Fed up in sharing contact

[MISSI]

I believe we Samsters can start by doing the Right thing - be KIND to bros who share actual experience (whether good or bad) without any prejudice

Originally Posted by dqblue

Agreed! Also experienced the same treatment. Not even a "thank you" after sharing, as if I owe them.

And if don't share, keep pestering, as if I owe them also

[starbuck]

Thanks everyone for you kind comfort.

I just let off steam only..hahahaha, back to normal already.

Happy hunting.

[GOODFELLO]

Good thread - TS gets my 16 missiles

Originally Posted by starbuck

Thanks everyone for you kind comfort.

I just let off steam only..hahahaha, back to normal already.

Happy hunting.

[Islands]

Originally Posted by starbuck

Good days bros.

What do you normally do when you received a caring fellow SBF bro who is willing to share his contract with you?

For me I will reply with my contact or uppz his point or reply thanks you. At least he is care enough to share.

Recently I found a few places and I share with some bros here. Some bros never reply with thank, but that is okay with me coz they got the contact and they know what to do. What I cannot stand is, some keep pming to ask this ask that. Come on bro, contact given, it is up to you to adventure out

Got one bro visit the place and then pmed me and ask how come he was treated differently? Ooi bro, I sibeh yandao ( super handsome ) then I got special price? NO bro, it how you behave and the chemistry between you and her, this I cannot help. I RTF a few time and become regular with her and then start to enjoy benefits.

Some bro are just 爱平， 爱青， 爱大粒奶， 爱站厝边， 又爱双生.

If you want to choing, be willing to part with your $$$, if not, your left and right hand is always your best frds. I can nego until low low prices, but if your small head rules over your big head, then don't complian to me.

Just an old Ah pek letting off some steam here.

Peace , period and Have a happy bonking year.

I second your feeling bro.. I had that experience too...

[Islands]

Originally Posted by halogen019

Same thing bro.

On the topic of sharing and requesting contacts, I generally follow these 2 principles:

1. When requesting for a contact, I give the TS points first as an appreciation gesture before I PM him. I believe in showing goodwill first if I am genuinely interested in his contact.

2. When sharing contacts, the first thing I look out for is the points of the requester. Most of the time I ignore those without any power. I believe the power system gives some indication of whether the bro is contributing actively in the forum.

The exceptions are when:

1. The bro I PM contact for states in his thread he would like to exchange contacts, then I usually give my contacts in exchange.

2. The bro requesting contact from me, if he does not have power, shows in his PM enough info to convince me he knows what is happening.

I usually do not reply a bro with "thank you for your contact". I thank him in the original PM because we know how precious inbox spaces are. When I send contacts, I also do not expect them to reply with thank you.

The thing that makes me a little frustrated is when the bro I PM for contact somehow is not replying at all despite me upping his points and sharing my contact.

One more thing that makes me frustrated, is when a bro just PM me with "can share contact?" with no head and tail or with an ambiguous subject like "share contact of busty milf" when he is referring to an FR I shared a long time ago without telling me exactly which one.

Your approach is good. I may just follow this working model..

[retepoet]

just upped u with my 11 points bro

Originally Posted by GOODFELLO

Good thread - TS gets my 16 missiles

[004kk]

To all Qian Bei

Just letting out as well. I used to have another sbf account till my wife found out. Hence, I asked to delete the account as I had shared my field reports all over the forum because my wife trace what I had over the years using my nick name.

Back then and even now, not sure of how the points n power system works. I only share info in the forum.

My experience not in the forum, not many contributions and sense of togetherness anymore as there wasn't updates on field reports and sharing or recommending good joints.

Just on a malay ktv contacts, I even begged for contacts with no one sharing. I could only sweat and back to my adventure days by walking and exploring around.

Anyways now, I can't be as regular as last time due more commitment and not able to get a job that allow me to be back in my old days.

Lastly, I will still contribute whenever I can do that can have the interaction with sbf Bros like the old days as currently is a very disappointing forum with no help n minimal sharing.

Not here to offend anyone, just to share how I feel like everyone else here.
Cheers.

