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16-09-2006, 07:04 PM
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same case here... wife always say tired. Ask her reason say she dun like to do it... although i quoted 1 month, but i really did not count.. never bother to count nowadays..haha few times fight big big over this issue... but never ever settle for an answer. Since have kids like so lan lan i stay on... if no kids i will also make a different choice.. it is not that i dun love my wife anymore, but i find something is missing in our love... 
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#33
16-09-2006, 08:04 PM
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for me is coming to 7 mths. she carrying our baby. I tahan coz I really no heart to eat out when I see her carry baby so ke lian like tat.
but even without baby, she at most is 2 times a week coz she has low sex needs. can get very frustrating. I have high sex drive lah. so far I tahan, but I dunno how long...
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16-09-2006, 08:47 PM
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Infact we lived with agony like status married in the eye of law but stay in the same house like seperated. Sometime feel so frustrated n boredom when stay at home, can see but canot touch....  anyway i also boh chap goin outside look for FB or lover to keep life go on if not die tat day both eyes canot closed completely... Cheers and be happy!!!
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#35
16-09-2006, 09:31 PM
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bronco... why is that so ? u sound so unhappy....hav e u talk to her ?
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16-09-2006, 09:58 PM
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17-09-2006, 12:52 AM
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bro... the problem is you do not know she have such low sex drive after marriage... for myself, my wife is ok with sex before she give birth. we can had sex many times a week. But after our kid was born, it was like totally no sex at all....
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#38
17-09-2006, 12:51 PM
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btw i m not a man.. i m a woman.... so dun call me brudder coz it's funny... anyway i understand wat u mean.... stime slove is not that bad.. maybe u r just unlucky to get somebody who is disinterested in sex....
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#39
17-09-2006, 01:38 PM
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Does marriage destory sex life? From the so many examples qouted, it seems that guys aren't getting enough sex after striking the wedding bell, especially those in it for yrs. Is it such a pessimistic picture? I have a friend who just married also. He is complaining that he used to do it with his gf (wife now) every time they can find time. Well, that's almost every day. They met at least 5 times a week then. Now, if can do 2 times a week, he happy liao. His wife's interest seems to drop from hot to zero. He's trying hard now to bring back her passion, reading up books, buying little gadgets and setting up hot dates. Not too bad, he's getting a little more now. In fact, not really a lot more but the quality of each snuggling session is better. Then again, he doesn't know how long will this last. He's trying to enjoy the moment as much as he can, for he knows that interest will wane again, be it him or his wife.
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#40
17-09-2006, 02:32 PM
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nice to see some ladies commenting...
i see alot of bros complaiing the wife sian of sex. for me... i donno whats wrong, im not ugly nor fat. frm this forum, i know either i initiate, be more exciting or one day i will lose my husband. so i will ask him very often, but he always will watch dvd until damn late, i wait for him until i sian also. we married less than a month only. i want, but he like ai mai ai mai like that. or during the day i tease him, build up the anticipation until at night, den he will go and watch dvd. i like.. sit there and just . maybe i marry the wrong guy. before we got married he not like that one. i think also only a matter of time before i go out and find a partner or work as FL to earn income and to satisfy my own needs also if he continue like that. haix....
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17-09-2006, 02:45 PM
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I've not have se since 2002 after i've broke up with my wife,been 3-4 yrs now. Wondering if my bro down there still can fully functional...
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#42
17-09-2006, 02:45 PM
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alamark, sister, Thanks for your comment... i m a man but in the same situation like u (on opposite side.. my wife watches DVD!..)... so i have to look for gal friend outside liao to satisfy my need... no choice lah!
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#43
17-09-2006, 02:48 PM
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for example, sometimes I wish my wife will just sit besides me and watch TV or have a chit-chat and usually for the few times that she had done so, we always ended up making love!
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#44
17-09-2006, 02:49 PM
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seems like there are a lot of bros and sis here who are also facing issues at home with the spouses.
For my case, i have been having a cold war with my wife for months. Every time i will give in but she does not seem to care and continue with her behaviour. She still work very very late everyday and sometimes will go clubbing thinking i dont know. Only know how to criticise people and ask people to do things for her but never do it herself. I know i am not perfect but i am 100% devoted to my 2 kids and if not for them i would have separated long time ago. My parents who are staying with me to help look after the kids are also getting very sian seeing us like this. But they love the grandkids too much so also tahan. sometimes, i ask myself how long more should i wait and endure this unhappiness. Should i just ask for a divorce and risk losing my kids? I cannot imagine coming back from work and not seeing them. The pain would be just too much to bear. sigh! Maybe we should form a support group to share our feelings and help each other get over the pain. 
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17-09-2006, 03:02 PM
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10yrs!!! that must be a torture!
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