How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[PeteTsang69]

Originally Posted by warbird

This ONE question will change how you choose women


“When I'm with that person, do I genuinely, in my heart,
feel inspired to become the best man I can ever be?”

It's one thing to be in love and have passion, but ... it's the mutual desire for growth that glues a couple together for decades.

Guys get in a relationship and they settle. They lose their hunger. They become “comfortable”.
The right woman will trigger you to thrive and achieve. She'll inspire you to push yourself physically, emotionally, mentally, financially, in your career, and to go after your dreams with more ferocity.


Ryan

thanks bro warbird ...

totally 1000% recipe for success in all matters of life ...

nothing is static, unless its already dead ...

things either move closer together (and grow) or move apart (decay)

[sxem]

Recently stumbled upon this thread..so much wisdom and i am happy that i found a kindred spirit in WarBird.

Been on this journey to find my masculinity..you might want to look up Red Pill Philosophy and see whether it resonates with you.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by CircusFun

Another lesson from bro WB.

Hope to read more from bro WB.

Hope bro WB have a nice day.

Originally Posted by RoyalMounty

Amazing from TS how to choose women.

Thank you so much and please post more lessons.

Originally Posted by scamat

Bro WB, thank you for this wonderful thread.

Hope to learn more lessons from you.

Have a nice week ahead.

Bros,

Thank you all for ur posts n support.

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

thanks bro warbird ...

totally 1000% recipe for success in all matters of life ...

nothing is static, unless its already dead ...

things either move closer together (and grow) or move apart (decay)

Bro,

You're welcome!! Yes, we should embrace CHANGE! 穷则变 变则通 通则久

Originally Posted by sxem

Recently stumbled upon this thread..so much wisdom and i am happy that i found a kindred spirit in WarBird.

Been on this journey to find my masculinity..you might want to look up Red Pill Philosophy and see whether it resonates with you.

Bro，

Tks, I hv read Red Pill.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[YALE]

Originally Posted by warbird

Great successes are built on taking your negatives and turning them around.

You cannot rise higher than your thought of yourself at the subconscious level.

It's predestined that all the particles and forces in the universe are constantly conspiring in my favor.

Bro WB

Bro WB, these sentences in your signature also very enriching.

Hope to learn more from you.

Have a nice day.

[xongxong]

Originally Posted by YALE

Bro WB, these sentences in your signature also very enriching.

Hope to learn more from you.

Have a nice day.

Fully agreed with you.

Learnt lots of things from bro WB in this thread.

Hope to learn more!!

[tnuc]

I sense a lot of sarcasm here haha.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by YALE

Bro WB, these sentences in your signature also very enriching.

Hope to learn more from you.

Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by xongxong

Fully agreed with you.

Learnt lots of things from bro WB in this thread.

Hope to learn more!!

Bros,

Tanks for ur posts.

Originally Posted by tnuc

I sense a lot of sarcasm here haha.

Bro,

I sense a lot of sarcasm in you, but in no one else haha.

Behave like a MAN, be Mode One, say exactly what is in ur mind.

If you disagree w/ the strategies n theories on RS n sex as written by many gurus n quoted by me on this thread, tell us what you believe would actually work in real life, in ur personal experiences. Pls enlighten us. Speak up, give details...

Bear in mind that we men all hv different goals. Some are happy w/ doing ST, some want BY, some want LT RS, and some want exclusive ownership of the pussy n her heart...and some want FOC, some don't mind paying n a few want to be paid.

And the type of gals/women we like also differ greatly. A 10 to u may be 5 to me, and vice versa. For me, it's either I want to fxxk the gal or not, so it's at least 7 or 0, nothing in between. I just got a new article on this exact topic.

Hoping to hear from you asap.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

The most powerful determinant of a man's success w/ women is his attitude n his subconscious beliefs. If he believes he is the prize, everything else is of secondary importance. If he believes she is the prize, he will hv a very hard time.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[JamieCarragher]

Bro WB,

Below are excellent lesson from you.

I had enjoyed reading this thread very much.

Hope to read more please.

Thanks

Originally Posted by warbird

The most powerful determinant of a man's success w/ women is his attitude n his subconscious beliefs. If he believes he is the prize, everything else is of secondary importance. If he believes she is the prize, he will hv a very hard time.

Bro WB

[warbird]

Originally Posted by JamieCarragher

Bro WB,

Below are excellent lesson from you.

I had enjoyed reading this thread very much.

