Bro,
Tks for ur post.
Must be my typo.
Let me try to improve it.
How about the following paragraph:
"A strong man here applies to a healthy n smart man who has emotional/self mastery. Yes, awesome emotional strength n mental frame. Such a man is also very fit, but may not be physically very strong. Contrast this to a hulk or body builder who is a very emotional, belligerent and bad-tempered bully, and who tries to pick a fight at the drop of a hat. Such a hooligan will be killed very quickly."
Let me help here
self-mastery meaning self-control
awesome emotional strength in mental frame meaning very strong mind with no facial expressions
Another words this man is virtually a valentino or player.
Fully agreed with the guru. Many times us men cannot control our own emotions and lost out.
Bro WB
Another nice forum from another guru.
3 powerful tips for enjoying now.
I like the tip 3 which states that forget about the past and focus on present.If we continue to live in the past and neglect future then life becomes misery in past tense.
I often advised my sorrowful friends that past is past. Past will never come back and live for the future. Take it that new life new people new gf.
Once a gal I was with having dinner with us (a few friends together) and when gf walks away without coming back, I decided that I will not look for her and started to enjoy myself. That night I was having company of another gal.
Hope to hear your views on this.
Please continue this thread as long as possible,
Cheers.
Bro,
Tks for your post.
Well done! A gal has just walked away from you? It's her tragic loss.
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Originally Posted by naresh
Bro WB
No no, you cannot slow down and we need you to be here. Just joking and hope you dun get upset.
Sometimes we need to take our time and sit back to reflect what had you done right and wrong. So dun repeat the wrong and improve on the right.
Interesting to note that many of us dun seem to be the PRIZE or lacking it. Becoming needy and insecure will not get you to be the PRIZE.
I found that often when I lust after a certain gorgeous gal and the sex turns out to be lousy and unsextifying. When you dun lust and chance upon a gal that takes you to be PRIZE then the sex turned up great and excellent.
Your comments on this?
Hope you continue to write more while slowing down on pickup syts or your LPs.
Wish you great success in your future endeavour.
Cheers.
Bro,
Thanks!
When you're the prize, your RS and sex w/ a gal will be very good. If it's not very good, you just walk away.
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Originally Posted by chaoem
Bro WB
I tried to find out the magic word and found it above after reading many pages.
"我们明天下午去做爱， 明天做我的老婆，我照顾你"
I always plan for future and hopefully dream big. Which makes sense with your keywords above.
"What You Can Do, or Dream You Can, Begin It; Boldness Has Genius, Power, and Magic in It."
I had never left to chance andof course have to keep approaching many women and kept telling them the magic words. We need to dream big.
Congratulations to bro WB on having a very successful thread.
Keep the thread lively and going on strong.
Have a nice day.
Bro,
Thank you!
Yeah, say the magic words. Pay attention to how you're saying these words.
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Originally Posted by lost09
Bro WB
First and foremost congratulations to you for the success story.
Like all your take home lessons above which summarized the important points of the approach to women.
Having a pair of pretty syts to be your LPs is a dream came true and doing tarma/3come often.
Hope you can share more with us here.
Will camp here often to read more updates.
Cheers!!
Bro,
Tks for the post.
Girls prefer sharing an unfaithful winner or MAN to having a monogamous relationship w/ a faithful loser or wussy 'boy.' My "joint LPs" often say 你像皇帝的享受!
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Originally Posted by naresh
Let me help here
self-mastery meaning self-control
awesome emotional strength in mental frame meaning very strong mind with no facial expressions
Another words this man is virtually a valentino or player.
Bro,
Thanks for your help.
Self mastery is not the same as self control. It's also much harder to achieve.
Bro,
Tks for the post.
Girls prefer sharing an unfaithful winner or MAN to having a monogamous relationship w/ a faithful loser or wussy 'boy.' My "joint LPs" often say 你像皇帝的享受!
Have a great weekend!
Bro WB
Bro, thank you for your reply.
Congrats - You have the emperor life with all your LPs. Do share with us a little bit how you spend time with your LPs.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Bro,
Thanks for your help.
Self mastery is not the same as self control. It's also much harder to achieve.
I like to share the following article from a famous guru, which I read a long time ago.
Triggering Automatic Female Lust
Contrary to what you see every week on 'Sex and the City', women are the complete opposite of men in that, the more *anonymous* the sexual encounter, the LESS gratifying they find it to be.
