How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[fallen.angel]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro fallen.angel,

Are u sure all the Korean gals there r in their early 20s?

Perhaps there is another Korean joint.

According to a trusted young fren, who had been to a Korean club a few times, all the gals were MILFs, in their late 20s to early 30s. They were not his type n he stopped going even though it won't cost him a penny. His young n wealthy fren was paying all the expenses. I was also invited but decided NOT to waste my precious time, hehe.

Cheers!

Yes, my dearest bro WB, I'm well aware of your taste and preference for SYTs in their early twenties. I posted it to share an alternative to the Havelock Road joints we are so accustomed to. I feel that sometimes, we need to move out of our comfort zone and sail to unchartered waters. OK, we need variety! Everyday eat 回锅肉，水煮鱼，辣子鸡 once a while must eat kimchi right?

Not all are SYTs in their early twenties. There are two older ones – 1972 and 1973 (still, both are younger than me) – but I really like the 1973 one – she carried herself so well and she looks like a Korean actress. Very different from the PRC KTV mms we are so used to. They speak English.

The one who sat with me was born on 30 June 1988 – turns 23 this year (I know the time of birth too but shall not disclose here). She’s tall and carries herself very well. She said she studied in Gotham City before (and have a slight American accent). She told me she likes Hokkien Mee. But she’s slightly tanned, which may not be of your liking. There’s one who looks younger but she didn’t sit with us long enough for me to extract more info.

I’ve seen so many Korean dramas, meeting so many Korean girls and chatting them up was so surreal. In my mind, I was thinking, very good to practice all the skills in bro WB’s thread and try to woo them. They are very different from the PRCs because they are not there to earn the $150/$200 tips but to help bring in the business, there’s no karaoke singing, no distinction of HH/SH, no mamasans. We will need to use a different approach. Its like you are so used to sparring with your fellow TKD buddies and then suddenly you have to spar with a karate practitioner. That’s why I posted it here – this thread is about getting the girls – KTV or not, inside or outside the joint, any joint. So I hope I’ll not be ostracized for being “off-topic”. Like you said – money, investments, etc, they are all related to the topic of getting the girls.


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For those who are interested to know the place, you can PM me and I will reply – I have already replied all the bros who PMed me. Otherwise, the bar/club is named after a Chateau (castle) in Switzerland. The original owners, Koreans, used to stay there and had fond memories. The new management, also Koreans, brought in the girls to help bring in the business to this quaint and cozy little-known place (frequented mainly by Korean businessmen), and tucked away from the hustle and bustle of Club Street.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by MillerV

Gong Xi Fa Cai to all samsters!!!

Bro WB, i guess tiyle aint all important. Its the content of the thread!!!

May all have another wonderful year :

Hi bro MillerV,

Happy CNY to you!!

Long time no see, hahaha. I must hv been to that place in River Valley area 40 plus times since...

Cheers!

Originally Posted by fallen.angel

Yes, my dearest bro WB, I'm well aware of your taste and preference for SYTs in their early twenties. I posted it to share an alternative to the Havelock Road joints we are so accustomed to. I feel that sometimes, we need to move out of our comfort zone and sail to unchartered waters. OK, we need variety! Everyday eat 回锅肉，水煮鱼，辣子鸡 once a while must eat kimchi right?

Not all are SYTs in their early twenties.............They speak English.

The one who sat with me was born on 30 June 1988 – turns 23 this year (I know the time of birth too but shall not disclose here). She’s tall and carries herself very well. She said she studied in Gotham City before (and have a slight American accent)........................ That’s why I posted it here – this thread is about getting the girls – KTV or not, inside or outside the joint, any joint. So I hope I’ll not be ostracized for being “off-topic”. Like you said – money, investments, etc, they are all related to the topic of getting the girls................

My dear bro fallen.angel,

Ths for ur info. I like Korean SYTs but I hv had zero experience w/ them.

Are there any bos here who hv done ST or hv BY-ed Korean gals in SG? Pls share ur experiences w/ us.

Happy CNY to u!!

Bro WB

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Good afternoon!

Spoke w/ FF just now. She assured me that she has reached her 18th birthday according to her passport n that she doesn't drink n is very uncomfortable working at KTVs. She has agreed to be taken care of by me. I need to check her out n verify a few things. We hv not discussed the terms of BY, although she has agreed to wkly payment. She lives very far away from CBD. I need to find time for her...

Let me digress. I think we Orientals worry too much abt "saving face or 面子。“ It's a most useless n harmful habit. According to an Ang Moh guru, it's the result of a combo of ego amok n low self esteem.

Hey bro WB, do you worry a lot?

Industry expert Dan Kennedy said this in
a recent article:

"We cannot allow the worry of
distractions to become the bigger
distraction than the distractions."

Brief side note: old mentor of mine's
statement: "Worriers (and spellers) can
be hired for minimum wage."