Hope to read more please.

Thanks

Bro,

Thanks.
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Good morning!

I can't blame many bros for being skeptical n sarcastic. Because they hv failed w/ women again n again. Nothing has worked for them. Unless a man believes he is the prize, he will be a failure w/ women, period.

The other thing that confuses most men is that many gals/women consciously wants a nice guy, but they subconsciously want to be dominated by men. Another secret is that they are NOT attracted to men who chase them, contrary to popular belief n conventional wisdom.

I received the following a wk ago from a guru:

The Secret of Attracting Very Beautiful Women


Perhaps you've heard of The Perfect 10.

A woman so stunningly beautiful that guys literally throw themselves at her feet. A woman so amazing, so breath-taking, that she can have any man she wants, any time she wants... and she knows it.

She lives in her own special little world, a world most of us can't even imagine -- everything is good there, everything is easy. She gets anything she wants. She rarely has to pay for anything because people are always giving her things, buying her things, bringing her presents. She gets special treatment in restaurants, bars, stores, and every other place she goes.

Everyone loves her. Every guy wants her. And every girl wants to be her.

After all, she is The Perfect 10.

Well, my fellow Don Juans, let me assure you that despite what you may have read or heard, there's no such thing as The Perfect 10. She does not exist. Not one woman on this huge planet of ours even comes close to our image of The Perfect 10.

Yet the myth of the enchanting, irresistible Perfect 10 is extremely common among men, especially younger men.

"This Perfect 10 walked into the bar and every head in the place turned."

"You have to use a different strategy when approaching an incredibly beautiful woman, because she's used to guys throwing themselves at her and doing whatever she wants."

"She rarely gets approached by guys because they're intimidated by her beauty."

"Don't even bother pursuing a 10 unless you've got a lot going for you (money, fame, looks). You'll get shot down, or used and abused."


I hear these "Perfect 10" comments all the time. I read them on discussion forums. I get email questions about "how to deal with incredibly beautiful women." And I even read comments about 10s by relationship "experts."

Let me repeat to you: There's no such thing as The Perfect 10 !!

In fact, you would be hard-pressed to find a lady, any lady in this huge world of ours, who qualifies as an Almost Perfect 9.

But, I hear you thinking, "They DO exist. I see them all the time. In fact, I saw a Perfect 10 earlier today."

True. You DO see 9s and 10s frequently. So do I. But the thing you have to remember is that one's perception of physical beauty is completely subjective. It varies quite a bit from person to person. There are no objective standards for female beauty that every guy subscribes to.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."

And I'm not just talking about different cultures here. (You probably know that in some cultures, the fatter a lady is, the more beautiful she is perceived to be.)

Yet, the myth of The Perfect 10 - that absolutely stunning woman that no man can resist - is very prevalent these days. False, but prevalent.

Where does this myth originate? Why do we believe in Perfect 10s?

The unfortunate fact is that everyone tends to view the world in a very egocentric fashion. We believe that what we see, others also see. We believe that what we perceive as attractive, beautiful, and stunning, others also perceive the same way. We believe, quite incorrectly, that the women who take our breath away, also take the breath of every other guy on the planet.

It's a ridiculous belief. An unfounded myth. And it's rather easy to shatter.

Do an experiment. Take 4 or 5 of your buds out to a nice crowded bar, one that's always packed with beautiful women. Find yourselves a table and try to find ONE lady in the entire bar that everyone agrees is A Perfect 10. One lady that everyone agrees is absolutely stunning.

You'll fail miserably. In fact, I doubt you'll be able to find a lady in the entire bar that even half your buddies think is a 10. You probably won't even be able to find a lady that everyone agrees is an 8 or 9.

Invariably when you or one of your buds picks out a lady and declares triumphantly for all to hear that she is absolutely perfect - and then waits for all to agree - someone in the group will respond, "No way. You've got to be kidding. She's okay I guess, but I'd give her about a 6."

You will be amazed, no stunned, at the women your buddies feel are Perfect, and they'll be equally stunned at you. Your, their, and our perceptions of beauty are just too subjective, too skewed by our past experiences and interactions, for everyone, or even a large percentage of guys, to even come close to agreeing.

Or try the experiment with Hollywood stars. Do you think Pamela Andersen is a 10? On my particular scale of physical beauty, she's about a 6. How about Angelina Jolie? Is she your dream woman? I'd give her an 8. Carmen Electra? She's about a 7.5 in my book. Jennifer Lopez? Maybe an 8. In fact, I can't even think of a famous person that I would give a 10 to. And I'm not that picky.

