How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[nissanmotor]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning to all samsters!

All bros are encouraged to post their FRs. Pls give enough details and I'll comment on them.

Every encounter is a positive experience for me. I also learn a lot from detailed FRs n experiences of others. Not only your conquests n success stories but also rejections, failures, setbacks and break ups!!

I hv alluded to the fact that over 50% of my GFs/LPs/lovers/mistresses rejected me initially. At least 90% of those who had rebuffed me said yes, after weeks to many months and, in some cases, up to 2-3 years! A few of them actually hung up on me and avoided me as if I were a leper.

How you react to her rejection is the best indicator of whether you're the prize or just another AFC or average frustrated chump. You must remain 很冷静，很笃定。

Here is an article on why we should embrace rejection.

How to Make Rejection Your Best Friend

It takes balls to get laid, both literally
and figuratively. Just like in business, you
must foster the drive within yourself to
succeed.

You must keep your focus on the goal and not
be sidetracked by the little details, like
being rejected.

The only way to have an abundant sex life is
through rejection.

Many of our students feel crushed when a
woman says "no." They get depressed and want
to give up.

Or they feel bad about themselves and think
they are losers. We've also talked to guys
who throw tantrums, get angry and blame the
woman. These are natural reactions, but such
reactions won't deliver the goods...sex.

The bottom line is that when a woman rejects
you, you must take the long term view of
things.

Hearing "no" is part of the process of
getting laid.

When a woman says "no" you don't push it.
This would damage your self-esteem, and could
get you thrown in jail.

What you do is go on to the next woman. You
must train yourself as a dating commando to
view and interpret all "no's" as steps along
the way to your ultimate success.

Obviously it sucks to have a woman say "no."
It also sucks to be spanking off in your room
all alone.

Remember: it isn't personal.

Men ask, and women say "yes" or "no."
Everyone, even seduction masters, hear "no"
from women. They persist, and so must you.
Even if it takes 1,000 no's for one yes,
persistence is the only way.

If your goal really is to have an abundant
sex life, you must never, ever, ever give up.
You may give up on a particular woman, but
you don't give up on your ultimate goal of
abundant sex.

This never-give-up attitude is the key
difference between a guy who is successful
and another guy who is at the whim of his
emotions and fails frequently.

The guy who doesn't let the rejection bother
him succeeds, and the other guy fails.

Which one do you want to be?

It is useful to view dating as a numbers
game. Keep in mind that even the most
masterful seducers only pick up 10% of women
they hit on.

What they do is just keep on going and enjoy
the process, like an adventure.

You are learning a new art form, developing a
new muscle, a new way of acting in the world
and rejection will happen along the way.

Be patient, for God's sake. No more whining.

Here are some things to remember:

- It isn't personal. Every man gets rejected
some of the time.

- There are thousands of women who would be
happy for you to do them tonight! You just
don't know who they are and you give up too
fast when you aren't willing to risk
rejection.

- Getting laid is a numbers game. A certain
percent of women will say "no" and a certain
percent will say "yes."

- Look at successful sports figures. Babe
Ruth had the most home runs, but also had a
huge number of strike-outs! Like Babe, you
must be willing to swing for all you are
worth and strike out sometimes. - If you are
rejected, just go on to the next woman.

That's all there is to it.


Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB

Nice to learn about rejections.

We need to take rejections as a positive encouragement. My friends told me when they got rejected, go out buy more investment. Another friend will buy one more condo. One will buy another Rolex watch or buy a kg of gold.

So when all these gals learned about what they bought then regrets.

Hope to learn from you.

Cheers.

[JogAlone]

Love the 2 points too.

Thanks bro WB for a very good thread.

Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by doxxing

Bro WB

Thank you fr nice post below.

All the take home lessons were nice and important note.

Love the 2 points below.

4) “The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it.”

5) Having an abundance mindset. Related to 3) n 4).

Thank you so much.

Cheers,

[WeberBrowse]

Originally Posted by nissanmotor

Bro WB

Another masterpiece post below.

Female lust will be different from male lust. Male lust easily triggered but female lust can only be slow and easy.

Hope to learn more from bro WB.

Thank you so much.

Indeed a great masterpiece.

Learnt so much from bro WB.

Cheers.

[ChaseHandshake]

Originally Posted by nissanmotor

Bro WB

Nice to learn about rejections.

We need to take rejections as a positive encouragement. My friends told me when they got rejected, go out buy more investment. Another friend will buy one more condo. One will buy another Rolex watch or buy a kg of gold.

So when all these gals learned about what they bought then regrets.

Hope to learn from you.

Cheers.

Very good lesson on rejection. I will buy a Swiss bank and make the gals regret.

Thanks bro WB.

Have a good Sunday.

[longshanwang]

Marvellous thread by bro WB. Read the first few pages already so impressed.

Thanks bro and have a nice week ahead

[KaiHavert]

Yes very refreshing.

Thanks bro WB for a superb forum here.

God bless.

Originally Posted by doxxing

Bro WB

Trying other races syts?

"What You Can Do, or Dream You Can, Begin It; Boldness Has Genius, Power, and Magic in It."

Indeed very refreshing.

Hope bro love all the LPs.

Cheers.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by ligasantander

Bro WB

Thank you so much.

