I greatly appreciate ur insightful comments on PRC MMs n their flesh trade in S'pore. You had a 3-yr RS w/ one mistress? How did u do it? Mine never lasted more than a few months. I need to pick ur brain n hope that u could be a regular contributor to this thread. I do hv many questions for u.
Although u r new to SBF, u hv tremendous experience n wisdom in cheonging n BY-ing, much more superior to my inadequate n often failed experience, as my 1st encounter w/ a PRC MM was in 2007 n my 1st visit to a KTV was 2 yrs ago. I'm still an armchair general trying to get more hands-on field experience...
The flesh trade is a most inefficient market, even less efficient than the very inefficient stock market, largely as a result of the complex factors u hv enumerated. In addition to the fact that one man's meat is another man's poison n the mysterious Rashomon Effect, KC n gong tao may frequently be involved which make the outcome between every patron-PRC MM encounter most unpredictable...
Let's start w/ the lower end of the spectrum, low in damage but not necessary in looks, figure n service. Among the most beautiful PRC MMs I hv met r 4 very inexpensive whores: A 20 yo SH gal from sex141 in HKG, 2 Sichuan FLs, aged 19 n 21, at or near L8/Talma Rd in GL n a legal Cat 150 22 yo gal from SZ. Their services ranged from good to excellent...three of them accepted my offer for BY but I just couldnt go to China to complete the deal. Nowadays I hv to visit TAM complex 3-4 times just to find one gal who is mildly interesting. I prefer pretty n tall SYTs (aged 18-22) n there is a dearth of these creatures...they r fast becoming extinct.
On the high end of the spectrum r some ang pai singers/gals at some famous HFJs/KTVs. High in damage only but not in looks, figure n service. They r generally much older as well...they r women not gals. I heard from my frens n my BAO-ees that some of these women hv made over a million SGD in a relatively short time. I hv seen some ang pais n I hv to scratch my head as to what the fxk is going on?!! Must be gong tao.
But hope springs eternal. Many old n ugly PRC women (I can't call them MMs) also want to try their luck here bcos u never know, they may meet n "gong tao" a sucker into giving 100-200k up front, before even touching them!
Lastly, sexual culture/behaviour n moral values must be very different in China. I'm an ah pek, much older than almost all my mistresses' parents who r usually in their 40s. And most of the parents know exactly what their daughters r up to. Take the example of my niece BB whose dad is only 43...I was taken aback when he wanted to thank me personally for taking such good care of her! I also spoke w/ KX's dad who is a chef n owns a restaurant...oh, you're her BF from S'pore? She is out n u could call her other HP...!!
One other thing. In my personal experience, all healthy n heterosexual PRC MMs including virgins, regardless of her occupation. educational level n status here, r looking to be BAO-ed by a man. I had a 19 yo NUS Presidential Scholar who asked me to keep her! I had detailed my exploit w/ her towards the end of last yr.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
What a detailed account of your past 16 months experience.
Life is short and enjoy yourself to the fullest.
Hopefully can read more about your account on each of the stages.
Thanks bro.
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Originally Posted by warbird
BY-ing is a lot more dangerous to ur emotional n financial well being. I'm still struggling to get it right after 16 months of BY-ing saga. But it's more fun, more GFE, etc.
If the RS lasts more than a couple of months, there will be at least some KC involved, which may be one-sided or a two-way traffic. Your self control is crucial.. Never fall in love w/ a WL. If u can't control ur heart n ego, you will be at risk...
For me, pursuing n tasting pretty pussies of my type is only a small part of BY-ing. It's a fun game n a business operation, hehehe. Additionally, I also enjoy going to a flat n see my young mistress walking around, perhaps cooking dinner for me, completely nude or scantily clad w/ only a T-shirt n wearing nothing underneath, hehehe. After dinner n resting, we would take shower together n then would usually make love for couple of hrs....I then like to see her disappointment when I said I couldn't stay overnite...is it worth the much higher damage? I dun really know, sometimes yes n sometimes no...
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Very humble person and what you mentioned above was many men's dream. Having a silky hot bod having dinner or resting her head on you.
Have you bao-ed any angmoh girls since you are American?
