Happily Married with an ex WL(VN)

[milftoy75]

Bro,

guess so, maybe i just one that can have flings, but no long term committments. anyway. new year is around the corner. new year , new start. find new vn to KC lor, see how it works out, ha ha.

[mannuyap]

tired tired tired........ now den i find out abt this thread... 30 over pages at one go... somemore on iphone.. hahahaha...
But seriously, congrats to ts for having a loving marriage

A very useful thread for us... thanks and wish u Happy New Year...

[jf66312]

Originally Posted by casannova03

I doubt you read the whole thread...thus your comments are not valid and seems misguided....

Thanks fr concern though...My wife is now doing her own successful business. And for your info, I did not use my lanjiao to knock my own head but i used it to create my next offspring which is due soon!!

congrats bro....my bxa just gave birth last mth...

glad to know all is well for you....

[rubenree]

I was still at the first page when I head hurrily to the last page to congratulate Bro Cassanova. Indeed not all WL are bad. They do it for a reason, for living. Which girl on earth does not want to have a stable and loving family. It doesn't really matter who she was, but who she wants to be will be more important. To all bros in SBF who manage to have a happy ending with WL, I wish you a congratulations. I wish your happiness last forever, blessed with good health and wealth. Life goes on and changes according to time and space. Life needs improvements for that is where our destiny is. Let's give hope to all the people around us, make them feel their life is worthwhile and they can do better.

[EDLS]

Hi Bro, TS, really appluad you for sharing your life story and journey with us. It's really an inspiration and encouragement for those going down the same road as you. I wish you many years of happiness and blessings in your marriage.

[basic]

Congratuations to Casanova03,

I congratulate you for your successful and rare marriage and I got some questions for you.

You mentioned that your mother chase you out using a chopper and then you lied to her and didnt tell your mum that your wife is a WL. So now how?

How did they become good friends in the end? Is there a gradual process in which you revealed the truth to your mother? Or up till now she also dunno?

Your father all the while can accept your wife WL identilty?

I want to ask you about how to half study half work last time. You is study uni + work part time at that time not shag meh. Like that where got time fetch her before and after work? Uni need 0645am go school meh?

That time you kanna chase out of home to your wife rented apartment, then you how long go away from home? 1 month?

I wan to know more cos I curious and I wanna learn.

Good luck and hope she bear you many many kids!

[Waha]

Bro Casa,

It took me 2 long nights to read your thread. It's great because I am alone on oversea trip and at least I look forward to continue reading your thread. Something to do after work...

Really admire your courage and see the weakness in me. It took me more than 2 years then I have the courage to tell my family about my PRC gf (non-WL). You are very rational, rule out the pros and cons and most importantly you are willingly to go against your family for your love~ Easier said to be done... Pei Fu Pei Fu~

Great one~!

[boreland]

Hardly post since i joined but thank you for a heart warming true life story.

[AdGuy]

Hijacking Bro Casanova's thread just to share a personal experience. Feeling very emotional tonight and just needed an avenue to get it off my chest.

My cheong kakis would know who she is but she's the only 1 I ever called 'vo'... and meant it.

As fate would have it, she's married now to a M'sian. Got news today that she's pregnant so I just texted her to congratulate her.

She replied saying that she was very sad because she was carrying a baby that wasn't mine. She added that I was the only one she ever loved and getting married was a mistake because she thought I had given up on her.

Of course, I did the human thing by asking her to forget me and be a good wife / mother...

But the reality is that both of us are totally messed up at the moment.

Bro Casa, your story is an inspiration to all, and it raises the question of 'what might have been' to me.

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by AdGuy

Bro Casa, your story is an inspiration to all, and it raises the question of 'what might have been' to me.

you had your chance but you missed it.
i feel that you're not really to settle down so is only nature that she move on.
life is short, time and tide waits for no one.

cheer up dude, you did the right thing by telling her to forget you.

[mkgd]

Very happy for you TS for your happy marriage with your VN wife. I wish the both of u many years of blissful and wonderful memories together.

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by AdGuy

Of course, I did the human thing by asking her to forget me and be a good wife / mother...

Guessed it's time to move on my bro ....

Once opportunity is gone ... it's gone .....

That's why when i met my wife , i tell myself I will never let her go ....

I believe u will find a new one worthy of your love

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by AdGuy

Hijacking Bro Casanova's thread just to share a personal experience. Feeling very emotional tonight and just needed an avenue to get it off my chest.

My cheong kakis would know who she is but she's the only 1 I ever called 'vo'... and meant it.

As fate would have it, she's married now to a M'sian. Got news today that she's pregnant so I just texted her to congratulate her.

She replied saying that she was very sad because she was carrying a baby that wasn't mine. She added that I was the only one she ever loved and getting married was a mistake because she thought I had given up on her.

Of course, I did the human thing by asking her to forget me and be a good wife / mother...

But the reality is that both of us are totally messed up at the moment.

Bro Casa, your story is an inspiration to all, and it raises the question of 'what might have been' to me.

Hey bro, no problem at all...

Life is as such, do not feel too distraught by it all...what's meant to be will be.. As it is, I still think that things always happen for a reason...try and find the reason and accept it...nobody's wrong.

I have not posted in here for so very long and many things have happened since.. there are always up and downs in life but still we must walked on...

Still happily married though.....

[davo666]

Cassa,
What can I say, but you are legendary !!
I am strugling with not only being a new Aussie in SG, but the failure of my previous marriage of 7 years which ended last October (2010).
Being "lost & lonely" I sought the services offered at the local 4 Floors, only to have found and been living together with the most sweet and caring VN girl for the last 2 months. I'm not saying my story will end up like yours, but so many of the (good) things you, and other contributors mention about VN girls, I have found to be true. (My ex was Filipina, but raised in Oz).
Like other experiences, my girl as stopped working, but hates to be a financial burden on me and is asking if she can return to work "just for one month more". I cannot bear the thought of her doing this, and was wondering how other guys in the same / similar situations have dealt with it?
She indicates she has debts back in VN (as they all do), but wants to service these debts herself instead of "bludging" off me. This is enough to convince me (to some extent at least), that she is not after me for my money, that and I don't bloody have any anyway !!
Anyone out there in a relationship with a WL who is still actually working ? how do you deal with it?
I would accept totally if she were like Cassa's wife and was an "escort" (never went upstairs), but my girl would be "going upstairs" and thats what I don't really know how to deal with.
Thanks ever so much to Cassa for spilling you heart & soul for us all, and congrats on making it work. (Bloody fantatsic read BTW). Wnating to hear from others in "the early stages" if at all possible. (sry for hijacking Cassa)

[arsenal_84]

Originally Posted by davo666

how do you deal with it?

you can only trust her not to get too wild with the customers and hopefully she knows what she's doing.