[godsfury]

I feel u bro. Normally when i share an FR. i will only share contacts if any bros wan to trade.

I wun bother replying to any bros who jus pm me n ask me to share my contacts.. tmd

[GR888]

Originally Posted by godsfury

I feel u bro. Normally when i share an FR. i will only share contacts if any bros wan to trade.

I wun bother replying to any bros who jus pm me n ask me to share my contacts.. tmd

Same model of operation for me. My contacts are all non-advertised gems and I only fuck busty, slim & high GFE chiobu Malaysian Chinese MLs. I don't fuck plain janes or ugly women. I am only willing to release my contacts only if there are MLs of comparable standards for exchange. I'll just ignore those asking for contact and those offering mediocre MLs for trade (while holding back their gems).

I've been very generous sharing gems in the past. But times have changed. Gems are hard to come by these days because many joints have been raided & many have also left the trade. Besides, there are just too many free loaders on SBF these days. Peace out.

[simontan82]

Very true.. No Thank you or whatsoever.

Even Upz as well.. For me if any bros Upz me.. I make it a point try my best to remember to Upz them back and appreciate..

Of course at times might forget to.. But once remind me I will say sorry and remember..

[xxlolxx]

Hi all, I'm a newbie, and would like to take this chance to thanks and appreciate everyone who share, I seldom come here but I agree the part about appreciating man. You guys take the trouble to visit and share FR, the least we can do is to thank u 😄 so happy sharing and for those who receive favoura, just at least say thanks la !

[GR888]

Originally Posted by lovecat

Wondering if admin can create a new function. For bros who jam up threads with please share contacts, there should be a function where they cannot Type the word contact but have to share a 200 word FR then they can ask for share contacts again.

Good idea but I'm not sure if there's a cost consideration with this additional function though. Really fucking irritating to see all these contact junkies & number collectors wasting people's time with all their bandwidth wasting lanjiao contact requests.

[starbuck]

Originally Posted by GR888

Good idea but I'm not sure if there's a cost consideration with this additional function though. Really fucking irritating to see all these contact junkies & number collectors wasting people's time with all their bandwidth wasting lanjiao contact requests.

Yeah bro, every time someone post a FR of a new place, you will see at least 2 - 3 pages of " bro please share contact " post. lol

[004kk]

To continue my views on sharing;

I think sharing is important and that keeps the bros surfing the forum. The sense of belonging will be good.

The sharing becomes painful when there isn't field report. Anyways, I shall update a field report of my adventure yesterday here. I know the subject here is not about it but I like to show my sincerity. Hope it's not bothering bros here.

Location; bugis
Type of joint: ktv
Small room
Liquid damage: 150 for buffet happy hour
Others: ladies, 2 x viet @ 50 each 1 prc @ 50, mummy 50, waitress / waiter x 5 @ 10 each

Review:

Door bitches scolding n have issues on operation matters and leaving me at the front desk waiting---- poor service

Then asked to go 2nd floor. Room renovation was good but weak sound system. ---have to learn singing because I was siting alone for almost 45mins. Have to entertain myself.

Prc came and just took without QC. Singer at level 6 just work for happy hour at rooms.

Asked for viet to try and tot can have some playability. Waited 30mins mummy came and waited 15mins ladies came. Looks 8/10 but try to avoid my strike. Xian.

Left the joint not so enjoying. Deleted mummy's contact and will not go back to the joint due lack of playability & the crews service should be better. The crew service me well I don't mind tipping everyone. But bill came, all just come in room and pretend to pour drinks hinting for tips.

[rahl]

Originally Posted by 004kk

Just on a malay ktv contacts, I even begged for contacts with no one sharing. I could only sweat and back to my adventure days by walking and exploring around.

Heh good o' days when some bros (me included) sweat buckets walking or getting lost! Wonder how many samsters still do that today.

Having said that, there is always the silent bro on the other side. I am the type who will usually not reply with thanks to the contact person (since I always thank in advance). But always appreciate and will FR as a way of giving back to the forum.

So my advice is, share without any expectations, or else just ignore requests and replies. It's a free forum and an open forum so we have many types of bros here.

Cheong on!