What’s the difference between fucking PRC and Gotham City girls?
Bro,
Thanks for your questions.
No, I hv not BY an Ang Mo gal. I hv had only two Ang Mo GFs since my marriage decades ago.
Ang Moh SYTs are very easy. Perhaps because I'm an American board-certified XXXX, only one notch less prestigious than a neurosurgeon or transplant surgeon.
I was constrained because I used to work 80-90 hours a wk and I was married with kids. I also shunned anyone employed by the hospitals.
Over 20 yrs ago, I was attending a party for a newly opened clinic of a urologist. Suddenly a very pretty Ang Mo SYT approached me. I had never seen her before. She said she had seen me many times at the hospital n knew that I was a XXXX. She wanted to follow my rounds because she was interested in medicine. She just turned 18, would be finishing high school in a few months. She was 5 feet 6 inches tall (about 168) and slim. With excellent body and limb proportions. Small bony frame n small wrists. Very fair of course.
We had a sexual relationship for 5 months until she left Gotham City to go to college in another state. I bought her some gifts and gave her a little cash. We fucked twice a week. She had surprisingly limited sexual experience. I insisted on using condoms. After she started college, we only met twice when she returned during school holiday.
A few yrs later, I hooked up w/ a young pharma rep for a small drug co. It lasted around 8 months. She was in her early 20s, quite pretty too. I also bought her some gifts. She sometimes paid for our meals at restaurants using her co account. I did reciprocate by writing a few prescriptions for her company's drugs. She left the city to work for Abbot Lab.
The differences between Ang mo and PRC gals? The Ang Mo gals are more open-minded n the non-WLs will approach you if they are attracted to you. One more thing, they like to do BJ.
Cheers!
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Originally Posted by justifywinner
Bro WB
What a detailed account of your past 16 months experience.
Life is short and enjoy yourself to the fullest.
Hopefully can read more about your account on each of the stages.
Thanks bro.
Bro WB
Very humble person and what you mentioned above was many men's dream. Having a silky hot bod having dinner or resting her head on you.
I wish my turn will come.
Please help to update us more.
Have a good weekend.
Cheers.
Bro, tks for your post.
Yes, life is short and unpredictable.
All the posts you quoted happened a long time ago. perhaps you should read my more recent posts. I prefer long term BY now. The longest has lasted 4 years continuously. Many hv tried to return. My 'niece' BB tried to return 2 yrs ago even though she was married w/ one kid. I flatly rejected her.
Sorry for not replying earlier due to my heavy work schedule.
Yeah, we men generally become more worthy n valuable w/ age, whereas these young pussies hv a very limited shelf life...their value n marketability generally decline rapidly after the age of 25 n, sadly for them, there is little residual value left after childbirth.
I hv BY-ed 17-18 PRC MMs since last May. The BY-ing periods were quite brief last yr, from 1-4 wks n they still continued to work. However, since Jan this yr I hv kept them full-time n for much longer, over 2 months for most. I hv had 2 or 3 at the same time.
Why did I change my strategy this yr? Change may be the wrong word, I hv been evolving. Two reasons. Firstly, there hv been fewer gals of my type n I end up keeping them longer. Secondly, I hv begun to realize that RS w/ the right gals gets better as time passes, sexually n emotionally. It's great fun n an exciting experience...It has all advantages of getting married w/o many of the disadvantages, hehehe. Imagine getting married to a new gal every 2-6 months w/o the negative consequences!
But having a secure n private flat (at least a master bdrm) w/ ur mistress is crucial. It's like home where u two could enjoy a much better RS...
IMHO, longer term BY-ing has its risks n is not for the faint of heart. You need to hv good control over ur heart n ego, otherwise u will suffer financially n emotionally.
How did my RS w/ my gals end? I terminated the RS in over half of them for a variety of reasons. In 1/3 of cases the RS ended bcos either the gal or I left the country. BTW, I live in Gotham City n spend abt 2/3 of my time in S'pore. Several gals dumped me for different reasons. The gal in my avatar, KK, fell in love w/ a young classmate, a 老乡, when I was overseas. They had my blessings...but, unfortunately, their RS is very strained n mostly miserable.
