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[Helsinkg]

PRC girl always:
1. have love, no money, they will leave you;
2. have money, no love, they also leave you after you can't affort to give her
3. Unless, you have money and she really like you, she will stay beside you

NO MONEY, NO HONEY!

I already kana all this last month, very painful.... brother!

[Cheri_Popper]

Get the gal to pay you instead of you paying her!

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Helsinkg

PRC girl always:
1. have love, no money, they will leave you;
2. have money, no love, they also leave you after you can't affort to give her
3. Unless, you have money and she really like you, she will stay beside you

for me its case no.1 man,somemore she frm Shanghai which is well-known for super materialistic gals.anyway,its over after a week of accquitance.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

for me its case no.1 man,somemore she frm Shanghai which is well-known for super materialistic gals.anyway,its over after a week of accquitance.

Me too, it is case No. 1. She is from Jilin. It's over after 8 months. So, not only Shanghainese girls are materialistics. Most, if not all of them.

They are here to make money, but not into romance.

Now, any relationship with them, it one time payment and off most of the time.

Regards

PTR

[newbadass]

The problem as I see it is with Singapore men themselves.

PRCs come here for money. It's a fact that's carved in stone. Actually their lives would be very simple - earn money, go home. For some reason, we choose to complicate their lives with pretty but ultimately useless sentiments but don't want to pay them what they would be earning. So in effect, we expect them to make a loss in order to fulfil our needs.

Are we worth it? Take a good look in the mirror and measure yourselves honestly. Can anyone here claim that he is extraordinarily good-looking with rock-hard abs AND a gigolo's degree in pleasing women? No, most of the time we're plain or just fucking ugly, out of shape, wife and kids at home...

Are our expectations realistic? If they were, we wouldn't be starting all this relationship nonsense in the first place. Let's be mature about all this and simply admit that we brought it all upon ourselves.

[Ah Seng]

Dunno abt these..but I do ve a relatives whom he met a china gal at one of the McDonald in Sg.She doesn't mind him having no money and also giving him allowances occasionally.(I should say he's average looking mid 30s guy)

[castaway]

Hi i think i need some advice from u bros..
Last saturday, i went to gl for a bonk, was looking around til i saw this pretty prc fl. I was immediately attracted and up we went to hotel. I tcss with her, telling her dat if i can't find a wife, i would wanna marry her( i think i was half joking). She laughed and asked me if i will go china to find her. i say i would if i really can't find wife. However she say she wouln't wanna marry oversea, prefer to live in China. she ask my age(which is 21 yrs old), and she is only 20

After the session, i took her contact, and den we parted. However, for the next day i can't stop thinking of her. This is not the 1st time i go Gl, and i could say i have bonk better quality gals then her, but it was her personality dat attracted me. And she is only 20! Such young age she have to be fl, thinking of this made me so sad...

Den 2 days after the 1st session, i went back to find her. She recoginised me and smiled at me. In the room we tcss, i asked her why she is in sg. Den she told me dat she was actually conned here! She was workin in china as ktc hostess,but she said she only entertain dun go to bed with customers. A guy from a syndicate said she was pretty and ask to work in sg( i can't remember what job), but he didn't said she was to be fl. They help her issue passport and, suddenly she was told she has breach the contract! She have to pay a fine of 20K RMB, and she have to pay back the fine by working here as a fl!

I was totally shocked. She told me she was very stressed. I suggest ways for her to quit this, but the syndicate have her address in Chian, which her parents dun noe she is fl.She didn't ask for my help, and she told me she will work here 2 pay back the money. I told her i really want to help her, but i simply dun have the money. But i told her i will find her in china, once my career stable, bout 1 or 2 yrs later. Den i took her contact in china, and i have gave her my hp and address, so we can keep in contact though mail.

I feel that since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

[Cheri_Popper]

Originally Posted by castaway

Hi i think i need some advice from u bros..

Don't waste your time. Just bonk and forget. Don't believe everything they tell you. So many of us had fallen into their KC trap. Do you want to be the next statistic?!

[suckcock]

Ask her gal to go and eat shit la, pay what fen shou fei!

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by castaway

I feel that since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

Bro,

A Kum Cheng trap in the making. They are here to make money and not enter into romantic relationship. Their problems are usually bottomless pit, speaking from experience.