Unlike the fictional uber-slut Miranda, satisfying sex does not begin and end with the quest to find someone new to have an orgasm with. For the vast majority of women, the MORE connected they feel to their partner, the more overwhelming the total sexual experience is for them.
Just the reverse of typical male thinking, right? Men are intensely turned on by the thought of having sex with a woman for that very FIRST time, or by scoring a one-night stand with a perfect stranger, or perhaps fantasizing about being in a porno movie and having wanton sex with dozens of hot women he hardly knows. The common link between all these scenarios is that there is NO emotional bonding involved. Hell, there's hardly even an exchange of names! For the man, the more anonymous the sex the more *exciting* the idea of the conquest.
How the two genders make use of (and even exploit) this knowledge of each other's romantic weakness, however, is an entirely DIFFERENT story.
Women know exactly how to turn men on by manipulating this hardwired 'quirk' in their character that absolves them of the need to actually know anything about a woman who has triggered his desire to mate. How? Simply by pushing this uniquely male "anonymous sex" button long and often... by acting sexy AND remaining emotionally aloof at the same time. The stripper, the table dancer, the whore. The molten hot stranger. Any persona will do -- and all are quite useful when their design is seduction!
Men, on the other hand, seem mostly clueless about how to turn the tables and pull off the same trick. In fact, the prevailing feeling is that female lust is such a mysterious and unfathomable 'holy grail' so rarely encountered in real life that it's taken on a kind of mythical quality. I guess some women just have it for certain men... and not for others, and there's no understanding the reasons why.
But can female lust be triggered by the deliberate actions of a man?
I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.
What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER.
You see, women possess a deeply-rooted pre-intellectual *instinct* which compels them to submit themselves for copulation in the presence of what they sense to be a DOMINANT MALE. They cannot help feeling like this -- despite the fact that the modern woman manages to suppress the urge to act on these feelings most of the time (but, not always...). So when a man learns how to project the most subtlest of gestures, actions and attitudes that suggest he's a "dominant male", he can force a woman's subconscious mating desires to become aroused WHETHER SHE LIKES IT OR NOT.
And some of them won't like it a bit. She may get upset because you've forced her to experience a potent feeling which she may feel compelled to conceal with the workings of her more rational mind. And yet when a woman consents to have sex with a man who has set off these automatic desires in her, she stands to enter into the hottest, most fulfilling sensual experience that it is possible for her to have. And she knows it.
AND she's also frightened of it -- because once unleashed in this way, it can be difficult to stem the cascade of all-consuming passion. She risks taking the kind of social and romantic chance that only happens a precious few times in her life. Can she allow herself to become addicted to a man who can make her see stars?
By learning to adopt the actions and attitudes of the dominant male, it is possible to create these sort of emotional disturbances in women at will. Almost any girl that you can manage to talk to in a SPECIFIC sort of way can have her "lust triggers" ignited like a blow torch. And when the ability to seduce becomes more a skill than mere luck, your chances of suffering the humiliation of being rejected vanish too. Now you have done more than learned to act the part of a dominant male, you have *become* one. And truthfully, there's no real difference.
Because in this game, acting is BEING.
Adopting the body language, voice tonality and behaviour of a man w/ strong masculine traits (such as dominance, trustworthiness, decisiveness, courage, kindness, humility, confidence, optimism, ambition, unflappability, perseverance, sexual mojo and emotional mastery) is the key to female lust.
Any comments and criticisms?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good morning to all!!
Bro WB, was reading the above post with full interest.
Agreed that men go for visual look and when eyeing a pretty gal brain says pretty. We all knew beauty lies in the eye of beholder.
Women is totally different. Women turn on what ever the guy do and what actions the women did not experienced before. Another words woman turn on lust only when guy perform extraordinary actions. Actually osme of the actins may not be uncommon just that the woman never encountered before and making her lust.
Any comment?
Bro, please enjoy your weekend. Also please dun forget to post more here.
All bros are encouraged to post their FRs. Pls give enough details and I'll comment on them.
Every encounter is a positive experience for me. I also learn a lot from detailed FRs n experiences of others. Not only your conquests n success stories but also rejections, failures, setbacks and break ups!!
I hv alluded to the fact that over 50% of my GFs/LPs/lovers/mistresses rejected me initially. At least 90% of those who had rebuffed me said yes, after weeks to many months and, in some cases, up to 2-3 years! A few of them actually hung up on me and avoided me as if I were a leper.