In fact, if you and I were sitting in a bar together and your dream woman - a Stacy Keibler lookalike - walked in, you wouldn't have much competition from me. In fact, you wouldn't have any competition from me. I'd be too busy checking out the shorter, curvier, brunette over by the bar.

Do you like the tall, thin, professional-model type? I'm not attracted to them at all, and they'd certainly get no special treatment from me. In my own special little world they're just ordinary women and would be treated as ordinary women. And I certainly wouldn't fall all over myself trying to impress them.

Now I'm not saying that all women are equal in physical beauty. I'm not saying that at all. While Angelina, Stacy, and the rest, are not, in my opinion, even close to being perfect, I would agree that they are "above average" in attractiveness. And they probably, overall, receive better treatment in our world.

Research clearly demonstrates that the physically attractive do have advantages in our society. They are attributed a whole host of positive personality characteristics simply on the basis of how they look. And they are treated a little better in specific situations. So no, every woman is not equally attractive.

I'm also not saying that there aren't a few women running around (more than a few actually) who have an over-inflated sense of their own self-importance... and maybe even a few delusional ladies who think that they actually are Perfect 10s. Heck, there are some butt-ugly guys running around who think that they're pretty hot stuff too.

Now with these particular women - these women who see themselves as being above you, or who feel that you should be knocking yourself out trying to impress them - with these women you may need a modified strategy. You may need to knock them off their little pedestals. And there are a number of simple techniques for accomplishing this... if you choose to pursue such a "lady."

But the important thing to remember is that you base your strategy on the situation and, specifically, her ATTITUDE, and not on how attractive you perceive her to be. Just because YOU think she's a Perfect 10 does not necessarily mean that she has an over-inflated ego and needs to be taken down a few notches. (If she's not on a self-imposed pedestal, and you try to knock it out from under her, you just wind up kicking her in the shin -- oh how poetical I am sometimes.)

As mentioned, I frequently see comments on "dealing with extremely beautiful women" and read articles written by experts on The Perfect 10. Sometimes they suggest a "special strategy" for dealing with a 10 (see above). And, even more ridiculous, sometimes they just flat out state that you shouldn't even bother pursuing The Perfect 10 unless you have something exceptional to offer.

How bout a ridiculous example to clarify.

Mark is extremely attracted to Karen. She's a Perfect 10 in his little world, and he desperately wants to get to know her better. However, having recently read an article on Perfect 10s written by an expert, he knows he doesn't have much of a chance. After all, every guy wants a girl like her - The Perfect 10. And he's really no one special.

He concludes that Karen is out of his league and he needs to be a little more realistic. So he decides to go after Laura instead. She's pretty cute, and nice - about a 7 or 8 in his book. Probably about right for him he thinks. And even though he finds himself fairly happy with Laura, in the back of his mind, he'll always wish he had had more to offer, so that he would stand a chance with Karen.

Then there's Steve. He's been in love with Laura for 6 months. She's absolutely perfect to him. But he's sooo intimidated by her beauty. He also realizes that, seeing as how she's the most perfect female he's ever seen, every guy she meets wants her. He has no chance. He too read that article about Perfect 10s and realizes that he, being just an ordinary guy, doesn't have much of a chance with her. So he goes after someone more "in his league" - Karen.

So Mark's dating Laura because he feels Karen is out of his league. And Steve's dating Karen because he doesn't feel he has enough to offer a 10 like Laura. And neither is really happy.

How ridiculous! A ridiculous situation caused by ridiculous thinking.


(To Be Continued)

[tanin]

Bro WB, I hope to be a man.

Hope to learn more from you and please post more lessons.

Have a great day.

Thanks.

Originally Posted by warbird

Behave like a MAN, be Mode One, say exactly what is in ur mind.

If you disagree w/ the strategies n theories on RS n sex as written by many gurus n quoted by me on this thread, tell us what you believe would actually work in real life, in ur personal experiences. Pls enlighten us. Speak up, give details...

Bear in mind that we men all hv different goals. Some are happy w/ doing ST, some want BY, some want LT RS, and some want exclusive ownership of the pussy n her heart...and some want FOC, some don't mind paying n a few want to be paid.

And the type of gals/women we like also differ greatly. A 10 to u may be 5 to me, and vice versa. For me, it's either I want to fxxk the gal or not, so it's at least 7 or 0, nothing in between. I just got a new article on this exact topic.