BTW, I hv ongoing RS w/ two gals who r now in PRC but will come back to be my full-time mistresses on my return to S'pore. BTW, I'm also tired of running around n will "settle down" w/ these 2, hopefully for 12 months or longer. Will I eat outside? Sure, if the gal is really pretty n my type. May hv to keep her as my No 3, hahaha. What the heck, I'm just trying to emulate Chairman Austin n Bro LDH.
For some strange reason, most of my BAO-ees r kinesthetic, a few r auditory n only one visual. Being a visual, I hv had a lot of problems n conflicts w/ most of them, even though they r highly attractive to me. They r romantic n want to hv the right feelings n ambiance when making love...several complained that I'm a heartless n unemotional man n just want to make love to them. What is wrong w/ that? But I'll try to be more caring, passionate n romantic, hehehe. It's never too late for an old dog to learn new tricks. The young mistress that I left behind said that: 我只是一个小女孩， 我更需要生活上的热心和感动...I believe she is back to work at LV /CI. She is very emotional n moody...but I do miss her young pussy!
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Thank you for posting such a marvelous thread with nice detailed account of affairs.
Is raw deal that all these gals have very limited life span. First the PRC gals are not sure to live in Singapore long. Hence the gals will try to earn as much as they can in shortest possible time. They may have many offers to have sexual relationship be it ST, LT or BY.
Men always will have chance to enjoy while been healthy and able. When you have health then must have moolah to enjoy too.
Please guide us more and enjoy reading your posts.
Are there still pretty SYTs at or near L8/Talma? According to my research there r pretty SYTs who stay mostly indoors, inside the hotels, n only available in the wee hrs when I'm asleep.
I hv not done ST for quite some time. It's too commercial. I crave exclusivity n the elated feelings of honeymoon, hehehe.
Over the past 12 months, several mummies hv tried to procure my type of gals for BY at TAM/CI/LV n at DC. I hv been disappointed except for one tall Fujian SYT whom I met last Dec. She was 21, 170 n 52kg. Very sexy body n long, nice legs. But she wanted to be paid monthly, not wkly. So no deal. I heard she just came back...
I do hv some questions for u.
1) How do u pay ur mistresses? Wkly, monthly?
2) Do u keep them in a private flat/master bdrm?
3) Do u do them raw? Do they take the pill?
4) When they request gifts or extra money for whatever reasons, what do u do?
5) Of course they r exclusive to u. But do u also eat outside? What if they find out?
I'm thinking of keeping the 2 gals under one roof, something I hv never done before I need advice from esteemed bros here.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
So detail forum. I am also keen to know the answers to your question below.
Let me try to answer as my preference.
1) How do u pay ur mistresses? Wkly, monthly?
- Monthly
2) Do u keep them in a private flat/master bdrm?
- private flat
3) Do u do them raw? Do they take the pill?
- sure raw if exclusive and pills
4) When they request gifts or extra money for whatever reasons, what do u do?
- small amount alright lah but anything more than 1k no way
5) Of course they r exclusive to u. But do u also eat outside? What if they find out?
- sure eat outside because when travel for business on trips
As for idea of housing 2 gals in same roof will be tricky unless both gals knew each other well.
Just like 3some, if the 2 gals have new to each other will be awkward and no role play.
Thank you for posting such a marvelous thread with nice detailed account of affairs.
Is raw deal that all these gals have very limited life span. First the PRC gals are not sure to live in Singapore long. Hence the gals will try to earn as much as they can in shortest possible time. They may have many offers to have sexual relationship be it ST, LT or BY.
Men always will have chance to enjoy while been healthy and able. When you have health then must have moolah to enjoy too.
Please guide us more and enjoy reading your posts.
Thank you for posting such a marvelous thread with nice detailed account of affairs.
Is raw deal that all these gals have very limited life span. First the PRC gals are not sure to live in Singapore long. Hence the gals will try to earn as much as they can in shortest possible time. They may have many offers to have sexual relationship be it ST, LT or BY.
Men always will have chance to enjoy while been healthy and able. When you have health then must have moolah to enjoy too.