A lot of people waste a lot of time and
energy worrying about what others think
of them - which is actually the combo of
ego amok and low self-esteem. Or
worrying about problems that might arise
- which is only useful in context of
strategic planning and proactive
prevention.
______________________
GURU'S COMMENTS:

This is an important lesson to you when
you're out there trying to talk to women
and get this part of your life under
your control.

Worrying is the most USELESS mental
effort you can expend.

It accomplishes NOTHING. Usually worry
immobilizes us so much that we even fail
to PREPARE when we know there is a
chance of the thing we're worrying about
coming true.

Remember what I say about worry:

90% of the things that you worry about
NEVER happen. And 90% of the things that
happen to you never give you the chance
to worry about them.

And re-read Dan Kennedy's statement once
more:

"A lot of people waste a lot of time and
energy worrying about what others think
of them - which is actually the combo of
ego amok and low self-esteem."

Very very true. Amazingly we can be both
egotistical AND insecure at the exact
same time.

If you're in this mindset when you're
talking to a woman, you're not only
ensuring that your conversation will not
arouse her interest, you're also going
to emotionally condition and cripple
yourself in future interactions, because
you'll be practicing the fine art of
MESSING with your own head.

The best state to be in with women is
worry-free, relaxed, and independent of
her judgment and evaluation.

Remember: No woman and no one else can judge you!
They're NOT qualified for this job.

Only YOU are...........................................

Your friend,

XYZ

[Bumpf]

I only stumbled across this thread recently, whilst trying to occupy myself during lulls in CNY activity. How I wish I discovered this cheonging-wisdom much much earlier, distilled and refined from real experiences. Would have saved some heartache and pain from random trial and error.

Big thanks to Bro Warbird, really added some sheen to this CNY season haha!

[jamezwit]

Happy CNY to you bro WB!

Originally Posted by warbird

Spoke w/ FF just now. She assured me that she has reached her 18th birthday according to her passport n that she doesn't drink n is very uncomfortable working at KTVs. She has agreed to be taken care of by me. I need to check her out n verify a few things. We hv not discussed the terms of BY, although she has agreed to wkly payment. She lives very far away from CBD. I need to find time for her...

Personally, the very young are potentially more clingy, so I think you need to set the terms and the termination clause really crystal clear. She also probably very unfamiliar with Singapore locale and may bug you more often for normal day-to-day things that a more mature lady can take care of themselves. I remember a case of a gal who keeps asking me how to go meet me, and after I agreed to go fetch her, she gave me the name of the LRT station in Chinese name, how do I know the Chinese name of the LRT station is which LRT in English since the pronounciation could mean one of two, argh!?!

Originally Posted by warbird

Let me digress. I think we Orientals worry too much abt "saving face or 面子。“ It's a most useless n harmful habit. According to an Ang Moh guru, it's the result of a combo of ego amok n low self esteem.


The best state to be in with women is
worry-free, relaxed, and independent of
her judgment and evaluation.

Remember: No woman and no one else can judge you!
They're NOT qualified for this job.

Only YOU are...........................................

Good sharing, thanks Sifu.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by warbird

Spoke w/ FF just now. She assured me that she has reached her 18th birthday according to her passport n that she doesn't drink n is very uncomfortable working at KTVs. She has agreed to be taken care of by me. I need to check her out n verify a few things. We hv not discussed the terms of BY, although she has agreed to wkly payment. She lives very far away from CBD. I need to find time for her...

Bro WB,

Just a word of caution, young gals are very easy to up and keep but when u try to get rid of them, usually all hell breaks loose.

My past experiences with three 18 yr old gals (PRC, Thai, Viet) in the past all ended up as disaster limitation exercises when I decided to break off with them.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by teebs_darklord

Bro WB,

Just a word of caution, young gals are very easy to up and keep but when u try to get rid of them, usually all hell breaks loose.

My past experiences with three 18 yr old gals (PRC, Thai, Viet) in the past all ended up as disaster limitation exercises when I decided to break off with them.

Bro, my 2 cents worth if u dun mind.
U dun break up wif WLs, you just dump them and move on and do not allow any emotional blackmails watsoever.
If they wish to go crazy, let them ,just dun show them that what they're doin is affecting you in any way.

[teebs_darklord]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro, my 2 cents worth if u dun mind.
U dun break up wif WLs, you just dump them and move on and do not allow any emotional blackmails watsoever.
If they wish to go crazy, let them ,just dun show them that what they're doin is affecting you in any way.

Yes, I know that and I always do that...but with younger gals, sometimes things don't turn out the way you expect...

Anyway, these happened donkey years ago so hopefully young gals these days won't do the stupid things that those three idiots did...

[Dragonkeep]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Bro, my 2 cents worth if u dun mind.
U dun break up wif WLs, you just dump them and move on and do not allow any emotional blackmails watsoever.
If they wish to go crazy, let them ,just dun show them that what they're doin is affecting you in any way.

