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[SassySammy]

Originally Posted by Mahalapa

I've oni heard b4 those 'small little face' ask for such fee when their sugar mummy ditch them,now it's the other way round for those MM.

bro shud be 'small white face' hehe aka xiao bai lian << cant stand them! common to see lao aunties with tai tai curry pok hair, strutting down various shopping malls, with a handsome, buff, smart, well-dressed shuai ge walking alongside. taitai picks out smart casual wear for her toyboy, who doesnt even bother trying them on. Pays for the hefty prices with her whatever credit card.

A guy can be poor / materialistic, but he must have backbone!

is it true that old women who have sex with younger guys, tend to suck their energy/'qi' and they (women) look younger?? heh

anyways, i think taitais have stressful lifestyles. they have to worry about wrinkles n droopy eyelids n freckles, and start to think of diff forms of plastic surgery to maintain their youth. meetup sessions with other taitais become display sessions of wealth. but then again, who will complain about having unlimited $$ to spend ?

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by castaway

I like to thank all bros for giving me advice and sharing ur experiences.
But I really dun noe..
Although she told me about wat happened, she didnt ask me for help, maybe its because i told her i dun have much money...
But she still reply my sms after our final session( cos i told her i no more money liao), which i sms her i would be willing to listen and help her think of ways if she have difficulties..
If she wanted to con me, and she knew i have no money to help her, she wouldn't have entertain me by replying my sms, knowing that i cannot help her rite?She reply that she was touched, and wish dat good guys like me should be blessed, and she thank me as a good friend.

let me reply u on the above..
so wat if u r poor or penniless at the moment..
u have 'show hand'..by confessing ur love and ur action hv send her the msg tat if u hv $$, u r willin to help her..

to her..u r just a 'carrot head' in makin..no matter how poor u r right now..she is very confident, she can makan u one of these days...cos she noe u r 'soft hearted' ..she will try to build up KC wif u and when the day arrive, she will request $$ from ..u will think of all sorts of methods, just to get the $$ for her...(borrow, beg, steal, etc)

just forget about her and move on....

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

just forget about her and move on....

U forget 1 thing, those who fall in love with WL will always reason out his WL gf is different from the rest....

Few good examples,

"I give her money, she dun want"

"She didn't ask me not to buy expensive gift"

"She knows I'm poor n yet stick to me"

"She calls me everydays"

the list goes on.......

[Dens_Services]

Just read this posting..... and to add what happened to a MALE frien of mine...

His so called "FIXed" (TOU EH) gal friend who was staying with him for 3 years... just decided to pack up one FINE day and slapped him with LEGAL DEMANDS for the things and money that they have spent together!!!
She claimed for half of their money and ALL the things they have bought together since being "FIXed" for 3 bloody years...

And guess what? After 2 legal demands and a whole lot of troubles, she got what she wanted and my friend was just left cock standing!!!

This is a local gal who used the law to "BUY" her way out after using him and squeezing him of all his juice :-(

So be very careful with local ladies too... with the women's charter and all that things, we guys never know..... its a BLANK CHEQUE too.

Guess local gals may be more devious too, especially knowing that the law is behind them too.

Now I am really scared too..... better learn from the Westerners and do a "CONTRACT" before being "FIXed". Otherwise have to pay lots more to "BUY" ourselves out of a crappy situation.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U forget 1 thing, those who fall in love with WL will always reason out his WL gf is different from the rest....

Few good examples,

"I give her money, she dun want"

"She didn't ask me not to buy expensive gift"

"She knows I'm poor n yet stick to me"

"She calls me everydays"

the list goes on.......

all these leads to self-consoling...

i hear all these explanations day in day out until i sian half..

so far i din hear anyone saying..

'she's diff from the rest, cos she never hold back all her critics on me'

'when she is unhappy wif me, i will kena left, right , center from her'

y leh....

forgot to add...how to fall in luv wif some1 so deeply after 1 or 2 bonking session..i really dunno..lidat...i will fall in love wif a lot of gals liaozz loh...

even some of my KTV regulars..whom i sat wif for months and months..i still cant develop any form of feelings for them??? very funny loh...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

all these leads to self-consoling...

i hear all these explanations day in day out until i sian half..