Please guide us more and enjoy reading your posts.
Have a good Sunday.
Bro, tks.
Men age like fine wine, whereas girls age like milk. I'm not being sexist. It's a biological fact.
A very cute and chio 18 yo SYT will not be as cute in less than 24-36 months. This ageing process is greatly accelerated if the girl gets pregnant n delivers a baby.
What to do?
Nature has a solution, sort of. Many men get emotionally attached to their gals/women. They often also fall in love w/ their very cute n chubby babies. Call it paternal instinct. So most of the men will stick around and help raise the kids, at least for some time. That is why we humans are still here. A few men are truly heartless and will just walk away. Very irresponsible and wussy behaviour, IMHO.
I hv mentioned that cute yr 97 SYT I met in Dec 2015. Let's call her TT. She was 18 then. She was 161, abt 46.5 kg. Could be 162 now. Natural B w/ excellent torso-breasts-ass-limb proportions. She won't come back to SG n she had plastic surgery over a yr ago. What a pity! I'm thinking of showing her pictures here to illustrate the type of cute SYT I like.
TY is is the only gal I hv seen in the last 2 1/2 years in SG who is just as attractive, to me. Of course, TY is much younger. TT is 21 now. TY is a real full-time student n she doesn't work. She is more frugal, more intelligent and has artistic talents.
I didn't post about TT at the time because I was very busy. She was w/ me for only two weeks and I had two other full-time LPs. I still hv her wechat photos and chat history. Around that time my SBF posts were about a phantom wussy bro, the self-proclaimed Don Juan.
The "SYT" photos "Don Juan of SG" posted were taken from the internet. They were also not cute enough n not SYT enough for me. And, they were mostly plastic. I hv made generous offers to him repeatedly. To bring two cute SYTs of my type, one for him and one for me and I'll pay for all expenses. KTV outings, dinner, whatever. I'll now add pickup by a chauffeured limo. I basically asked him to name the price. I'm still waiting to hear from him. My offer has no expiration date. I hope he is still alive n well. I do wish him the very best.
BTW, TT had sex only once prior to meeting me. TY? She had a BF who was abt her age for about 18 months. They had sex less than 20 times. He was as green as she. No foreplay, no painting, no 69...he was another wuss.
Cheers!
Bro WB
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Originally Posted by asewang
Bro WB
So detail forum. I am also keen to know the answers to your question below.
Let me try to answer as my preference.
1) How do u pay ur mistresses? Wkly, monthly?
- Monthly
2) Do u keep them in a private flat/master bdrm?
- private flat
3) Do u do them raw? Do they take the pill?
- sure raw if exclusive and pills
4) When they request gifts or extra money for whatever reasons, what do u do?
- small amount alright lah but anything more than 1k no way
5) Of course they r exclusive to u. But do u also eat outside? What if they find out?
- sure eat outside because when travel for business on trips
As for idea of housing 2 gals in same roof will be tricky unless both gals knew each other well.
Just like 3some, if the 2 gals have new to each other will be awkward and no role play.
Hope my post makes sense to you.
Thanks again for allowing me to post here.
Cheers!!
Bro, tks for your excellent answers.
I like to pay every 15 days or twice a month.
Say NO to gifts unless a particular LP deserves it. TY bought a used piano in good condition. She paid almost 2k herself. I hv offered to buy her a laptop which will help her school studies n learning. I hv not bought her any gift yet, whereas she bought me a surprise gift last wk.
I had kept two young women together for over 1 1/2 yrs. I had several posts alluding to this. They were good friends. One of them returned home a few months ago. The other LP is looking for a gal to replace her.
All the posts you quoted happened a long time ago. perhaps you should read my more recent posts. I prefer long term BY now. The longest has lasted 4 years continuously. Many hv tried to return. My 'niece' BB tried to return 2 yrs ago even though she was married w/ one kid. I flatly rejected her.
Thank you very much for staring a wonderful thread.
Amazing detailed account of PRC mms enrolled into USA varsities. Many of these PRC mms are from rich elite families whose father is high ranking Politburo members. Some of the mms graduated and started working in big corporations such as Wall Street firms. These mms will be liberal minded and willing to ONS.
