Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[Hotcoffee]

Few days back I requested to ML She told me working tired wait till Friday.
Friday she was on leave but Thursday slept from 9pm.
Tonight I thought can ML, but just now when sleeping I saw her wear long pants
To bed.
Come here to rant a bit. Later I go picture thread, look look see see then pcc and sleep.

[Hotcoffee]

Tonight I asked her for a drink. Thought that will lossen her up.
After a bottle of long island tea, she is sleeping like a pig. When I touched her told
me not to disturb her.

[analog]

Originally Posted by Hotcoffee

Tonight I asked her for a drink. Thought that will lossen her up.
After a bottle of long island tea, she is sleeping like a pig. When I touched her told
me not to disturb her.

Wel Bro?

The choice is yours, you're a big boy.

All the best,
Jim

[retief]

Mine is similar

Married for a year.wife complained sex is painful each time and she is now become phobic towards each.
We never really talked about it until recently and she now says she have no more feelings towards me. So much so that she is resentful towards me and not letting me touch her.

She thinks that touching petting her will lead to sex and this is causing her distress.

At present, she is not talking to me and wants time off for herself. She even thought of the worst scenario- divorce,

I am badly affected and I think I am getting a bit depressed.

I am hoping one day she will thought through it and be ready to talk.

We are both young and no kids...

[rick99]

Originally Posted by retief

Mine is similar

Married for a year.wife complained sex is painful each time and she is now become phobic towards each.
We never really talked about it until recently and she now says she have no more feelings towards me. So much so that she is resentful towards me and not letting me touch her.
............
We are both young and no kids...

Hi retief, i can understand ur feeling. Used to have this problem. Lucky we use this thing called "Vagisil Intimate Lubricant". My wife called it 神油. With age, it is not easy to get wet for some women. This lubricant helps this problem. Just apply some and they can get wet faster. To have an enjoyable sex with yr partner, always make yr partner get high first then u can request whatever u want them to do to u.

[peacemaker_sex]

Same here.. everyday same excuses.. tired, not feeling feeling well, no mood, stressed.. I tot maybe baby and work.. but we went out for a short trip without baby.. same excuse.. tired.. knn.. super Sian.. pcc. Then after that felt like a loser..

[asdfghjkl]

i didnt know men feel these ways..

[Shadow_warrior]

All relationship same my marriage sex life was boring so I look for fb.

After 2 years FB also start giving excuses like wife

Knn, all women long already same same

[psychicwood]

Hi bro,

your situation reminds me of my girlfriend when I was very much younger. Her phobia of petting was so severe that her vagina literally snap even with the insertion of my finger.....

She doesn't like intimacy and blames me for wanting to be close and for being horny.... wat the hell?? I was a young teenager with raging hormones at that point in time... so it was a really agonizing....

The relationship didnt work out eventually as there was no chemistry in the intimacy department....

So my advice is to bring your wife to see a doc/ psychiatrist... the prob could be more of psychological (fear of sex) than physical...

PEACE!!

Originally Posted by retief

Mine is similar

Married for a year.wife complained sex is painful each time and she is now become phobic towards each.
We never really talked about it until recently and she now says she have no more feelings towards me. So much so that she is resentful towards me and not letting me touch her.

She thinks that touching petting her will lead to sex and this is causing her distress.

At present, she is not talking to me and wants time off for herself. She even thought of the worst scenario- divorce,

I am badly affected and I think I am getting a bit depressed.

I am hoping one day she will thought through it and be ready to talk.

We are both young and no kids...

[retief]

Originally Posted by rick99

Hi retief, i can understand ur feeling. Used to have this problem. Lucky we use this thing called "Vagisil Intimate Lubricant". My wife called it 神油. With age, it is not easy to get wet for some women. This lubricant helps this problem. Just apply some and they can get wet faster. To have an enjoyable sex with yr partner, always make yr partner get high first then u can request whatever u want them to do to u.

