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05-11-2006, 12:35 AM
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Re: What I look for in a Fuck buddy
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#62
06-11-2006, 09:24 AM
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I have a.............. HUSBAND!! I'm happily married with 2 kids now...Like I said, those happened in my wilder & younger days...My husband was my ex bf, then FB because he knew all the spots and now husband...He was the only guy which made me re-consider commitment and he knew and whole heartedly accepted my past.. I had 3 FB's which progressed into relationships and my husband was the one that managed to make me commit myself.. I still need to have sex at least twice a week and sometimes he would teasingly say: You are too hungry, gimme a break..  There are times when I needed release and he's tired so what we do is to take my trusty vibrator out to play..He will then assist me in getting my orgasms then it's hug hug bed time for us.. Cheers / Tissue
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#63
06-11-2006, 09:27 AM
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What else do you want to know?? I have several guy friends who uses SB..I wouldn't want them to know that I'm typing out my stories because they know all my stories.. Also, not nice to hijack thread...Next time will type out all my previous adventures.. BTW, love your NICK! Cheers / Tissue
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06-11-2006, 09:40 AM
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Like I said, I was a young and pleasant looking gal with a nice body...Which guy in his right frame of mind would reject a gal like that?? But then, that was when I younger... 'Sympathy screw' was actually done because that guy really did whatever possible to be my bf..Picking up my parents, buying Barney show tickets for my younger siblings, fetching me to and fro from school and work.. (I was studying full time in the morning and working at a pub at night), being there when my gal friends had some problems..All in all, he was a very nice guy..In fact, he even sent me to met my husband (then FB) so we could screw...He always came into my room whenever he sends me home and we would just chit chat til I'm tired and he would leave when I wanna sleep (according to him, he likes to see me with no make up!?!?) But he never tried anything..So one night, I felt the urge and then we did it..Was not fantastic, was not bad..Just normal..Then he stuck around even more and when I was sleeping exclusive with my husband, I told him that I will never be his gf and I'm attached..And no more news liao... Like I said, women needs some positive feelings..We dun need a good looking guy (although thats a bonus)..we need to have that connection and GUYS, you can create that connection by just providing a listening ear, treat a lady like a LADY and tata...she will be yours... Emotions will definitely come into the picture...How to avoid..Like I said, we are human beings, not animals...If a woman does not have their emotions, she will not be your FB...We just have to control our actions and let go when the time is right... My FB's were maximum 3 months long..I feel the longer it drags on, the higher the chances of having affection for the person..We should break it off while it's fresh in our minds and before we really fall for the other party..Because when affections comes into play, it's gonna be ugly.. Just my 2 cents worth. Cheers / Tissue
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06-11-2006, 02:14 PM
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Re: What I look for in a Fuck buddy
wat do u guys and gals think...any difference between having a FB and an affair? how long b4 an ons becomes an affair?
to answer the threadstarter's question...my main criterion for an FB will be an acceptance of a no strings relationship; hence i always make my stand clearly from the beginning, to avoid complications later; and i try to avoid uncommitted parties.
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06-11-2006, 10:28 PM
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The universe is unprofound. A woman is harder to know. --Stephen Hawking
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06-11-2006, 11:10 PM
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Hey Arronclock, yeah, mayb it's not too difficult to have a FB but I guess not everyone can have this chance. Although guys can differentiate sex from love better than gers, it is not impossible for the guys to fall in love with the gers he's having sex regularly. Humans have emotions afterall. Once you feel the emotional attachement, I guess the situation will be a little sticky.
For the close female colleague of mine, I reckon that I should not do anything silly. She's attractive but I shan't risk my reputation yet until I'm very sure. So I'm trying to decode all the signs. Well, can be wrong or right...I just have to make the correct judgement. Recently, when we went out with for tea and coffee, we started to talk about our sexual fantasies...I dunno wat that mean...I guess that she's very comfortable with me to talk about such topics. Anyway, that's this time that she rest her head on my shoulder when talking her personal problem. Well, as a gentleman, I of cos lent it willingly. I also took this opportunity and gave her a tight hug...she din resist. In case u guys misunderstood, we din do anything...hahaha...Like I said earlier, better be safe than sorry...can't make one wrong move...she let me hug doesn't mean anything right!!!
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06-11-2006, 11:26 PM
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I have to half-agree to ur statement. It over simplfying things. I concur with the "fact" that being a good listener can establish the elusive chemistry. However, that has to provide that the ger is a little fond with you. If you cannot get the 1st impression right, U will be strike out almost immediately, no 3 chances like in baseball, hahaha : ) Am I right sis Tissue? U won't give the guy a second chance if he can't impress u enough during the first meeting with u? Haha, now wat makes a good impression? Well, it's not black and white here. It's very dependent on the type of ger. In general, handsome is a big factor (u have to agree, I'm sure). Other things are how u connect to the ger lor...very chim one, I am not very sure till now myself...haha...mayb sis tissue can help us with some insights of women's mind, thanks.
