me on Wednesday morning to see if I was at the office as she had to go in to clear some stuff, and wanted to see if I was around so she could get a ride home as she had some stuff to carry. And also, hinting to me that I should go over to Jasmine's place after I dropped her off. Unfortunately, I was technically working from home the entire week so I asked if I could give her a ride on CNY eve instead, since I would be at the office anyway. She said it was fine, she'd take a Grab home.

The day passed by without much incident, until around 3pm when there was an issue with one of our client sites. I tried to remote troubleshoot with the onsite supervisor but somehow nothing was working. The boss of the client company ended up asking if I could head down to assist.

I texted Rebecca and Helen informing them of this, and as expected, I was given the go ahead. I bought the day license to drive my off peak car and headed down to the site, which was a couple of lanes away from my office.

I settled the issue within an hour or so to the appreciation of the boss and onsite supervisor before heading back to the office since I was nearby to fill up the incident report.

As usual, the office was empty, with only Ken and Rebecca supposedly working. Rebecca wasn't at her table. I texted Felicia to let her know what I was in the building due to unforeseen circumstances and would be able to send her home.

I heard laughter coming from Shirlyn's office. No doubt it was Rebecca and Ken. I ignored it and continued with my incident report. After 5 minutes the door opened.

R: Wah. Why did you come back? I thought you went off-site?

Me: Incident report.

R: So hardworking. Bonus has already been disbursed, it's not going to increase you know?

Me: Don't worry, I'll fill up the form that says I came back to the office on a non-scheduled day for work matters.

R: Please do. I don't want MOM or MTI coming for a spot check.

Me: You probably wouldn't know if they did considering the amount of time you spend in Shirlyn's office.

I wonder why I said that.

K: You jealous?

Me: Of what?

K: Nothing.

They went off somewhere, I didn't care where, and simply finished up my report.

I don't know why I was feeling irritable/angry that day. If I was a woman, I probably could say it was hormones.

Since I was officially WFH, I texted Felicia to see if she could leave early.

F: You wanna come to my office and help me pack?

Me: Sure.

I clocked out and headed to her office. Somehow her company didn't seem very concerned about visitors. In any case, only me and her were in her office.

Her cubicle was bare, except for the laptop, some stationery and what looked like her unfinished lunch.

Me: What's going on?

F: Oh, I got reassigned to another office.

Me: Ah. Where?

F: XXXX.

Me: Isn't that place… pretty close to Jasmine's house?

F: And Alicia's current house, and my own place.

Me: Oh. Why the sudden change?

F: There was an opening, so I decided to take it. Imagine taking less than 15 minutes to travel to work. Maybe 25 minutes if I walk.

Me: So for convenience?

F: Of course. Also, nearer to Alicia. Hahaha.

Me: You two are a couple now?

She came up to me, pressing against me.

F: You jealous?

Me: Strangely that's the second time someone said that to me today.

F: Really?

Me: Why should I be jealous?

F: Just kidding la. I mean it's fun and all that, but I'm sure we're both just having fun now. But wah, her tongue, is almost as good as yours.

Me: Right.

F: Wonder why she doesn't really want cocks now. What did you do to her?

Me: Wah lau. Why does everything link back to me?

F: Who knows. You're the only guy I know that's been with her. Maybe your dick too small. Hahahahaha.

Me: Maybe.

F: Anyway… I can't shift to my new office yet, so can you help me bring these to my place later?

I looked at the 3 A4 sized cartons of stuff and another 2 still empty cartons. I made a mental note not to keep so much crap in the office in case I had to leave.

Me: Sure.

After packing everything it was nearly time to leave so I helped her carry the boxes over to the car in two trips as she didn't have a trolley.

Traffic was strangely light so the drive back to her place was smooth.

F: Are you still sleeping with Jasmine?

Me: Huh?

F: I mean, are you getting into a relationship with her?

Me: When she's ready I guess.

F: How are you ok just having sex with women?

Me: What do you mean?

F: Don't you want a proper relationship?

Me: I guess so.

F: With us before, it's clear all we wanted was sex. So it's straightforward. But you seriously can't be doing this forever right?

Me: Have you heard of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs?

F: Eh sounds familiar.

Me: I don't know where I'm at in life.

F: You have a house, car, job etc. You have occasional sex with different women. I think you should be heading towards the love or belonging stage?

Me: Maybe.

F: Maybe stop fucking every pussy you meet. Even if they want to.

Me: I'm trying.

F: Are you really trying?

Me: I guess?

F: I hope you know what you're doing. From what I remember, you still have unresolved issues with the old lady, and now maybe your manager. You need to stop living for others and live for yourself.

I helped her to carry her boxes back to her place.

F: Maybe you should go hang out with Jasmine more often. Like right now since you're nearby anyway. I think you're happy when you're with her.

Me: So we'll stop our arrangement?

F: Yeah. If she doesn't mind of course I wanna continue. But you need to think for yourself.

Me: You wanna go over with me?

F: Nah. I'm meeting Alicia for dinner later. Give you some time with Jasmine.

Me: Right.

F: You have the key, just go and surprise her or something.

Me: I'll think about it.

F: Ok. Have fun then!

I left Felicia at her place and walked slowly back to the car park. I guess it wouldn't hurt to see Jasmine for awhile.

[otamay]

Mark I am really jealous of you because so many ladies offer their pussues to you, hehe.