Hoping to hear from you asap.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Of course, I'm not really telling you anything here that you don't already know. I believe that you already know that beauty is completely subjective and can vary tremendously from guy to guy.

The problem is that you tend to "forget" this fact, or fail to use it to your advantage, as soon as your version of a "Ms. Perfect" appears.

You get intimidated. You get extremely nervous. Being an ordinary guy, you start feeling unworthy, like you don't really have anything to offer such a Goddess. You start thinking that she is so perfect that every guy in the place MUST want her. Rather than being "happy" about the opportunity to meet your Perfect 10, you begin to feel bad because you don't think you measure up or have what it takes to actually attract and keep such a lady.

The myth of The Perfect 10, and your belief in this myth, is handicapping you and limiting your social effectiveness. However, if you remember that the perception of a woman's physical beauty is completely subjective, and one guy's 10 is invariably another guy's 6, you will have a distinct advantage in dealing with women.

1) You will approach and pursue the women you really want. You won't feel the need to limit yourself to the ones that are "in your league."

2) You will display more confidence. You won't be as nervous when dealing with your 10. You will understand that she is NOT every guy's version of a 10, and you will feel less pressure as you're not in competition with every other guy on the planet.

3) You will be able to focus on the fact that it's your job to evaluate her, to see if she's good enough for you, not the other way around. You will stand up for yourself, demand respect, and clearly communicate the fact that YOU are special and she should be trying to impress you.

4) You will actually be happier when with your Perfect 10. It seems to be more satisfying to find someone who is perfect for us, than it is to find someone who is just flat-out perfect.

So, my fellow Don Juans, pursue your dream women. Pursue them with passion, confidence, knowledge, and style.

And who knows. This world's wacky enough that you just might wind up being her version of "The Perfect 10."

Allen Thompson

I disagree w/ guru Thompson that you hv to pursue your dream gal. When u first meet a gal you like very much, tell her exactly what is in ur mind, what you want to do to her. Then let her come to you. If you're shy n timid, practice on gals who are only slightly attractive to u. After 200-300 gals, you will become very competent.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[ruckus]

Originally Posted by warbird

The Secret of Attracting Very Beautiful Women




"Don't even bother pursuing a 10 unless you've got a lot going for you (money, fame, looks). You'll get shot down, or used and abused."


I hear these "Perfect 10" comments all the time. I read them on discussion forums. I get email questions about "how to deal with incredibly beautiful women." And I even read comments about 10s by relationship "experts."

Let me repeat to you: There's no such thing as The Perfect 10 !!

In fact, you would be hard-pressed to find a lady, any lady in this huge world of ours, who qualifies as an Almost Perfect 9.

But, I hear you thinking, "They DO exist. I see them all the time. In fact, I saw a Perfect 10 earlier today."

True. You DO see 9s and 10s frequently. So do I. But the thing you have to remember is that one's perception of physical beauty is completely subjective. It varies quite a bit from person to person. There are no objective standards for female beauty that every guy subscribes to.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."



(To Be Continued)

Bro WB,

I enjoyed the lesson above. Hope you quickly can post the continuation.

Have a great week and hope you clinched you pretty girl.

[Rushford]

Bro WB, I'm learning from you to be a man.

Hope to learn more from you from this thread.

Thank you and have a nice day.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by tanin

Bro WB, I hope to be a man.

Hope to learn more from you and please post more lessons.

Have a great day.

Thanks.

Bro,

Thank u for ur post.

Google mode one n learn the approach. I hv been mode one for the last 4-5 years. It works like magic, beyond my wildest dreams. It saves time n money.

I hv modified my approach slightly. When I first see a gal who appears attractive, I need to look at her wechat pics and/or see her again to make sure she is good enough, even for just ST. Unless I'm very sure I want to fxxk her the second I meet her, I won't say the magic words right away. Such as 我们去做爱 or 做我情人 or 做我老婆 or 我爱你...

Cheers!

Bro WB

[JamieCarragher]

Originally Posted by warbird

[SIZE="4"]Of course, I'm not really telling you anything here that you don't already know. I believe that you already know that beauty is completely subjective and can vary tremendously from guy to guy.

The problem is that you tend to "forget" this fact, or fail to use it to your advantage, as soon as your version of a "Ms. Perfect" appears.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB

Thank you for the reply.

Also fantastic lesson too.

Hope you have a super duper week.