How you react to her rejection is the best indicator of whether you're the prize or just another AFC or average frustrated chump. You must remain 很冷静，很笃定。
Here is an article on why we should embrace rejection.
How to Make Rejection Your Best Friend
It takes balls to get laid, both literally
and figuratively. Just like in business, you
must foster the drive within yourself to
succeed.
You must keep your focus on the goal and not
be sidetracked by the little details, like
being rejected.
The only way to have an abundant sex life is
through rejection.
Many of our students feel crushed when a
woman says "no." They get depressed and want
to give up.
Or they feel bad about themselves and think
they are losers. We've also talked to guys
who throw tantrums, get angry and blame the
woman. These are natural reactions, but such
reactions won't deliver the goods...sex.
The bottom line is that when a woman rejects
you, you must take the long term view of
things.
Hearing "no" is part of the process of
getting laid.
When a woman says "no" you don't push it.
This would damage your self-esteem, and could
get you thrown in jail.
What you do is go on to the next woman. You
must train yourself as a dating commando to
view and interpret all "no's" as steps along
the way to your ultimate success.
Obviously it sucks to have a woman say "no."
It also sucks to be spanking off in your room
all alone.
Remember: it isn't personal.
Men ask, and women say "yes" or "no."
Everyone, even seduction masters, hear "no"
from women. They persist, and so must you.
Even if it takes 1,000 no's for one yes,
persistence is the only way.
If your goal really is to have an abundant
sex life, you must never, ever, ever give up.
You may give up on a particular woman, but
you don't give up on your ultimate goal of
abundant sex.
This never-give-up attitude is the key
difference between a guy who is successful
and another guy who is at the whim of his
emotions and fails frequently.
The guy who doesn't let the rejection bother
him succeeds, and the other guy fails.
Which one do you want to be?
It is useful to view dating as a numbers
game. Keep in mind that even the most
masterful seducers only pick up 10% of women
they hit on.
What they do is just keep on going and enjoy
the process, like an adventure.
You are learning a new art form, developing a
new muscle, a new way of acting in the world
and rejection will happen along the way.
Be patient, for God's sake. No more whining.
Here are some things to remember:
- It isn't personal. Every man gets rejected
some of the time.
- There are thousands of women who would be
happy for you to do them tonight! You just
don't know who they are and you give up too
fast when you aren't willing to risk
rejection.
- Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain
percent of women will say "no" and a certain
percent will say "yes."
- Look at successful sports figures. Babe
Ruth had the most home runs, but also had a
huge number of strike-outs! Like Babe, you
must be willing to swing for all you are
worth and strike out sometimes. - If you are
rejected, just go on to the next woman.
That's all there is to it.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Thanks for your great thread.
Rejections are daily dose and all men had to accept. Agreed that man had to take rejections and learned from it. Have to be fully motivated too that each rejections are easier and closer to the holy grail. Never give up.
Once I was in a cafe and there she was sitting with a friend. She did not look around but her friend did. Her friend told her I was looking at them. So she turned and faced me first time which lasted maybe 2 sec. I went to her table and asked her for her contact. She rejected giving me but her friend did. So I kept in touch with her friend and found her contact.
Another words we must be pro-active and be creative.
There are some cardinal rules re relationship that most men don't truly understand.
I believe that chasing girls makes a man very unattractive.
Caring too much, trying to buy her affection/love w/ money and gifts or being insecure, needy or jealous is repulsive. The girl will try to run away if she could...it's a certainty.
Remember the story of King Fuchai and Fan Li?
FL was the slave of King Go Jian when GJ himself was a slave of Fuchai. King Fuchai eventually lost Xi Shi to Fan Li!! Behave like Fan Li when interacting w/ the most beautiful girl in the world. And she may fall for u.
Here is a brief Email from a guru:
The biggest lesson I ever learned about attraction…
Like many guys I was really insecure about my looks.
So I spent a lot of money on fancy clothes, expensive personal trainers, and pricey haircuts.
At first I felt great...but my new look didn’t help me whatsoever in the dating department.
I was still a dateless virgin.
And this is because I believed women were attracted to men, the same way men are attracted to women.
Let me explain…
Typically a man sees a woman, determines if he finds her attractive, and then tries to build an emotional connection.
For women it’s the other way around…
When a woman meets a man, she determines if she’s attracted to that man based on the emotions he makes her feel.
When I learned this my entire life changed…
I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met.
This is just one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned when it comes to building attraction.