Hi. My wife bought that and we used it once about 6 weeks back. During intercourse was ok and both of us seems to finish the deeds. But after 2 days she said is painful and it sometimes causes her to be painful even on urinating. She also said there is a crack on the vaginal wall lining.

I thought with lubrication she would agreed to do it more frequent but the pain and anticipation of it has shunt her off. I guess she is equally lost and despair and can't find a way out.

And she said she need some time to cool off. We had a bit of a chat after 2 weeks of cold war or lack of interaction. And we perhaps agreed to see medical advice and to make sure not physical condition leading to this.

I do not want a separation and I guess time will tell the difference

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by retief

Hi. My wife bought that and we used it once about 6 weeks back. During intercourse was ok and both of us seems to finish the deeds. But after 2 days she said is painful and it sometimes causes her to be painful even on urinating. She also said there is a crack on the vaginal wall lining.

I thought with lubrication she would agreed to do it more frequent but the pain and anticipation of it has shunt her off. I guess she is equally lost and despair and can't find a way out.

And she said she need some time to cool off. We had a bit of a chat after 2 weeks of cold war or lack of interaction. And we perhaps agreed to see medical advice and to make sure not physical condition leading to this.

..and I guess time will tell the difference

this seems very much like its a medical case or condition...which i believe can be resolved by seeing her gynae or urologist w/o delay...tot tis shd be one of the 1st thing u shd do when she tells u there's pain felt at her private parts...but its not too late to see her doc now...do let us know the outcome of her doc's consultation, the diagnosis tat is...hope all wld be well for u n ur wifey soon...

[littlepok]

Originally Posted by Hotcoffee

Tonight I asked her for a drink. Thought that will lossen her up.
After a bottle of long island tea, she is sleeping like a pig. When I touched her told
me not to disturb her.

hi bro i read few pages and see u seem to have a serious problem. i dont mean u, i mean your sex life with wife. seems that no matter what u do, your wife is not reciprocating.

may i ask if u go HC or FL or something? actually i guessed not, if not u wont be so pissed.

since u are quite used to pcc, may i suggest something more extreme.

do not try to initiate sex with her and just survive with pcc (assume u dont go out and eat). some women is like that, when u dont ask, they will initially be glad u are not disturbing them. however, after awhile they will grow suspicious why u aren't asking.

ya they like u to ask then they say no, rather than u don't ask. they think men is so 犯贱

see if she will grow suspicious or not. she might check on where u are more often, check your hp etc and find NO potential evidence of CCA (because u don't). she has no grounds to suspect u but have this tickling feel of uneasiness. naturally she will try to be more accommodating towards u.

put the ball back in your court. seriously some women, wives included, think pussy is golden, poke liao will rust. sometimes must show them indirectly and hint that sex is mutual, if 1 keep asking the other keep rejecting, soon the hubby will stop asking and the damage will be irreversible

[spidey7]

TS if u wan pattern u cum 2e rite pl. Welcum 2 SBF where patterns r abudant.

[analog]

Originally Posted by retief

Mine is similar

Married for a year.wife complained sex is painful each time and she is now become phobic towards each.
We never really talked about it until recently and she now says she have no more feelings towards me. So much so that she is resentful towards me and not letting me touch her.

She thinks that touching petting her will lead to sex and this is causing her distress.

At present, she is not talking to me and wants time off for herself. She even thought of the worst scenario- divorce,

I am badly affected and I think I am getting a bit depressed.

I am hoping one day she will thought through it and be ready to talk.

We are both young and no kids...

Bro!

Walk and don't look back. Get out while its a clean get away.
You might have feelings for her but she has NONE for you. Call a lawyer, submit the papers and walk.

its done. You'll live and recover.

While it might be the case that over time all women get a bit bored with sex, when you're newly married you should be fucking like rabbits, unable to keep your hands off each other. if that is not the case.... LEAVE.

All the best,
Jim

[Shadow_warrior]

we should start a wife dont want to give us, or wife dont want to fuck us

club

then we go out together in morale support and attend to our destroyed egos.