Why do i cheong?

[Sorin^^]

Yah, Bro very true indeed. Sometimes, i tink if i got married someday, i will stop going to GL. But that is not going to become true... Bachelor now and forever...I try to stop and have refrained from going for almost 6 months.Life seems lonely for me. I hope i live my life for myself n my family and not for paid sex...short-term enjoyments...But every now and then i haf got the urge to go GL...(i full-fledged male mah haiz...)

Indeed, coming here made me realise where i have gone and made me real guilty.

Hope us brothers who wana quite can quit with ease...

[wolverman]

Bro, its easy to agree with you guys. But do we have the will to stop bonking? Just make sure we practice SAFE SEX! No bbbj! No Ass ram! And definitely NO RAW!!!

[Sorin^^]

Bro,

Yup, good to hear from you bout this. Wana go down to GL hopefully as long as there is safe sex it will be fine. Last time, went down there, i haven said anything, the WL already stuffed her mouth wif my prick already...Its like ops, i wanted to safe bj but ...she did juz tat so i bopian dun wana make her paiseh.hahaha

Yah, Safe and Protected Sex should be fine. Heard from Counsellor at AFA that those at GL are safer than PRC, as the former are checked periodically.


Best Regards

[jinrenhe]

Originally Posted by Huluman

Bro I agree...
I have the same feeling, i have stopped for like a year already and i intend to keep it that way till i die. Reason being if you spend a day thinking about it...you have your life ahead of you and one little virus is all it takes to bring that all down with disgrace and death. .... think about your family friends and what you could have achieve....for those even more irresponsible if they do it when they are married with kids...people know this...is immoral, sinful, barbaric but generally through the feeling of "everyone is doing it" attitude they just proceed ...and thus depend on a piece of 0.03mm latex to decide whether they live or die horribly...what do you think ...i suggest whenever you have the urge just log into this forum and come to this thread ....you will lose the urge...i had a close friend died due to full blown AIDS and he went for commercial sex 6 times....that was all it took

Originally Posted by Huluman

U crazy fuck, two guys kena HIV from BBJ due to ulcers (Guess) from the WL's mouth....many (hundreds) got STDs (mainly syphilis) from Geylang Wls....i was working in Kelantan Lane clinic...out of the Gals that come to test 40% Gonorhea 20% Syphilis 10% HepB and 2% Pregnant....
U have the highest chance of getting STDs and HIV ...

Cut the crap... tryin to act like a "been there, done that" experienced chiongster...

U are downrite disgusting... I presume u are prob too poor to even paid for commercialized sex, hence bearing a grudge against eveyone who does so..

U work in Kelantan clinic?? Why wld they allow such a insensitive, mentally unsound guy to work there??

I can do w/o ur malicious pm... FUCK YOU

[reube]

I have been abstaining commercial sex for more than 1 mth liao after my last debacle...

But recently the urge to start again is getting stronger these few days. Have tried all possible means to keep myself sane, like exercising, working myself like a slave and not forgetting the most primitive mean, pcc.

Nothing seems to work and my resistance is wearing thin. Saw the posts of a few bros here who have quited successfully. Can you bros, share the secrets pls?

Many thanks

[Huluman]

Originally Posted by reube

I have been abstaining commercial sex for more than 1 mth liao after my last debacle...

But recently the urge to start again is getting stronger these few days. Have tried all possible means to keep myself sane, like exercising, working myself like a slave and not forgetting the most primitive mean, pcc.

Nothing seems to work and my resistance is wearing thin. Saw the posts of a few bros here who have quited successfully. Can you bros, share the secrets pls?

Many thanks

get a new hobby...like car modification...that made sure u got no time and $

[Sorin^^]

Hi Bro,

Sighz, after a visit to AFA todae wif my fd, tested negative...Hmmm, after that, me n fd felt horny abit..then decided to go GL...Sighz

I told the counsellor, relli cant find gf..cos gals like avoiding me when i wana talk to them and get to know them better. Told him i wont be able to get a gf liaoz, and maybe have to be single forever. I then asked him, i have been fighting a losing battle to go GL. Then the counsellor, a nice angmo guy said its ok to go GL. cos GL always come to AFA for check up, not like PRCs(sorry bros if i mention this) whom dun come for checks. Anyway, he said Safe Sex is Best, protected BJ and FJ is the best protection. Aiyoh...i tot i wanted to stop going to GL. After todae...i tink i have to wait for another 3 months to go for AFA check-up again.

Todae, went to GL, and indeed have protected BJ and FJ finally(last time used to go for bbbj)

Bopian, have to fight loneliness, plus no gals want me lehz...Maybe got lotsa female fds, but gfs maybe no cos me no looks and style...


Bros, still hope we can quite with ease...

Hi,

I just started early this year.
Didn't expect this to happen at HC. I exercise a lot and muscles ache so I went for HC. Really blur. This same gal I see - she was good - kept asking me `special' until I so curious, I said `Yes' on the 3rd visit.