Camping here for more juicy updates please.

[Shrouded]

I went over to Jasmine's place and let myself into the lift lobby before heading up to her unit.

I saw a pair of slippers at the door that I didn't recognize. Perhaps she had guests over.

I entered and instantly heard soft moans from the bedroom. I went closer and confirmed it was coming from the master bedroom.

Part of me wanted to open the door to see what was going on, but I couldn't.

Instead, I headed to the balcony and lit a stick. Then another, and another. Half a pack later I was sure her neighbours would be kicking up a fuss so I headed back in and sat on the sofa in the dark. The moaning didn't seem to stop.

Wild thoughts ran through my mind. Jasmine was definitely having sex. And she had every right to do so. We weren't together. Not yet anyway. And I didn't even know if we would actually be.

Part of me was wishing it was Alicia, but I knew she was meeting Felicia for dinner, so the chances of it being her, doing it in the master bedroom, were next to nothing.

I leaned back and tried to block out the sounds of fucking but it seemed to get louder and louder. I closed my eyes and tried to think of something else.

Probably half an hour later I heard the shower running, and the moaning continued.

It seemed like another eternity before I heard the bedroom door open. I heard the footsteps down the corridor.

Darren walked past and was about to open the door.

Me: Enjoyed yourself bro?

D: Oh hey! Didn't see you for awhile. How's things?

I didn't know what to say. I think he was expecting a reply.

Suddenly, Jasmine came out, still naked, to see him off. It appeared as though she got a shock to see me, but composed herself quickly.

J: Why are you sitting in the dark?

Me: Saving electricity.

She gave him a hug and he left. She sat down next to me.

J: You jealous?

Me: No.

J: What are you doing here?

Me: I wanted to talk.

She took a stick from my pack and lit it.

J: Talk then.

Once again, I had nothing to say. I opened my mouth but no words would come out. I felt sick, but it wasn't due to Covid.

J: Aren't you going to say anything?

I took a stick and lit it.

Jasmine leaned on me, pressing the side of her naked breast on my arm. I wanted to shrug her off but I couldn't. She moved a little and I felt her erect nipple brush against me.

J: Well?

I stubbed out the half-smoked stick and stood up.

Me: Sorry. I have to go.

I didn't hear what she said in response and left her house.

I headed straight to my car and started the engine.

I drove out of her estate with no destination in mind.

I guess this was karma.

[tiutiutiu]

Dam what a twist, stay strong buddy

[jlanjut]

I guess we are all selfish. Doing things to satisfy ourselves and to minimise the hurt that we might get from falling for others. I'm not you but I totally feel what you're feeling with this post. You're a sentimental person but you hate to admit it yourself. I do hope that eventually you will find someone who loves you just as much as you love her. In the mean time, let time be the factor that heal the pain and hurt that's running through you...for now.

[tiutiutiu]

Originally Posted by Shrouded

I went over to Jasmine's place and let myself into the lift lobby before heading up to her unit.

I saw a pair of slippers at the door that I didn't recognize. Perhaps she had guests over.

I entered and instantly heard soft moans from the bedroom. I went closer and confirmed it was coming from the master bedroom.

Part of me wanted to open the door to see what was going on, but I couldn't.

Instead, I headed to the balcony and lit a stick. Then another, and another. Half a pack later I was sure her neighbours would be kicking up a fuss so I headed back in and sat on the sofa in the dark. The moaning didn't seem to stop.

Wild thoughts ran through my mind. Jasmine was definitely having sex. And she had every right to do so. We weren't together. Not yet anyway. And I didn't even know if we would actually be.

Part of me was wishing it was Alicia, but I knew she was meeting Felicia for dinner, so the chances of it being her, doing it in the master bedroom, were next to nothing.

I leaned back and tried to block out the sounds of fucking but it seemed to get louder and louder. I closed my eyes and tried to think of something else.

Probably half an hour later I heard the shower running, and the moaning continued.

It seemed like another eternity before I heard the bedroom door open. I heard the footsteps down the corridor.

Darren walked past and was about to open the door.

Me: Enjoyed yourself bro?

D: Oh hey! Didn't see you for awhile. How's things?

I didn't know what to say. I think he was expecting a reply.

Suddenly, Jasmine came out, still naked, to see him off. It appeared as though she got a shock to see me, but composed herself quickly.

J: Why are you sitting in the dark?

Me: Saving electricity.

She gave him a hug and he left. She sat down next to me.

J: You jealous?

Me: No.

J: What are you doing here?

Me: I wanted to talk.

She took a stick from my pack and lit it.

J: Talk then.

Once again, I had nothing to say. I opened my mouth but no words would come out. I felt sick, but it wasn't due to Covid.

J: Aren't you going to say anything?

I took a stick and lit it.

Jasmine leaned on me, pressing the side of her naked breast on my arm. I wanted to shrug her off but I couldn't. She moved a little and I felt her erect nipple brush against me.

J: Well?

I stubbed out the half-smoked stick and stood up.

Me: Sorry. I have to go.

I didn't hear what she said in response and left her house.

I headed straight to my car and started the engine.

I drove out of her estate with no destination in mind.

I guess this was karma.

Seems like Felicia already knew about this, hence hinting you over so persistently. And I am sure Alicia somehow has a part in this too? Since her brother got involved..