Can it be a cheating

[Forget]

Originally Posted by euritage

can be cheating... can be real...

go get someone who's good in body language and logic and tlk to her and look for loopholes in her story if you think ur "lie detector" isn't good enuff...

i honestly have a bad feeling for most WLs... but... there are some genuine ones out there... dun classify them all... not fair bros!

Brother, you're right that it can be cheating or real, or mixture of both. No doubt that she came from a very poor family and need to bring money back to her parents. That why she choose to come over to singapore to work. My understanding is that some of the vietnam girls come over to work only know what type of job waiting for them when they are here. Same for those from china. I have a feeling that she might be hidding something from me, but it might not be what we think. There are more story she told me about herself and her detail I not convenience to share here. She don't have many sister I can speak to and they might not know more than me as she only work here for 2 months. Anyway, I don't hope to hear much from them as they might not want to tell me or what they told me might not be true. Until now, I still don't know who actually brought her here. There are things she want to tell me and there are things she do not want to talk. I just hope that she don't go back the old way even I can't take care of her one day. Infact I don't expect any return when I decided to help her at the early place. I know it sound stupid and unbelieveable. But that is me. Anyway I still failed the temptation.

[flowerpot]

Bro...

i know its painful to hear all kinds of negative comments from bros here...

i feel your pain....

i have a foreign gf but not from vietnam. and we have been together for more than 2 years, yet im still asking myself, what she wans from me...

is it true love? or is it something else...

2 years is still not enough for me to trust her...

so give yourself more time..... as long as u dun pay big money...

go on n find out... or at least pay when it does'nt affect your life...

all the best...

[etct88]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you believe a girl working in a freakin' KTV joint can be a VIRGIN, you'll probably believe the moon is made of green cheese.

She's probably the biggest bullshitter you're ever likely to come across. Why on earth are you calling her daily??? Don't you have better things to do with your money... like helping some poor old folks who can't afford a decent meal.

Yes, for him, till now, the moon is made of greenish cheese

TS is part of biggest collection of bullshit.

thought screw holydays are over????

[starstar]

The poison had went deep into your heart and brains, no one can help you except yourself. At the end of the day, if you're still willing to, do please update us on the outcome. I sincerely wish you all the best in whatever path you are going to take.

[BKnight]

bro forget, just be prepared because once you choose hope, anything's possible. it is better to think with your mind (judgement) than think with hope (desire). good luck.

[tikokeong]

Bro TS, so how is things going now.Care to share?

[NewandLost]

Braddah, whether it is cheating or not, lies or no lies, to go on like you do is painful. You tell me something more tough than keeping a relationship with a girl who could be lying to you? Not your job or any school or you family take you through anything worse but she can also destroy any or all three of those so you need to be careful.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Forget

Brother, you're right that it can be cheating or real, or mixture of both.......... I just hope that she don't go back the old way even I can't take care of her one day. Infact I don't expect any return when I decided to help her at the early place. I know it sound stupid and unbelieveable. But that is me. Anyway I still failed the temptation.

2 months pass since your last posting. How is the r/s with her now?
Do what your heart tells you to do... but at the end of the day don't regret.

When I started of with my number1 g/f, I also have lots of quries. I recieve both postive and negative remarks. But at the end of the day, I decide my own and she is with me for 3 years now. Initially, there some 'white lies' here and there but she got her reason. If you are suspicious and never comfortable, there is no point continuing.

[everlasty]

Sorry to interrupt..
Cos I forgot the english name of this illness.. 'Vietnam flower'越南之花

need some enlightenment.. since this thread suddenly so hot.. Hope more bros can help me out.. Really sorry..
P.S. I dont have this disease.. lol.. enquiry knowledge purposes..

[lihaojunn]

TS,

Fight for your happiness if you have the ability and have a direction. Give up immediately if it is too much for you. I would not say your viet gf is cheating on you or not. We are outsiders so we cant judge for you.

