Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[cornporn]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Care to share how messy the journey...tell us how you solved...

long story short ah

she had bf in thailand, but i tio kc jialat jialat i bodoh bodoh accept being the 3rd wheel. 2 years of the stupid relationship she dumped me. then machiam depression lor cannot work

why i warn him to go back into the hole ah, is we men can sub conscious mistake good sex for love. i tio kc because the sex with her is powerful best sex ever. even now many years i gotten over it emotionally i still miss the sex. so if he keeps on fucking her, the emotion might come back so be careful.

my solution ? i made the decision to better myself see ymself not able to work very pathetic. did self learning. details hard to explain but i looked forward and moved on towards loving myself. so i become stronger.

[tankerkit]

Originally Posted by Sgdora

I get what you mean. But i am ready. If she really pull a fast one like this i am prepared to make sure she is being screwed over by me. I have my backup plans all stored, ready to use. But of course i will still be careful.

this must teach me lol what are the back up plans ?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by cornporn

long story short ah


my solution ? i made the decision to better myself see ymself not able to work very pathetic. did self learning. details hard to explain but i looked forward and moved on towards loving myself. so i become stronger.

Oh so that was your messy story...thanks for the write up...

[fallen11]

Originally Posted by cornporn

long story short ah

she had bf in thailand, but i tio kc jialat jialat i bodoh bodoh accept being the 3rd wheel. 2 years of the stupid relationship she dumped me. then machiam depression lor cannot work

why i warn him to go back into the hole ah, is we men can sub conscious mistake good sex for love. i tio kc because the sex with her is powerful best sex ever. even now many years i gotten over it emotionally i still miss the sex. so if he keeps on fucking her, the emotion might come back so be careful.

my solution ? i made the decision to better myself see ymself not able to work very pathetic. did self learning. details hard to explain but i looked forward and moved on towards loving myself. so i become stronger.

good that you dug out of this shithole.
i think your success story should be shared to give other bros who got KC-ed/gongtao-ed some motivation to overcome it. like a rehab

[pptimer]

beware of those sharks who will suck your money dry

[cornporn]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Oh so that was your messy story...thanks for the write up...

lol nothing in detailed about the suffering, but was not able to work, cannot eat properly, etc

[cornporn]

Originally Posted by fallen11

good that you dug out of this shithole.
i think your success story should be shared to give other bros who got KC-ed/gongtao-ed some motivation to overcome it. like a rehab

definitely dont mind sharing

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by hellothis555

Once they get to know friends esp same nationality in SG, they share n learn all tricks.

Yah the hard part is when they start all the expectations liao ..fked

[BatamBro]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

To marry a Viet wife, best understand their cultures, their livelihoods and their idiosyncrasies.

I have to agree with this.
Based on my observations this year
Sg & Kl has way way more VB coming in to work.
All sorts of industries also have.
I realise that those chiong come out overseas work usually have some kind of family issues that motivated them to zao out. Either family need the money or sibling education and expenses need money .. so if you lucky got the rich vb come sg study and work for fun because they don't like the VN culture of how guys behave. This one isn't about luck or what .. it's just you gotta research carefully and don't let the attractive poison looks hook you in. There is usually a high percentage of family issues they have that needs a +1 to help them out with. Emotionally & Financially. As compared to Sg girls that tank the burden with you but Kao peh alot .. VB girls usually Kao peh easily when they're comfortable with you.

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by BatamBro

I have to agree with this.

VB girls usually Kao peh easily when they're comfortable with you.

Learning their understand their cultures, their livelihoods and their idiosyncrasies is one thing. Make them understand the culture in Singapore is also very important.

I dont see much VB Kao Peh when they are living comfortable. It all depends on luck; if you marry a good one; everything will be good but if u got a bad one everything will be up side down.

[chaoslord]

Once a VB reaches out Singapore shores - it is a matter of time before she gets influenced by the diaspora here. Many VB's in Singapore work in night life related industries and slowly they would learn the mercenary tricks of the trade here. As with everything there would be exceptions, but as the name suggests - this is exception to the norm.

[fallen11]

Originally Posted by chaoslord

Once a VB reaches out Singapore shores - it is a matter of time before she gets influenced by the diaspora here. Many VB's in Singapore work in night life related industries and slowly they would learn the mercenary tricks of the trade here. As with everything there would be exceptions, but as the name suggests - this is exception to the norm.

this doesnt only apply to VBs
all nationalities also same when they reach here. Its just the toxic environment here that changes them like a virus.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by fallen11

this doesnt only apply to VBs
all nationalities also same when they reach here. Its just the toxic environment here that changes them like a virus.

Correct observations...in Singapore the history was...almost all similar patterns...blamed for breaking families...

1970s - Malaysian gals mostly from Ipoh Perak
1980s - Thai gals mostly from South
1990s - China gals
2000s - Pinay gals
2010s - Viet gals

[FireShark]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Correct observations...in Singapore the history was...almost all similar patterns...blamed for breaking families...

1970s - Malaysian gals mostly from Ipoh Perak
1980s - Thai gals mostly from South
1990s - China gals
2000s - Pinay gals
2010s - Viet gals

2020 - Camb gals???
2030 - ???
2040 - ???

[benjm85]

Guys I have a viet gf and she wants to stay in SG. Can I know what are the type of passes that I can apply for her so she can stay alittle longer here? I only know student pass is one of them..