The guru account below is quite a good description of the real thing.
Now many Asians rich elite also sending their kids to America to do below.
Best to hunt in the SOURCE rather than hoping to do it in foreign land. What I meant was if want PRC mms then go PRC to do so. Similarly if want Thai mms then go Thailand.
Once again thank you very much for nice post here.
Please have a great day.
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Originally Posted by warbird
I hv something interesting to share w/ bros here.
In the last few yrs, many young PRC gals hv arrived in Gotham country to study at high schools n colleges n many more hv come to work n/or play.
I just received an e-mail from an Asian guru giving advice to Ang Mo men on how to pick up n seduce PRC gals who r in America. I guess he thinks I'm a Caucasian too. It behooves us to understand what our competitors, the Ang Mo men, r learning abt PRC gals...
He also mentioned the "5Cs" of what a China gal wants. Is he S'porean?
Here is what this Asian guru has to say:
Hi Bro Warbird,
Beautiful Chinese women shouldn't be too hard to find if you
if live in a large American city. A lot of affluent Chinese
families have been sending their daughters to study in the
USA and perfect their English, since they recognize English
as the global language of doing business--and the Chinese
are all about business.
These women usually graduate from college and find jobs
with Western companies. If you work in a Western corporation,
the type of Asian women you are most likely to work with are
Chinese women. Often, they are sexy, intelligent, and speak
very good English.
In other words, they are a formidable challenge.
These are not your average "third world girls" who are easily
dazzled. The fact that you are a foreigner doesn't carry much
weight with them. These women know they have options, and so
they tend to be choosy about the men they date.
They also come from a culture where money, status and power are
the most important qualities in a man--and the hottest women
are accustomed to dating super-wealthy men (sometimes much
older than they are), who set them up with whatever they want.
A few aspects of Chinese women you need to know about:
First, I'm speaking in general terms here. The cute, shy girl
who works at your local Chinese restaurant is not going to
have the same values and expectations as the super-hot,
confident Chinese chick that comes from a ritzy area of Hong
Kong and has dated millionaires.
The advice found throughout this program applies very well
to "regular" Chinese women. But as China has evolved into a
major global superpower, it also has created a large class
of hot young women who are used to being around a lot of
money--and Chinese men who spend huge amounts to "own" them.
You will find these beautiful, high-end Chinese girls in the
nightclubs and shopping districts of New York, Los Angeles or
Las Vegas--sporting Louis Vuitton purses and expensive designer
outfits. They're usually either enrolled in an American
university, or there on holiday with their friends.
I know that a confident guy with the right skills can seduce
any woman (and I'm living proof), but hot Chinese girls that
come straight out of big-money Chinese culture will usually
only go with you if they know you have the right financial
status.
It's not the same with many super-hot Western women (models,
strippers, etc) where you can use a "bad boy" edge to get
them to feel sexual attraction. Chinese women, being more
practical and less emotional than American women, aren't so
much interested in dating a "hot" guy who doesn't have his
act together.
They are much more likely to date men who aren't impressive
in the looks department, but have the financial resources to
spoil them with the lifestyle they want.
Another thing to keep in mind: Chinese men look down on women
who have been married before, or have children. It is very
difficult for these women to find a quality man inside their
own race. For this reason, Chinese women won't hesitate to
leave their country and a good-paying job to find love again
somewhere else.
In China, improving one's quality of life through marriage
is a tradition. Nowadays, many single women in the big cities
in China have a good quality of life--but in the more remote
parts of the country, the idea of meeting a Western man, getting
married, and moving to his country to find love is very attractive.
However, they probably speak little (if any) English. This
can make meeting these girls over the Internet a challenge.
Better, if possible, for you to go "to the source" and scout
out these places for yourself.
These are various dialects in China (it's a vast country!)
Mandarin, Cantonese and Hokkien are the major dialects that
you are likely to encounter. But because the wealthy Chinese
families recognize English as the global language for doing
business, they will often speak English at home.
Chinese women have gained a lot of rights and respect as equals
in recent years. Some women don't care about getting married
and will co-habitat with their boyfriends because they prefer
a no-strings-attached relationship; if things don't work out,
they are prepared to move on.
