Can any bros here provide tips to stop cheonging?

[maxsee]

I think hor everytime got urge u faster go toilet PCC also help...i am sure u PCC until ur legs go soft u sure no mood to even think about cheonging....

[3someking]

Originally Posted by maxsee

I think hor everytime got urge u faster go toilet PCC also help...i am sure u PCC until ur legs go soft u sure no mood to even think about cheonging....

Yes got.

I got come to a point that I pcc daily till the day I went cat 50, I cant even cum when in FJ position.

in the end, I ask the thai gal to handjob me.

damn sad leh

I'm serious.

Looks like I'm used to pcc liao.
afraid it would affect my future sex life

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Yes got.

I got come to a point that I pcc daily till the day I went cat 50, I cant even cum when in FJ position.

in the end, I ask the thai gal to handjob me.

damn sad leh

I'm serious.

Looks like I'm used to pcc liao.
afraid it would affect my future sex life

Too much pcc, also problem,u unable to cum during sex

[leekwantew]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Yes got.

I got come to a point that I pcc daily till the day I went cat 50, I cant even cum when in FJ position.

in the end, I ask the thai gal to handjob me.

damn sad leh

I'm serious.

Looks like I'm used to pcc liao.
afraid it would affect my future sex life

good what, can last longer

quite a few bros struggling with PE

[leakypipes]

Originally Posted by NastyNate

Identify what is it about ktv that is constantly luring you back. Is it the alcohol, the company, the music? There are plenty of alternatives to those. If possible, set yourself a new target to work towards, like buying a new property/car/toy/stock/camera.

In short, I think you're just too bored with your life and need a new hobby or distraction. Once you've found it, you'd find going to cheong quite a chore as mentioned by a brother above because it takes time away from whatever you now enjoy doing.

I think this is best advice so far.

[leakypipes]

For me, I'm 32. Chiong abt a decade or so. Lost count. I've been off for 5-6 months Liao. But only cos I went overseas for work. Here also got opps to chiong. But I'm keeping myself busy w other things. I like to drink so I found non chionging options. N I found ppl to hang out with to substitute for the company I miss from chionging.

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Hahaha ok maybe i got the point.

its okie if go cheong once in a while like once or twice every mth.

if go up to the point like addictive like 3 times a week, then i guess thats a diff whole story.

its the same case if u are a heavy smoker, how do u plan to quit smoking.

u cant totally stop fully.
have to bit by bit.
from smoking daily, cut down to twice a week, then down to once a mth, etc

bro, I am in mid-thirties and single like you.

On average I cheong less than 10 times per year and I only do it while on away trip.

And I don't spend much around $1 to $2K only.

I am not a heavy cheongster, nor a heavy drinker, nor a heavy smoker.

I am a casual cheongster, casual drinker and a casual smoker.

I drink, on average 10 cans of beer in one year, nothing to compare with those heavy drinkers who drank 100 times more than me.

I smoke, on average 1 to 2 packets of ciggy in one year.

How is this possible, you may ask?

I do it just for temporary fun, to unload stress inside my body and I don't get addicted to it. I don't touch drugs too as I love my life.

I also do PCC daily like you. After cheonging I realised PCC does affect my sexual performance on bed. So I am reducing the frequency of my PCC habit.

I also have a hobby. I do walking regularly. The duration is one hour walk each session and I find it to be quite helpful to stay healthy and one way to cope with my single life.

At my age, 70% of my friends are married and have family and kids. But we still do meet once a year, usually during CNY. So I have no complaints despite growing old and still single.

At your age, I think it is good idea for you to discover new hobbies and make your time always occupied.

I agree with you it offers only temporary happiness and permanent damage not only to your money but also your health if you do it regularly.

When I mention health, I refer to smoking can cause lung cancer in long term, too much alcohol drinking can cause liver cancer in long term and sex with whores (especially unprotected) can increase your chance of contracting STDs or even HIV.

There is a saying anything too much is bad for you. I always remember and stick to that when I fuck, smoke and drink.

And so far so good to me as I did not overdo it.

[kanChioBu]

Bro

Cannot cum could be you are tire need more rest.

Originally Posted by 3someking

Yes got.

