Sex Addiction? Vicious Cycle?

[kdb1717]

Wrong thread!

[kdb1717]

Wrong thread, sorry bros!

[washing]

True bro save up. If I no cheong for years, I think I can save up 30 to 50l. But if you got ED that will be sad so it is good to check if you are able to make your partner die or not. Lol.

[sgpiggybank]

So much mix comments here. No Right or Wrong, just like chicken or egg first. All depends on individual and also I believe all these goes down to excitement and also relationship with spouse. Relationship good meaning going for excitement and relationship no good meaning going for urge and mental relief.

Well, spending to bonk FL is ok but worst in drowning into KC trap. It is worst and money you spent is going to be alot more then you bonk daily....I have been through this and really regretted for spending so much on whores thinking they love you.

I seen many have fallen and some really in bad shape. All money spent on whores while they buy branded and eat all good food. Worst is the money you spent on them they spent also on feeding their husband in China....It will be cheaper for you to bonk and go. Drink milk no need to feed a cow mindset. They live better then you do...and their job is to lied and let all man fuck. While you are paying a fortune for a public toliet....conquering a hole which so many many have used and spending like a idiot as if you are the only one that owns that....

Anyway bonk within your own limits and no regret as when you grow old with ED or PE issues and you see pretty whore outside. You tell yourself..ai yah...I have bonk something even better. No regrets. hahaha.. Money cannot buy back time or sexperience. Bonk while you still can but not get trap in KC game then this will not be a sex addition anymore...there will always be a whore that can fuck better....

[fyeo1969]

I only spend what I can afford. Chionging is the last item on my budget list. Yet, it is one of the things I'd like to give up if I could. The company of a pretty girl is always nice, particularly if they are genuinely nice. I think most bros are sinister about it because they are afraid of the KC trap but the counter argument from the girls' perspective is "no money no honey". As Singaporeans, we may think that girls are materialistic but hey! Isnt that why they come to sell their bodies for? Who are we to judge? Also, we dont understand their culture nor have we walked a day in their shoes... some of these girls come from villages that we can only imagine the hardship... no education, no skills, often an abusive useless husband, parents who think girls are for selling off for dowry, spoiled brothers that they've been socially conditioned to support...

I often see bros who complain they spend 2k or 5k or 20k on a girl only for the girl to dump them once they go home... please lar... often the other side of the story that doesnt get told is the "extras" that you get from these girls. Depending on how good looking the girl is, I think splurging 10k a month isnt unimaginenable. I used to have a girl in China whom I would regularly visit, and often she would fly in for a month for me to enjoy... 10k a month, she cooks for me, bathes me, she willingly installs tracking surveillance on her mobile, she puts cameras in our apartment in China so I can see her etc. I dont know how to put a price on this... we know its a commercial transaction... and it ended when I couldnt go over after borders were locked down. She is often modelling for clothe retailers so I can guarantee you that she is gorgeous. My point is... I think the 10k a month was worth it...

Since we "broke up", Ive been searching for a replacement. I have a couple of MLs that I am "interviewing"... I dont think I will stop the habit... its nice to have a naked, pretty young thing lying with you in bed at 3am...

[fyeo1969]

Originally Posted by sgpiggybank

No regrets. hahaha.. Money cannot buy back time or sexperience. Bonk while you still can but not get trap in KC game then this will not be a sex addition anymore...there will always be a whore that can fuck better....

I agree to some extent. the KC feeling is somethibg money cant buy... what I can agree with is not to be unwitting get stuck in it... if you are, you get treated like a dog by the girl and will behave like one as well... happy when she replies you, dejected when she ignore you (often disgruntled by the fact that you've spent so much money).

These days, whenever the girl I am having a "relationship" throws tantrums at me, I just ask her to pack her bags and leave. Yes, it is lonely sometimes, but for the money I spend, there are always girls in the queue waiting to take her place. Often, the girl will back down... cos she realises that she did it for commercial reasons in the first place and its a much better deal than opening her legs 400 times a month to 150 different men. I refuse to be treated badly when I am ultimately still the customer.