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07-11-2006, 01:38 AM
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After huggin, u should carry on with a kiss on her neck. If she still dun resist, wa la... look at her eyes, then slowli go for the lips! then u will have a FR for us! lol~
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07-11-2006, 01:41 AM
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After huggin, u should carry on with a kiss on her neck. If she still dun resist, wa la... look at her eyes, then slowli go for the lips! then u will have a FR for us! lol~
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07-11-2006, 10:35 AM
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This is where you are wrong. A gal likes basking in attention and the more you give her, the more she will enjoy it. If you are not good looking, it's true that 1st impression will not be strong but you need create opportunities for her to notice you and for her to know that you will be there for her when she falls..My husband won me over by patiently waiting by the side for me..Through the years, even though he was just a FB to me, he would never fail to ask me, sometimes bluntly, sometimes subtly, how to get exclusive rights to me? He was not a sweet talker..He just showed patience..Even when he had other FB, he would ditch them whenever I called..He had alwyas placed my in 1st priority. This is why I decided to give it a try and tried to be his gf, now wife.. Quote:
From my experience, the types of gals that places too much emphasis on looks are also more prone to emotional blackmails..They tend to think that they are more different than normal gals and they cannot accept that you are just treating her as a FB..If she does not get her way, she will start to do whatever funny stuff that she can think of.. People perceptives changes over time...I WILL NOT be the same 10 years from now and so is my husband..I wanted freedom when I was 17 to 19 and I craved stability when I was 20..I craved clubbings and playing billiards before, now I crave for the noise from my kids only..I used to want many sex partners so that it's exciting but now, I'm happy that my husband still finds me attractive to bonk me at least once a week A real relationship is when you really have to make an effort to listen and know what the person wants and try anything within your means to change yourself to suit the enviroment..People will change and you have to change with your partner..Accepting them for what they are..I know it's lame but the lamest stuff work wonders.. Alas, not all gals are so perceptive like me.. So I say, find a lady who has been through many stuff so that when she settle down, she would at least know what she is looking for and she has not much expectations. Being with an innocent partner will most likely see the gal 'zao sai' (go west) due to them being inexeprienced in Society and will follow anything that catches their fancy..LAST and very important point: DUN EXPECT A PERSON TO LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU WANT HER TO..You have to understand that every one is different and what is considered action of love to you may be some boliao stuff to your partner..Eg: My husband is very thrifty (I sometimes also kpkb call him neow) but for my bday, he bought me for dinner at some fanciful restaurant which costs about S$160++ for 2..For a person who would spend a maximum of $5 per DAY for food, that is a really nice way of saying he loves me in his method.. Hope it helps even though I also wonder if I drifted off topic..Sorry ah euks.. Cheers / Tissue
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07-11-2006, 10:41 AM
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They are the same.. The term FB was not here in the 90's so we always call ourselves having scandals and happenings..I think affair applies to married partners la.. Once the ONS partner appears at your hotel room again, it's not an ONS again.. Yeah man, must lay down the rules and make sure that people will abide because if not, there will be hell to pay, especially if you are married! Cheers / Tissue
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07-11-2006, 10:46 AM
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From what I see, she is hinting you..A woman who talks about topics like this normally knows what they want..Maybe you can try to take things abit further but please please make sure that is what you want..Do you want her as a FB or a gf? They are both different and if you are looking at a FB, then the rules should be set BEFORE you sleep with her.. Never try, never know..If you kena rejected, just say sorry, I did wat I did because I really really liked you..Sorry for behaving like an idiot....work wonders..Save all the guessing.. Cheers / Tissue
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07-11-2006, 10:48 AM
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From what I see, she is hinting you..A woman who talks about topics like this normally knows what they want..Maybe you can try to take things abit further but please please make sure that is what you want..Do you want her as a FB or a gf? They are both different and if you are looking at a FB, then the rules should be set BEFORE you sleep with her.. Never try, never know..If you kena rejected, just say sorry, I did wat I did because I really really liked you..Sorry for behaving like an idiot....work wonders..Save all the guessing.. Cheers / Tissue
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07-11-2006, 10:49 AM
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wow it is nice to hear about a nice (and on-going) relationship, esp from a sis. Tissue, think you and your husband r very blessed to have found each other, and a match of expectations at it! haha hope you can continue to satisfy your high sexual needs! *think you have to boil more herbal soup for him to bu bu a but*
Back to the topic of this thread, after listening and observing from my buddies' experience (I personally think FB is a messy concept, too much emotional buggage), I sometimes think it is better to NOT find someone that you know as your FB, i.e. from workplace or among your friends circle. One of buddies used to up this mutual friend of ours during his "down" days...and he shared with us about his F experience with this friend of ours. Man, from then on, I cannot see this lady friend in the same light anymore. Guess it is ok to find within own circle of friends, but if you do, really please dont kiss and tell. It will create too much buggage. Just my 2 cent's worth
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