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#316
11-10-2006, 06:06 PM
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Re: How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?
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Your story dam sad. Up you to make you feel better! 
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#317
11-10-2006, 11:38 PM
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a) At all times, upkeep yourself well. By that, I mean, maintain your shappy body, your look and your dressing. Don't think that, "Oh, I am married and at home, just wear shabbly will do." b) Change your hair-style, sometimes long hair, collar hair etc. Basically, make yourself look refreshing... c) Learn to cook delicious food. When you can cook your man will like to come back for meal. d) Don't make yourself cheap by taking the initiative. Sometimes, you have to play hard to get. There must be some element of surprises. e) Try doing things together and get involve in his activities. f) Start and build your own saving. You won't know when you have to stand on your own feet!
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#318
11-10-2006, 11:59 PM
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Re: How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?
believe it or not. but its not all about sex. i would gladly give up sex (or reduce frequency
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#319
12-10-2006, 01:13 AM
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Same pathetic case here
. I am also vexed and absolutely pissed with my wifey's lack of enthusiasm for sex. I can basically count with the fingers on my hands the number of times she had initiated sex in our 2 yrs of marriage. I have to to the request/coax/beg shit everytime i need to release. Then there are the rejections because she has ulcer, because she is tired, blah blah blah. On many occasions, i have told her subtlely that it is important to maintain a heathy sex relationship and all this takes effort. Cannot always just leave it to mood; more so when half the time she is too tired. And the most frustrating part is that she will spend time doing some other stuff when she has energy. Like just now, she surf net until very tired then go to sleep evn though we had not made love for a week She should have made a conscientious effort to stop her activities early and initiate something. ( i donno if this is the right thing).I have expressed my frustrations to her. I even told her she is not fulfilling her duties and she had apologised. But what's the use? After a couple of days, she will forget her promise to improve . I am the very affectionate type. Every morning, i will plant a soft kiss on her forehead and tell her she is beautiful. I enjoy snuggles and cuddles and do this often. But i also notice that physical contact like that will inadvertably result in some sexual desires. When i read comments from people like Jemz etc.. trying hard to please their men, i lament on my bad luck and wonder wats wrong. My wifey's a taker and not a giver. She is a really nice woman so sometimes i think use the commercial sex to fulfil my desires and come home to a nice family. But i have the fear that this will result in a tragedy. Either getting STD or really so addicted to paid sex that i find my wifey boring. I am so bottled up with deep resentment and frustrations i wonder when the nuclear in me will blow.  Sigh..Which explains why i am hanging around in this forum..at this time.. Anyway, thanks to the bros who have contributed generously all the video clips and stuff. Really a good alternative to release my load. Hehheh.... Last edited by tobby; 12-10-2006 at 01:25 AM.
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#320
12-10-2006, 11:58 AM
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#321
12-10-2006, 01:16 PM
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I am only putting up a general case. I am also sometimes fustrated that I have tried many times to do anal with my gf. Until she told me about how some people just can't do certain things, then I realised I was fantasising and watching/reading too much. BUT, WILL KEEP TRYING .. haha... Anyway, thanks for the blessings .. I had doubts initially, but I think I have slowly overcome the fear .. can only hope lightning don't strike twice at the same place (person).. haha
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#322
12-10-2006, 03:29 PM
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JUst had sex with my wife a min ago... hehehe Anybody here manage 2 families???? Sigh
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12-10-2006, 03:34 PM
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JUst had sex with my wife a min ago... hehehe Anybody here manage 2 families???? Sigh
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#324
12-10-2006, 04:02 PM
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Then last night when I tried to arouse her, she said "Aunty came!" Sianz man... Got to PCC again  I don't mind at least if they allow us to openly eat outside lah. Want to eat outside, scare kenna caught or bring back diseases. 
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#325
12-10-2006, 04:10 PM
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What is happening ?
If that is the situation, then better not get married. I know some gals refused to even let their hubbies touch them, and they willing to let other men do them.
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#326
12-10-2006, 05:14 PM
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-------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hey Bro Vistaman, dun give up, man!!! we must always have HOPE. just keep on communicating wif yr wife, tell her what u think and what u like.u also show her the same concern and shower her the same attention and i m sure she will reciprociate. all the best
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#327
12-10-2006, 05:24 PM
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Yoh Bro Tobby, Same advice for ya. Dun give up HOPE!!!! Keep on communicating and showering yr love...... anyway, yr form of release in this forum is gd way... aft release then u will feel better, n not do frustrated and den realize family is still family. i oso use this to relax n enjy myself and hv the same feeling after release load!!!...tks to all who provide the gd stuff!!!
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#328
12-10-2006, 05:57 PM
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4/7/12: Cleared my inbox. Can send me message again. Ran with hot pink FBT shorts, inner netting removed, can feel so many eyes ogling at my long fleshy legs. Selective lady who is nymphomaniac and like to wear sexy when clubbing. Message/Add me as contact to club together.
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#329
12-10-2006, 06:30 PM
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She is patient and gives in to me when i am in a foul mood. She makes it a point to return home by 12 midnight if she does go out with friends ( abit like cinderella). Partying is almost non existence. ( this is especially important to me because i am quite traditional) For the records, i have visited Disco for only 3 times in my life. Yes, no typo error. Just 3 times and 2 were company functions while the other one was with my wifey. Bet of all, she stuck with me even when i was a poor army boy. We actually 'pat tor' for 7 yrs before marriage. I am in my early 30 if that question is at the back of your mind.
Nowadays, very hard to find someone who doesn't party. And my wifey is a very sweet looking girl. Fair with nice fingers and toes( my fetish). Cannot show her photos though cos i think it is appropriate to keep it confidential. Quote:
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#330
12-10-2006, 07:41 PM
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then she still dun want sex ah?
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4/7/12: Cleared my inbox. Can send me message again. Ran with hot pink FBT shorts, inner netting removed, can feel so many eyes ogling at my long fleshy legs. Selective lady who is nymphomaniac and like to wear sexy when clubbing. Message/Add me as contact to club together.
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Quite thoughtful of her...