[fshare]

end of the day to each its own. always spend within your means. its good to have tonnes of money but you cant bring all to your grave either.

all of us have been through this addiction at some point of our life as part of growing up. haha thats why we are all at this forum

[kombust]

Originally Posted by sgpiggybank

Anyway bonk within your own limits and no regret as when you grow old with ED or PE issues and you see pretty whore outside. You tell yourself..ai yah...I have bonk something even better. No regrets. hahaha.. Money cannot buy back time or sexperience. Bonk while you still can but not get trap in KC game then this will not be a sex addition anymore...there will always be a whore that can fuck better....

i agree with this. i always try to KC the ml/fl so that i stay in the position of power lol. KC them before they KC you! there's a chance you get pleasant surprises

[lovetocum]

Not sure why some bros always kanna KC trap and overcomplicate matters. Just have your own chiong philosophy and stick with it. For example,

1) chiong to satisfy little bro
2) set a fix or estimated amount each month or year to chiong
3) don't get emotionally involved

that's all, simple and don't mix up with other things.

[urger]

Originally Posted by lovetocum

1) chiong to satisfy little bro
2) set a fix or estimated amount each month or year to chiong
3) don't get emotionally involved

that's all, simple and don't mix up with other things.

IMO, that's becos married men wants to find a physiological refuge from the ever-sianz wives, naggy wife, not-interested in sex wife, away from kids nonsense etc. Finding a ML/WL fills up the gap in the life.

In the course, when they ML/WLs resonate their needs, men would in-tune with the rhythm, finds attachment and wants to continue to the soothing tunes.....thus money to "buy" the companionship starts.......

As for singles, play play and no harm hook. Nothing to lose.

[ceandy]

Hardly chiong nowadays because of Covid, used the opportunity to curb my addiction.

I place $100 in my wallet that is meant for commercial sex and if I do manage to abstain, I save that money somewhere.

Have been doing that since the end of CB last year, and I just managed to buy a nice watch for myself. OC I still chiong outside but the frequency is like maybe 5-10% pre covid.

I'm alot more alert now, less lethargic and generally feel better about myself.

[sgpiggybank]

Originally Posted by urger

IMO, that's becos married men wants to find a physiological refuge from the ever-sianz wives, naggy wife, not-interested in sex wife, away from kids nonsense etc. Finding a ML/WL fills up the gap in the life.

Also to find back the being loved and courting days fresh feelings. Feel more peaceful alone with the whore and whole day bonking without the stress of wife and children.

Like 1 of the bro mentioned. Just set a limit like buying 4D monthly to bonk. anyway exceed limit you have urge also have no money to bonk.

[Ray06]

Originally Posted by ceandy

Hardly chiong nowadays because of Covid, used the opportunity to curb my addiction.

I place $100 in my wallet that is meant for commercial sex and if I do manage to abstain, I save that money somewhere.

Have been doing that since the end of CB last year, and I just managed to buy a nice watch for myself. OC I still chiong outside but the frequency is like maybe 5-10% pre covid.

I'm alot more alert now, less lethargic and generally feel better about myself.

Bro,
if you feel less lethargic and generally feel better then would be good to completely quit ...more watches for yourself

[afterburn]

Talk about spending, the most bizzare thing I ever heard was this ML i go to that has a super-regular customer that comes almost daily I could hardly believe it but true enough she is always occupied at fixed time-slots almost daily. Finally I ventured to ask and she told me that fella buy 50 hours per month pkg and purely clean massage. ML is also not syt age, mid to late 30. Really her 米桶. Can count how much $ is that. CPF or retirement fund, maybe.

[sgpiggybank]

Originally Posted by afterburn

Talk about spending, the most bizzare thing I ever heard was this ML i go to that has a super-regular customer that comes almost daily I could hardly believe it but true enough she is always occupied at fixed time-slots almost daily. Finally I ventured to ask and she told me that fella buy 50 hours per month pkg and purely clean massage. ML is also not syt age, mid to late 30. Really her 米桶. Can count how much $ is that. CPF or retirement fund, maybe.

Nothing to be surprise. I am a idiot also to spent alot of money on 3 FLs. These money can buy me a condo already...Deeply regret but I do understand how come some bro can get KC and spent blindly despite of advice given. Now I meet FL with good KC I will try avoid as I still have a weak heart...