Let me recount an incident. A girl from Harbin whom I knew in Beijing was with me for few months. She asked me to help her to set up a business in Beijing saying that other than that, she had no way to earn income. She said her mother was in Harbin and she needed to support her. She even showed me her mother's photograph. I nearly was bought into the story.

I remained cool and though about it. I did the mathematics, okay. here it goes: It is about setting up a store near the Beijing Zoo where you still can find many stores selling clothings in bulk qualities. She needed RMB 100,000 to sub-let a store, then maybe another RMB 100,000 to buy goods. If the business does not do well, or if she wanted to expand her business, another RMB 50,000, and..... Oh yes, she needed to pay rent to her apartment, dailing expenses... and so on... All paths lead to a Bottonless pit. I pulled out from the relation, even though she tried all means to persuade, urge and threat, to retain me to be on her side.

The whole thing started by a simple and casual request from her "I need to start a business, can you support me RMB 100,000!" She did not even mention what will be followed (as stated above). Luckily, I had many friends in Beijing to help me do the maths and to cool me down.

Brother, just Be-friend her, bed her and bid farewell to her. My 3B's principle.

With best regards

PTR

[like2bonk]

Originally Posted by castaway

Hi i think i need some advice from u bros..
Last saturday, i went to gl for a bonk, was looking around til i saw this pretty prc fl. ...since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

You are correct in thinking of earning more money and building your career. But think a bit more when you have made your moeny. There are lots of such unbelievable stories around. This girl is at least honest enough to tell u she works in a no-da bao ktv in China. But bro, this girl will have colleagues who will sleep with their customers by private arrangements, getting tens of thousands per month. She will be tempted. She may not sleep with all her customers but she is likely to sleep with a few super nice, super generous or handsome customers. Then the usual mother sick, father in debt, brother in prison and sister pregnant reasons that will make her sleep with more and more customers and earn more money. In Sg, she would have slept with probably a hundred men by the time she returns home.

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by castaway

I feel that since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....

Is my thinking correct? pls advise me bros...

It's good for a man to have aspirations. With regards to building your career, I fully support that kind of thinking.

But please, do it for the right reasons. Do it so that you will have a better quality of life for yourself, your loved ones and your descendants. Do it so that you have something positive to teach your kids in the future. Don't do it just so that you can be a hero to a Geylang prostitute.

[RaymndTan]

Originally Posted by castaway

I feel that since i met her, i am not very keen to go gl after knowing her plight. I am motivated now to bulid my career, hoping 1 day i can find her in china, help to solve her problems. Den from there, i would evaluate if she is the right girl i should go for....
..

There are so many who come here to work as FL and have their own set of problems. How many can you help ?

[EtherC]

Never ceases to amaze me that there are always quite a few "chai tao" in the making. Almost everyone of these FLs have their own sob story. Massive gambling debts, sick relative, kenna conned, supporting siblings for study etc you can name it they will say it. These PRC are either 老江湖 or taught by some 老江湖 so just F#$k & F#$k off. If cannot forget after you F#$k off go F#$k her until you sian liao then F#$k off. Movie treat and supper good enough liao to humor them into getting better F#$ks. Why ask for trouble by seeking permanence in a fleeting fling? 天涯何处无芳草 man!

[Wingless Angel]

Originally Posted by EtherC

Never ceases to amaze me that there are always quite a few "chai tao" in the making. Almost everyone of these FLs have their own sob story. Massive gambling debts, sick relative, kenna conned, supporting siblings for study etc you can name it they will say it. These PRC are either 老江湖 or taught by some 老江湖 so just F#$k & F#$k off. If cannot forget after you F#$k off go F#$k her until you sian liao then F#$k off. Movie treat and supper good enough liao to humor them into getting better F#$ks. Why ask for trouble by seeking permanence in a fleeting fling? 天涯何处无芳草 man!

Agreed! Agreed!
Ever met a girl who came and met a guy who claimed he taught her how to make more money from the "Carrotheads", tell sympathetic stories to make men's heart melt etc

Alas when she decided enough is enough and she wants out, he boldly tells her that he will report her to authorities and she will be caught and sent off. Even demanded the "broke-off fee"

A lamer! A cheongster wannabe trying to get freebies from a working girl. The girl just challenged him, expose me? How did you get me into Singapore?
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