Wish I never do with her and some others after that.
Regret. The high I thot I would get was not there. Not as excitg as I thot. Maybe b'cos the gals are strangers and I feel nothing for them.
But I like this first gal at HC and still seeing her. But must control as I am being drained dry.

I go for the company and loneliness. Had gf for 3 years ago but she left me after 1 year.
I think it is possible not to go since I have been doing so for many years. But I want a gf to talk to be with and not to bonk.

I am one damn lonely man. Only play PC games on Sat.

[Sorin^^]

Originally Posted by Adam77

Hi,
I go for the company and loneliness. Had gf for 3 years ago but she left me after 1 year.
I think it is possible not to go since I have been doing so for many years. But I want a gf to talk to be with and not to bonk.

I am one damn lonely man. Only play PC games on Sat.

Hi Bro,

Wah, mine situation is same as urs, weekends watch soccer and ps2 only. No gfs, so cheong with fds at GL. Need to fight loneliness and cuddle up to WLs n treat them like gfs.


Cheers

[redlord]

Originally Posted by Sorin^^

Hi Bro,

Wah, mine situation is same as urs, weekends watch soccer and ps2 only. No gfs, so cheong with fds at GL. Need to fight loneliness and cuddle up to WLs n treat them like gfs.


Cheers

wah, always advice some one to go GL ,did you go after gals or not? so bad later becoming like me than having big matter of issue ...fight loneliness? many years until today ,yes ...and most my friends got marrige and left only me .....free time come out for kopi la ........since all single .....

[Sorin^^]

Originally Posted by redlord

wah, always advice some one to go GL ,did you go after gals or not? so bad later becoming like me than having big matter of issue ...fight loneliness? many years until today ,yes ...and most my friends got marrige and left only me .....free time come out for kopi la ........since all single .....

Hi Bro, Hehe, no lah, i not advising him to go GL. Jus telling him that me too very lonely thats y goin GL(me trying to cut down on goin GL now). I tried to go after gals, but they not interested in me. I gave up on looking for gfs liaoz n i dun wana look like im a despo.sighz...

So once in a while, i will go recce wif my brudders to GL. Earlier on in the thread on Morality/Ethics on Prostitution, i oso agree wif the brudders there...Singaporeans women relli different from others. So i remaining single liaoz.concentrate on earning money cos now too ah leong


Best Rgds

Thanks Sorin.

Many lonely men out there like me. Play PC games on Sat night.
But I prefer outdoor sports - healthy and meet suntan babes.

But still I like HC b'cos I tink value for money. Not s** but company of beautiful women. So I am picky.
I always ask at new counter`Can the gal massage or not ? Dun waste my time ( and $$ )' .
Some misses some score. If massage no good, I record gal's name and place and dun go anymore.

I think I got good control genes and that is why I never `chiong' for over 30 years. Got strong desire but ok I go run to drain it off.
But must run hard hard.. until I drop ... pant pant pant... satifaction

[Sorin^^]

Originally Posted by Adam77

I think I got good control genes and that is why I never `chiong' for over 30 years. Got strong desire but ok I go run to drain it off.
But must run hard hard.. until I drop ... pant pant pant... satifaction

Hi Bro, wah, tink i must follow ur steps, go running and go gym to be disciplined. Bro, so u mean u haf been single all the while? Its relli strong of u to resist HC gals. Tink i may give way manz..Yah, some HC gals cannot massage one, only there to pop golden question...

Time to refrain from goin GL

Cheers

[redlord]

Originally Posted by Sorin^^

Hi Bro, Hehe, no lah, i not advising him to go GL. Jus telling him that me too very lonely thats y goin GL(me trying to cut down on goin GL now). I tried to go after gals, but they not interested in me. I gave up on looking for gfs liaoz n i dun wana look like im a despo.sighz...

So once in a while, i will go recce wif my brudders to GL. Earlier on in the thread on Morality/Ethics on Prostitution, i oso agree wif the brudders there...Singaporeans women relli different from others. So i remaining single liaoz.concentrate on earning money cos now too ah leong


Best Rgds

yes sing woman is different from other country ,as i wroking in eurp many gals after no problem but singapore i see they too proud lol , for me always go for gorgeous woman so i have many problem ,well if you dont mind those "not so pretty" gals should not have any problem but talk too much .....boring expecally chinese looks ,beauty very beauty ,ugly very ugly ,i'm a chinese but i like only mix blood ,thais , farang (ang moh) lady .
well ,basically i have this mind problem because when i was a businessman ...enjoy too much "gorgeous" women ,in young time ,in eurp ...wow i enjoy all different race in the world .
overall singapore lady is not so beatiful for me ,no slove........i hate myself ....puth

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by Huluman

i had a close friend died due to full blown AIDS and he went for commercial sex 6 times....that was all it took

from your other posts, seems like you have many friends who got Aids or HIV etc... no offence but are you bad luck or what?