I did ask my BX, and yes she told me got some virgin gals from vietnam come to Singapore to work in ktv , they are prepared to come here to sell off their virgin for thousands of bucks, but who in Singapore willing to fork out that amount to buy the virginity?

Just an encouragement from me as I did have a wonderful viet bx who was previously a WL. Not all viet gals are here to cheat, yes there are some, but there are also others who are willing to quit the scene once they meet their real half. (Lucky me as I met an honest one with no financial burden in her hometown).

My BX wants to give you this advice: " If you really love her, do not be bothered by her past. Why would you want to keep thinking if she is cheating on you? Mutual trust between couples lead a blissFUL relationship. If life between you and her is doing fine now without any financial stress burden, just carry on with your love story. Unless she is asking more and more from you, with crap reasons each time (you should be able to sense it if it does happen), then you should be hard hearted to put a stop to that."

Some bros here asked you the language she speaks with you to judge if she is cheating you. Do not use language spoken to judge that, I had been to Vietnam more than you, in fact many vietnamese do know how to speak Mandarin, Cantonese and even Hokkien. And I also do know how to speak and write Tieng Viet but It do not imply that I am out here to cheat on viet lady. My BX knows how to speak fluent Mandarin when I first know her, even when i went to her hometown, her parents and siblings also know minor Mandarin. (Come on they are Viet Chinese!)

It would be best if you can pay her hometown a visit one day with her. You would understand why I say so.... Anyway, my heartiest blessing to you!

[Chinapuss]

De Viets...De Prcs....all same story....maybe all of em study frm same school...say some sad stories to sillypore men...kC as much as possible and at de end of de day sillypore men left with broken hearts and dreamz...de Whores then laughed to thier hearts content for sillyporemen stupidity....Juz be wary and careful however i've heard of true love stories between de Thais and sillyporemen.

[sgp1ting]

Hi Bro,

If you love her, you take the risk. Maybe she love you too, but she also need $ as that is why she was here.

If you love her, you go against all the negative advices; family, friends, and many assholes.

When you found happiness finally. Everyone will envy you.

However, if you fall. You have to picked up on your own, maybe with a couple of good friends.

I wish you all the best.

= )

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by Chinapuss

De Viets...De Prcs....all same story....maybe all of em study frm same school...say some sad stories to sillypore men...kC as much as possible and at de end of de day sillypore men left with broken hearts and dreamz...de Whores then laughed to thier hearts content for sillyporemen stupidity....Juz be wary and careful however i've heard of true love stories between de Thais and sillyporemen.

Braddah, little white lies and some KC to help herself is OK but to strip a SG man of his entire savings, destroy family and big lies to help herself are pure evil. Even in SG you see the poorest people young or old. They might beg and lose face to fellow SG person but they would not hurt someone to help themselves. I have more respect and forgiveness for someone that pick pocket or rob somebody, even beat them up to take wallet or purse than some woman KC a man and know they do this from the beginning. My advice is to avoid the situation. Best course of action braddah.

[xyman]

It could be an operation gone wrong.....how her voice sound like? her breast le? real or fake, seems like a ladyboy.....

Originally Posted by BKnight

bro, how you think of the words in bold?

1) shy but not shy to work in ktv
2) hole extraordinary tight
3) you have trouble finding it at the usual spot
4) she dont want you to see her naked

i am not thinking whether she is serious in the relationship or whether she is trying to cheat your money..something else. from your past experience, do you suspect anything not right that night? perhaps both of you were nervous on 1st bonk together that night..and i sincerely hope its not what i am thinking.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by everlasty

Sorry to interrupt..
Cos I forgot the english name of this illness.. 'Vietnam flower'越南之花

need some enlightenment.. since this thread suddenly so hot.. Hope more bros can help me out.. Really sorry..
P.S. I dont have this disease.. lol.. enquiry knowledge purposes..

It is called Vietnam Rose, 越南玫瑰。