The new generation of young Chinese women are a lot more open
to expressing themselves sexually than they were in the past.
You see this with a lot of sex videos that get "leaked" to the
Internet, involving Chinese celebrities. It's now common for
Chinese girls to let their boyfriends take sexy photos and
videos of them.
Hot Chinese girls will usually expect the "5C" from their lover:
Cash, Car, Condominium, Career, Credit Card.
"Giving your girlfriend a gold credit card is out of style,"
says my friend D.H, a successful Hong Kong businessman. "Now
they want Platinum or AMEX-Black Card. It's a status symbol.
Money is king in China--you'll see a lot of fat, ugly guys
driving a luxury car with a super-hot girl in the passenger
seat."
But this is not to say that you need to be a high roller to
date hot Chinese women. They are vulnerable to guys who are
"sweet talkers" and create a sense of romance.
Tell them you love them, kiss them, take them on romantic
trips...if she hasn't already been spoiled rotten by high
rollers, you've got a shot.
When I talked to my friend D.H. about romancing Chinese
women, he spoke to me in practical terms (as the Chinese
always do): "In China, when we're not with our girlfriends
or wives, we just pay when we want sex. It's not a big deal,
it's what guys do. There are many places in China which have a
poor quality of life, and as long as you can pay, you can get
any kind of sex you want. But if you want a relationship in a
big city like Shanghai or Beijing, you need to have money.
Once a woman has her own 'income power,' she will be very
selective about who she will date."
D.H. told me a story about a friend of his, a hot Chinese woman
who is the mistress to the CEO of a major company. When the
CEO found out she was pregnant with his baby, he said he would
pay her $1 million to deliver a baby girl, and $3 million if it
was a baby boy.
These scenarios aren't unusual in the big Chinese cities: rich
guys use their money to lay out the terms of the relationship.
The beautiful young women are naturally going to hang out in
places where they can interact with high-status, big-money
Chinese men. And if a Chinese guy likes one of these women,
he's not going to fuck around and waste time.
He is going to treat it like a business deal: he will supply
the "5 C's," and she will be available for sex when he wants it.
The bottom line is that a Chinese woman wants to be given
respect and have her man make her feel like she is the most
important person in the world--his "one and only."
Beyond the Chinese girls who are obsessed with material
possessions and status symbols, if you look around, you will
have the opportunity to meet simpler, down-to-earth Chinese
women who will respond positively to a Western guy who shows
her loyalty, commitment and romance.
Thank you very much for staring a wonderful thread.
Amazing detailed account of PRC mms enrolled into USA varsities. Many of these PRC mms are from rich elite families whose father is high ranking Politburo members. Some of the mms graduated and started working in big corporations such as Wall Street firms. These mms will be liberal minded and willing to ONS.
The guru account below is quite a good description of the real thing.
Now many Asians rich elite also sending their kids to America to do below.
Best to hunt in the SOURCE rather than hoping to do it in foreign land. What I meant was if want PRC mms then go PRC to do so. Similarly if want Thai mms then go Thailand.
Once again thank you very much for nice post here.
Please have a great day.
Agreed this is indeed a wonderful thread by Bro WB.
Hope to read more.
Support.
High Sextisfaction Quotient or SQ at the least cost? You hv posed a very challenging question.
How to find pretty SYTs w/ ur preferred body n pussy type who give good services, r very orgasmic, yet won't cost an arm n a leg? You will rarely find those attributes in gals who do ST. I hv searched everywhere...GL legal gals, streetwalkers, local FLs, KTV gals/students, etc. ST-gals hv no incentive to giving good services n u hv little leverage over them. There r other problems. I normally neither kiss nor paint gals who do ST...n I'll NEVER do them raw.
My solution is to BY gals of my type who dun do ST. They will then give me everything I want. If a gal says she has never done BBBJ n CMI. I simply tell them all my former GFs/mistresses hv done it. She will not say no again. If she says no to something else...I just repeat the magic phrase. You get the idea. I also enjoy the feelings of staying w/ these gals, it's like hving honeymoon every few months! I even allow myself to get a little KC-ed just to increase the thrill...