I got come to a point that I pcc daily till the day I went cat 50, I cant even cum when in FJ position.

in the end, I ask the thai gal to handjob me.

damn sad leh

I'm serious.

Looks like I'm used to pcc liao.
afraid it would affect my future sex life

[3someking]

Originally Posted by jnudes

bro, I am in mid-thirties and single like you.

On average I cheong less than 10 times per year and I only do it while on away trip.

And I don't spend much around $1 to $2K only.

I am not a heavy cheongster, nor a heavy drinker, nor a heavy smoker.

I am a casual cheongster, casual drinker and a casual smoker.

I drink, on average 10 cans of beer in one year, nothing to compare with those heavy drinkers who drank 100 times more than me.

I smoke, on average 1 to 2 packets of ciggy in one year.

How is this possible, you may ask?

I do it just for temporary fun, to unload stress inside my body and I don't get addicted to it. I don't touch drugs too as I love my life.

I also do PCC daily like you. After cheonging I realised PCC does affect my sexual performance on bed. So I am reducing the frequency of my PCC habit.

I also have a hobby. I do walking regularly. The duration is one hour walk each session and I find it to be quite helpful to stay healthy and one way to cope with my single life.

At my age, 70% of my friends are married and have family and kids. But we still do meet once a year, usually during CNY. So I have no complaints despite growing old and still single.

At your age, I think it is good idea for you to discover new hobbies and make your time always occupied.

I agree with you it offers only temporary happiness and permanent damage not only to your money but also your health if you do it regularly.

When I mention health, I refer to smoking can cause lung cancer in long term, too much alcohol drinking can cause liver cancer in long term and sex with whores (especially unprotected) can increase your chance of contracting STDs or even HIV.

There is a saying anything too much is bad for you. I always remember and stick to that when I fuck, smoke and drink.

And so far so good to me as I did not overdo it.

Thanks for the advice bro!!

One of the best advice ever!!!

U 35 and still no gf?

High expectations ah?

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by 3someking

Thanks for the advice bro!!

One of the best advice ever!!!

U 35 and still no gf?

High expectations ah?

U r welcome bro, what I had written are solely based on my personal experience and observation. This is something you cannot study or obtain through school, college, uni, etc.

Even if you have PHD, Masters, Degree, Diploma, Certificate, etc you cannot get this kind of advice. Furthermore, I am much older than you, I had been your current age before, I know how a 25 years old mentality look like.

I made a lot of mistake at 25 years old around your age now, got cheated, got dumped by gal, got used and taken advantage by friends, got abandoned by best friend, failed business attempt, failed job interview, etc.

So what can I do now? Can I turn back the clock? Of course not. But instead I need to look forward and make sure I do not repeat the same mistake like before. Because in real life if you never fail, you can never learn anything.

About having gf there was also talks among my married and attached friends for me to have one. One my friend scolded me for me lazy and not to look for one. Is true I never look for one. Another even proposed me to go after unmarried female ex-classmates.

So how do I answer you? Having gf is not my priority now. I just love travelling and do cheonging at the moment. Don't ask me why not find gf ah?
Becoz I dun complain to be single; in fact I enjoyed it and it gave me 100% freedom.

For my friends that oredi married and have kids, I always tell myself not to compare with them. Let me live my own single life as long as I am happy.

[real_king]

dude, i was a heavy drinker/smoker/cheongster back in 2000s.

i have retired / went into hiding 4 years back.
its all about the friend you mix with, the insane amount of free time on hand that makes you want to go again.

want to stop, dont want to stop. its all in your head. i wash my hands in the golden bowl already. sometimes, the golden bowl will have cracks here and there but its ok coz you want can mend if if you want to.

[ColdBlood99]

Try to find an online game to focus I'm sure can stop your chionging habit

Some game can really help you earn some $$$

Still got tons of game which I forget.

Diablo 3
Counter strike
Wow
Dota
Left for dead
Gunonlinez

[Wintermelontea]

Question is. do you want to stop? If you do, you will know what to do and not base on our replies to stop cheonging.

It's just like how a smoker wants to quit he/she has enough of smoking or due to health issues?

[3someking]

Thanks for the advice bro

[tatata21]

If you have a monthly budget to cheong, you will cheong...

so do not have any budget allocated to this, put the money in an investment linked insurance or what.

alternatively, can give it to me la...