Take home lesson. Girls are not attracted to men the same way we men are attracted to them.
Here is something to encourage my fellow ah peks.
"Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan."
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
First of all let me thank you for having a pleasant thread.
When I was reading above I wasn't sure I caught the entire meaning till I started to read more pages.
Xi Shi was a beauty but only in the eyes of beholder. Today beauty is hardly defined. A friend of mine define beauty as what the gal have namely size of boobs and dimples smile. Another friend said beauty means gal must have acceptable 9/10 looks and not too chubby.
It is great to make analogy of King Fuchai and Xi Shi because man always think riches can get you the hottest beauty.
I noticed that pretty gals go limp when they see a guy does certain things such as k-pop star or Superstar. Often such stars have no lack of pretty gals.
You are right that woman process different signal as what man lust after gals.
Rejections are daily dose and all men had to accept. Agreed that man had to take rejections and learned from it. Have to be fully motivated too that each rejections are easier and closer to the holy grail. Never give up.
Once I was in a cafe and there she was sitting with a friend. She did not look around but her friend did. Her friend told her I was looking at them. So she turned and faced me first time which lasted maybe 2 sec. I went to her table and asked her for her contact. She rejected giving me but her friend did. So I kept in touch with her friend and found her contact.
Another words we must be pro-active and be creative.
I really love this thread and hope to read more.
Have a good weekend to all/
Cheers.
Fully agreed, thanks bro Wb for this great thread.
Every SYT or young woman of my type, both WL and non WL, anywhere in the world is fair game to me. Of course, I'll take into account personal safety. For example, it would be foolhardy to pick up the beautiful mistress of a Mexican drug lord or Yakuza boss haha.
I'll never, ever knowingly touch a married woman, a blood relative or GF/mistress/lover of a bro I know personally.
Sometimes this is complicated when a 'GF' is not a GF. You see, a man should never call a gal his GF/mistress or lover when he has not had penetrative vaginal sex w/ her. Fair enough?
Yup, some men imagine a girl they fancy as their 'girlfriends.' They may hv wasted a lot of time and hv spent lots of money on them and still couldn't get close enough to smell their pussies. Some hv not even french kissed their 'GF.' They are deluded. Some of these men are very experienced, or so I thought. These gals are just stringing them along to extract more money...it's very painful to watch. The best chance they hv is to let go of the 'GF.'
The following article mentions this problem.
"Hitting on your friend’s lady is just bad form. Your boy is trusting you when he introduces his girlfriend to his friends. Be nice, be playful, include her in the group, but don’t flirt with her or get overtly sexual. Be a good friend.
However, this rule doesn't necessarily apply to girls that your bro has "dibs" on, whom he hasn’t actually taken to bed. I know some guys like to "reserve" girls for their own flirting pleasure, when some other guys are more suited or able to bed them. It's really up to the kind of relationship you have with your friends.
Sometimes my friends and I set a time limit on how long one of us has to talk to a girl and get her interested before the others are allowed to move in. Other times, if a guy really, really likes a prospective girl, we just let it be."
If a bro I know would like to keep a gal LT or marry her, I won't touch her even if he has not made love to her. I would be happy to share w/ him what little I know about getting pussies n relationship n sex. And get her to fall for him. Yup, emotionally and sexually addicted to him.
But most men are too proud to accept my unconditional help. That includes my sons. Sad.
Your comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
The above post touch on many men nerves. The post was right about touching others gf/mistress.
There was a golden rule "never touch another friend gf/mistress". Some idiots (pardon me) happily like to hit on friend's gfs/mistresses after introducing. Once the friend knew where they work the friend will find all means to get in touch with her.
Enough of this so called friends who had no social etiquette. Some of the worst friends one could even have.
Of course, if the friend had not upped the gal then cannot be calling such gal gf or even any name. Agreed with you that there should be time line how long before another can go after.
What a wonderful thread you have and will love to read up.
The above post touch on many men nerves. The post was right about touching others gf/mistress.
There was a golden rule "never touch another friend gf/mistress". Some idiots (pardon me) happily like to hit on friend's gfs/mistresses after introducing. Once the friend knew where they work the friend will find all means to get in touch with her.
Enough of this so called friends who had no social etiquette. Some of the worst friends one could even have.
Of course, if the friend had not upped the gal then cannot be calling such gal gf or even any name. Agreed with you that there should be time line how long before another can go after.
What a wonderful thread you have and will love to read up.
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