The downside? BY-ing is expensive. A cheaper way to do it? Go to live in China n BY SYTs there.
Yes, I'm an unabashed exponent n hunter of SYTs of my type. Why? I'm turned on by the youthful face, body n, most importantly, the pretty n fresh pussy. They r usually tighter n wetter, n may be more responsive if one has the right approach...although it may take a few sessions before I give them violent COS. Going out n holding hands w/ pretty SYTs in public is fun too, as it makes me feel like 21 again. I'm careful to avoid very public places such as Orchard Rd, Bugis n Chinatown though.
Good day!
Bro WB
Bro WB
I was so happy to read this thread in full detail with delight.
SQ = Satisfaction Quotient.
What a discovery?
I was astonished to learn so many nice meaningful words and quotes.
I just wanted to quote bro Dragonkeep posts which was nicely written.
Such a talented writer with nice point of views.
This forum is almighty and best of the best.
Thanks for all your contributions.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by Dragonkeep
Thanks for standing up for the 老 uncles bro. Some threads ago, I did make allowance for the few studs amongst us who were born rich or blessed or both whom we have all grown up with. Even those, I'm sure, have their share of failure stories. Anyhow, hopefully the somewhat unhappy younger bro will cool off and just see that this is a benign thread meant to care and share for the benefit of the younger or less experienced ones.
Anyhow, the point was that many of us are made, not born. Most of us carry the scars of life and those that learn best from mistakes or lucky enough to have (and actually take to heart) lessons in life before, do what they do better. If our young friend was indeed born gorgeous and loaded, well congrats to him. Must have been a saint in his last life.
A major point that seems to be developed by this thread is that we need to practise a bit of Sun Tze: knowing what MMs want and what we can do (the old hat about knowing thine enemy and thineself, a hundred battles and a hundred victories). But, that's where the head knowledge ends in usefulness. As with all classroom know-how, things are easier said than done.
All of us have grown up alongside girls dreaming of their Mr Right. Apart from those born in an economic utopia, one of the most important things in life is still the almighty dollar. Heck, even in the uni, there were girls attached to the studs around who openly declared these were their FBs for the time being. True enough, the jute babes in question ended up bedding and collaring much older but richer blokes from the workplace soon after graduation. Not one regret as far as I can tell, from their leisurely lives in a D9/10/11 landed prop and chaufferred cars. Looks alone (by a hunk) cannot buy the 5Cs + landed. Add to the pressure of each PRC or other foreign talent MM having a clan and more to feed back home, a competitive field of hundreds of thousands equally good looking women and running against the clock, wondering when the wrinkles, bat wings and belly fat would appear etc etc, hell it's little wonder the Jews are reputed to have a prayer for batangs to thank Yaweh for not making them a female(!)
Whilst the field is stacked against the fairer sex, that's where the imperfect market comes into play. A fool is said to born every second. Did all of us guys realise we had so many natural advantages going for us? I think not. Do all MMs give up? Surely not. The smartest can probably twine any of us round our dicks at some point or another. I get particularly generous with those chemistry laced sexy types. Fortune also deals an uneven hand around. Some less fortunate bros actually end up in economically dire straits and only dream about the things other bros can do. Others have the $$$ but dare not do the ballsy things these threads speak of, for a variety of reasons, some honourable and romantic (believers in endless love), some pragmatic (eg scared of friggin suspicious OC). Others just never knew.
I ain't a mega rich tycoon with unlimited resources. Different league. But, the fundamentals are the same: we need to know (as early as possible) what drives the babes out there, and what we can deliver out of our own resource$. It ain't cheap either. We can do a $30 H81 shag job, or a more classy $300-500 hotel getaway with no time limit, for an all night bangathon. If we wanna have a live in relationship, the MM has to be housed ($1,+++ for something decent), her bao fee (seems to be in nice big nos. like 6, 8, 10, 12 x 1000) plus the dinners, entertainment etc etc. No shoe string operation, especially if the target plays the MM game well enough - teasing enough and compliant, or pitiful enough etc to snare the right Robert head.