Last night I called my 'wife' in Vietnam, 1st word when she heard my voice was "老公" happily like kena lottery. So should I fall for her deeper?? Is this a good excuse that she is different from the rest of the gers???

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Last night I called my 'wife' in Vietnam, 1st word when she heard my voice was "老公" happily like kena lottery. So should I fall for her deeper?? Is this a good excuse that she is different from the rest of the gers???

i dunno leh, same here lo..every nite i recieve a call from one of my china mm in sgp... wif the greeting '老公' ..tat makes both of us 'outstanding' from the others..

somemore, i knew her less than 1 week..she says she wanna married me!!

[omega3]

[QUOTE=Dens_Services]Just read this posting..... and to add what happened to a MALE frien of mine...

This is a local gal who used the law to "BUY" her way out after using him and squeezing him of all his juice :-(

So be very careful with local ladies too... with the women's charter and all that things, we guys never know..... its a BLANK CHEQUE too.


Hey guys

reading this thread makes me wonder if true love still exist or is this just money and money only.

let me give you an example.I have been involved in the KTV scene and even got to know some of these singers/girls pretty well.The point is that there have been cases of them marrying their clients,some marry in china and have 2 family,and others leaving their family and move on.Of course there are the cheats even cry infront of you and grab whatever they can and let you dead and dry.

The point is what is your final objective.for me I am close to my 40s, If I can find someone who suddenly gives back my energy and quest for life then I must tell you that this is certainly something money cannot buy.Lastly are you or your family able to take the risk.For me I have ever thought about about walking away from everything and starting fresh somewhere far away where nobody knows me.

till now I cannot answer this question for you.

[K123456]

Regardless of what they say, they are here for one thing and only one thing that keep getting them coming here. That is $$$

The stronger the S$, the more will come. whatever sad story they give its all to get brother here to part with our hard ern $$
So my suggestion is tht play and forget.

[shengge]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Last night I called my 'wife' in Vietnam, 1st word when she heard my voice was "老公" happily like kena lottery.

Hey! Bro,
You very jia lart lah.
The reason for her to call you lao gong, not because she was happy to receive your call, may be she didn't even recognise your voice, as she cannot keep track of all the lao gong's names lah. On top of that, no reason for her to get sad lah....
May be you can start calling all of them lao po, sure won't go wronged....
So when you going to show me all your lao po and their sisters?

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

i dunno leh, same here lo..every nite i recieve a call from one of my china mm in sgp... wif the greeting '老公' ..tat makes both of us 'outstanding' from the others..

U young, handsome n rich mah.... I old, fat n poor, wonder y....

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by naemlo

U young, handsome n rich mah.... I old, fat n poor, wonder y....

u suan me?? i m poor and chao lao looking...how to believe them when they say they 'like' me...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by omega3

The point is what is your final objective.for me I am close to my 40s, If I can find someone who suddenly gives back my energy and quest for life then I must tell you that this is certainly something money cannot buy.

I always believe u can buy temp companionship...

An example, a guy whose wife is always in oversea. This guy met this cute young WL, he gives her money, this ger loves his money so she behave well in front of u. End of the day, his wife comes back, he let the WL goes, she also won't complain much. Fair deal...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by shengge

The reason for her to call you lao gong, not because she was happy to receive your call, may be she didn't even recognise your voice, as she cannot keep track of all the lao gong's names lah.

Nbzzz quite true hor.... hmmm thanks for telling me this... I thought she is different from others.

Originally Posted by shengge

May be you can start calling all of them lao po, sure won't go wronged....

Errr this u dun have to tell me, I always call them 'wife', cos I can't remember who is who.....

Originally Posted by shengge

So when you going to show me all your lao po and their sisters?

When u free to travel with me???

[singrakthai]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Few good examples,
"I give her money, she dun want"
"She didn't ask me not to buy expensive gift"
"She knows I'm poor n yet stick to me"
"She calls me everydays"
the list goes on.......

"I give her money, she dun want" - but want gifts.

"She didn't ask me not to buy expensive gift" - but small little gifts which also adds up to "expensive".

"She knows I'm poor n yet stick to me" - but still better than their local men who're jobless (and no potential) and don't carry red passport like ours.

"She calls me everydays" - also her many other "老公"....

disclaimer: situations quoted above are strictly fictional and any coincidences are deeply regretted.