Hence, never disclose our full identities/ addressess or heaven forbid home/ office nos. I had a v v v good tip from Sammyboy site in 2004 and I have a chee hong SIM card that I use for all ECA - never ever, will I disclose my real nos. or even give these women my biz card ... my current China baoee is a realistic sort n has said that if we wanna end, just dun betray her but tell her straight, the one before wa lou, cut wrist type and kenna hospitalised even. That's now history. That's one reason why I kept my long time baos outside the country and am v concerned over getting too serious back here in SG ...

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

Spoke w/ FF just now. She assured me that she has reached her 18th birthday according to her passport n that she doesn't drink n is very uncomfortable working at KTVs. She has agreed to be taken care of by me. I need to check her out n verify a few things. We hv not discussed the terms of BY, although she has agreed to wkly payment. She lives very far away from CBD. I need to find time for her...

Bro WB, I do not quite understand the concern over her age. The legal age for carnal relations in Singapore is 16 (Section 140(1)), so you should be quite safe as long as she is more than 16.

On the other hand, I really cannot understand why anyone would want to go for girls rather than women...

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by Dragonkeep

Hence, never disclose our full identities/ addressess or heaven forbid home/ office nos. I had a v v v good tip from Sammyboy site in 2004 and I have a chee hong SIM card that I use for all ECA - never ever, will I disclose my real nos. or even give these women my biz card ... my current China baoee is a realistic sort n has said that if we wanna end, just dun betray her but tell her straight, the one before wa lou, cut wrist type and kenna hospitalised even. That's now history. That's one reason why I kept my long time baos outside the country and am v concerned over getting too serious back here in SG ...

Yeah, I have a similar experience too. Chinese women can be crazy. Hence, be very, very careful and try not to get emotionally entangled with them, or to get them emotionally entangled with you.

[seaman6969]

Originally Posted by chenzong

Bro WB, I do not quite understand the concern over her age. The legal age for carnal relations in Singapore is 16 (Section 140(1)), so you should be quite safe as long as she is more than 16.

On the other hand, I really cannot understand why anyone would want to go for girls rather than women...

I tend to agree. Having come across the really young ones, I find that I'm unable to make any meaningful emotional or intellectual connection - which diminishes the romantic connection as well. However, this is generalizing and I'm sure there are exceptions. Youth also has its allure and different strokes for different people. Variety is the spice of life.

[songest]

Bro WB,
Many bros have raise their flags. Allow me to add my 2 cents...
Baoyees that are at such tender age is a no-no. U can covet for their fresh young meat but their emotional maturity and ability to deal with a breakup dump is unpredictable. They react based on what they think and not what we think. Taking umpteenth precautions during the bao period - to mitigate against ugly separation, somewhat negates the pleasure the baoying experience brings.
If in need of fresh young meat, ST/LT is an avenue. For baoyees, min age 21. Some may have success with younger ones, the failed ones may not have been well publicised (similar to hearing stories about one making a killing at the stock market, and not hearing many had lost a fortune).

[fallen.angel]

I beg to differ. It is a complex thing and there are many factors involved.

Age-related: For very young ones, they know they still have time and 青春 (youth) on their side. They can just move on and find a better catch. And they know their odds are in their favor. Older ones know that their chances are slim because their biological clock is a’ticking so they want to stick to the guy at all cost.

Non-age related: If the baoyee finds that her baoyer is a good catch and is a very nice person and she genuinely likes him, she’ll put up a fight and try all ways to prevent being dumped. If she feels cheated, in any way, in the BY relationship, she’ll try to seek revenge. If she is nonchalant about the relationship, then a break off will be amicable. Sometimes, if she finds that she’s being ill-treated or short-changed, she can be the one initiating the break off.

It also depends on the character of the girl – is she vengeful in nature? But still, we need to be very careful cos as the saying goes… hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by chenzong

Bro WB, I do not quite understand the concern over her age. The legal age for carnal relations in Singapore is 16 (Section 140(1)), so you should be quite safe as long as she is more than 16.

On the other hand, I really cannot understand why anyone would want to go for girls rather than women...

Hi Bros, would like to elaborate on this...if there is any monetary exchange...the legal age is 18....I do not know if being BY as opposed to ST is consider monetary exchange or not....maybe the legal eagles in this thread can enlighten us....

[MoralEpitome]

Some bros like such fresh young girls because since ancient times it is believed that bonking such fresh young girls is good for health and virility and some manipulates these young girls as they are relatively inexperience....personally I do not think it's purely the age but the level of maturity of the girl...for example I had bonked 20 year old girls who are more mature than me because they have been working since 15 years old in china and she knows how to suck my cock like a vetaran...

But personally on the basis of probability I prefer girls around 24 years old...good mix of maturity, communication, experience and still quite fresh...