Just as we measure the MMs we wanna bao, the MMs in the imperfect market also mea$ure us up, for sure. It takes great commitment to share one's youth with some old but financially better off uncle. But heck, for us guys, it's the game of assessing where the economics overcome the stigma for the given MM of being the 小老婆 and the loneliness from such an impermanent liaison. - somewhere in that tome of Clavell's 'Noble House', is a strikingly accurate and not irrelevant bunch of passages about the life of MMs in 1950-1960 Hong Kong. I remember one character advising his younger protege, "never mistreat those who give you their youth". That's really the product the MM gives and the better a trader she is, the better a bargain she makes. I amaze myself that my 1st long RS came with a 15-y age diff with me, the next with 18 y and a current side by side one with 22 y. These gals pay with their youth.
Surely none of us came right out of school knowing all the above. Getting our individual Sun Tze assessments right and then executing each op successfully - now that's where the skill really lies. None of us would willingly want to be the very first patient a newly qualified surgeon operates on. That just reality. Whether in business, or romance or snaring a BY, it's mainly all experience, experience, experience. A Patton or Napoleon or Caesar comes around once in while, but like I said, good for the unhappy lil bro if he is one of those, but most of us mere mortals just live and learn.
I hv more musings on living a happy life n BY-ing.
Back to the question on high SQ at low cost. It all depends on one's expectations. High expectations, low SQ; low expectations, high SQ. Same gal, same fxking experience, but vastly different SQ.
Like Shakespeare said: “It is neither good nor bad, but thinking makes it so.” Not only one man's meat is...but there is also the mysterious Rashomon Effect, hahaha.
A young PRC laborer in SIN is sextisfied fxking a $30-40 middle-aged whore, whereas an ageing tycoon may be dissatisfied keeping 10 very pretty SYTs under one roof.
As a devotee of Psycanics n NLP, I'm hving much better self mastery. I'm contented n happy, no matter what. I hv NO expectations n I'll never be disappointed or frustrated. Every day n every pussy is a bonus. Why do I still want to spend money BY-ing gals of my type? Why not? How else should I spend my money?
The key to UNCONDITIONAL contentment n happiness is self mastery. Nothing else matters. A man can be the richest in the world, the smartest, the most powerful, an emperor of China w/ over 3,000 prettiest virgin SYTs, the most handsome, the healthiest, the most talented, etc...all at the SAME time n can still be miserable, hehehe.
With Psycanics, my addiction to tall gals w/ long, slender arms n those w/ a Fujian accent r much weakened. Most of my mistresses r 168 n taller. The shortest is 162 n she has the tightest n most shallow pussy. I now hv an urge to fxk gals shorter than 162, something I hv not done in decades!
I still prefer SYTs, but I must admit that 2 MILFs hv given me great sextisfaction. I BY-ed a 25 yo full-blooded Manchurian gal a yr ago. She had a very proportionate body n gave me my 1st ever COS( see my posts in oct 2009). She will come to SIN to attend her sister's wedding next month n wants me to keep her again?!!
There was a 26-27 yo Hubei gal I picked up at TAM complex 2 1/2 months ago. She had a near perfect, snow white body w/ natural C boobs n deep Venus dimples. One of my best fxk ever! She squirted! A couple days before returning to PRC, while I was fxking her, I whispered that I would take care of her, if she ever comes back. She replied: 是吗？ 你有很多女孩子要照顾。。。she is still in China. I say she is near perfect n if she was 19 yo she would be perfect. I would love to take care of her indefinitely if she was 19 yo. I hv a very sexplicit video clip of her which I view frequently.
Cheers!
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Bro WB
I just cannot help but to comment on the above forum.
SQ can be difficult to quantify expectations. Some bros will want to quantify SQ with cost savings as opposed to how pretty satisfied with sex.
All of us want to pay less but one bro less and another less is different. Just like your group of kakis will think 15k to 20k is value for money if can get a good exclusive unconditional fark. Another group of bros may thank paying 1k or less will be the SQ expectations. Least another group may think getting free will resort to best SQ.
Always remember "One man's meat is another man's poison".
09-06-2018, 07:04 AM
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