Many first I learned from this thread.

1. Don't be a meek person
2. Don't volunteer to buy gifts
3. Don't just agree easily
4. Just be badass
5. Play hard to get or not interested.

Hope I practise more.

Bro, tks.

That would be a good start.

Originally Posted by ligasantander

Bro WB

Thank you for an insightful forum above.

Yes, we need to master our own emotions and try not to be needy.

Actually many times man dun need to say more than a few words.

1. Yes I want
2. No I don't want

I think above should be mode 1.

Thanks so much.

You're right.
Exhibit your awesome emotional mastery n you will become a babe magnet.

Originally Posted by wombu

Agreed, mode 1 is the best.

Thanks bro WB for a marvellous forum.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by MountDarkshin

Fantastic thread by bro warbird!

Have a great weekend

Bros, tks.

Originally Posted by hornybeautiful

Bros, i would like to find a bro to go to different playgrounds in jb. pls pm me. Thanks.

Bro, I hope you have found your JB kaki.

Originally Posted by prabowo

Good morning SBF and MR warbird,

I have red thru your nice thread and managed to learn many things.

Firstly, i learned to control my emotions and looked manly. Dress up to look like I was stylo and yandao.

Secondly, I hit the spots where plenty of women around. I will not say hi to any of them unless the women cam eto greet me.

Thirdly, I will wait for girls to hit me up before I respond. Will not say I am free on the first topic. Will always answer kind of busy.

Sometihing I learned is when you give incomplete full answers and laugh cheekily the woman goes bananas. They will want more.

Anyway plenty of practices.

Hope bro wb have more to comment.

Cheers.

Bro, tks.

Worth repeating:

"Sexual attraction from women is determined by status, status is determined by behavior, and what determines whether a man has attractive behavior or not is his perception of himself relative to those around him, particularly women. I refer to this concept as neediness and believe the degree of a man’s neediness around women will determine how attractive or unattractive his behavior around them will be."

Originally Posted by prabowo

Bro

Let me guess the "magic words" will be "do you want to make love"

Hope I am correct before I read the answers in the future pages.

Cheers.

Bro,

Not exactly.

Your 'magic words' are not masculine enough. If you ask a girl/woman a question or for permission, she is inclined to say NO. And never be hesitant n tentative. How you say it is crucial.

BE COCKSURE.

Always assume that the girl is dying to make love to you. That is THE only right mindset.

Whisper "I want you to be my lao po (or lover) IF you qualify" or "I like to make love to you IF you qualify." Say it in such a way that she knows you find her attractive but you need to know more abt her n you don't really need her. It's also good to let her know you hv other lovers.

My magic words have evolved...

About 30 minutes after first meeting 18 yo TY, I said: 你做我的老婆，如果你够格. She was shocked and said that no man had ever said that to her. She didn't say yes or no. Two weeks later, she suddenly said yes. Unexpectedly when I was abt to go to Gotham City...

Originally Posted by pastadelivery

Hope to practise more too.

Thanks bro WB for a great thread.

Have a nice weekend.

Originally Posted by YellowEarth

Red through this nice thread too, thanks bro warbird.

Have a great day.

Originally Posted by Sihaiz

Think that's the correct words too.

Very big thanks to bro WB for this wonderful forum.

God bless.

Originally Posted by farkingsticks

Very good thread here from bro warbird, hope to read and learn more.

Have a great weekend!

Bros, tks.

Originally Posted by hccheonger

Bro WB,

Your advice are good read and very meaningful. One that I particularly like is

Quote:

"If you love or like a doll very much, let her go. If she comes back to you, she may be yours forever. if she doesn't, then it was never meant to be.

If you become jealous, needy, clingy and desperate, you will lose her forever"

Unquote.

I thought I am very experience in relationship but I do fall for KC trap.. Cos I am smitten by her youth and look... I feel better after reading many pages of your wise words

Bro, tks.

Make sure the girl has more KC for you.

Originally Posted by doxxing

Bro WB

Trying other races syts?

"What You Can Do, or Dream You Can, Begin It; Boldness Has Genius, Power, and Magic in It."

Indeed very refreshing.

Hope bro love all the LPs.

Cheers.

Bro, tks.

Yes, I had a TW LP in 2016. I hv not found a Msian, SG or Japanese SYT with whom I like to hv a long term relationship. I don't say the magic words unless I like the girl very much. Then I hv to qualify her...

Originally Posted by doxxing

Bro WB

Thank you fr nice post below.

All the take home lessons were nice and important note.

Love the 2 points below.

4) “The strongest negotiating position is being able to walk away and mean it.”

5) Having an abundance mindset. Related to 3) n 4).

Thank you so much.

Cheers,

You're right! Every encounter is a learning experience for me.

Originally Posted by nissanmotor

Bro WB

Another masterpiece post below.

Female lust will be different from male lust. Male lust easily triggered but female lust can only be slow and easy.

Hope to learn more from bro WB.

Thank you so much.

Bro, tks.

Yes!

"But can female lust be triggered by the deliberate actions of a man?

I say absolutely yes. Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan.

What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER."


Become a MAN as described below and the cutest n most beautiful SYTs/women will flock to you:

"Adopting the body language, voice tonality and behaviour of a man w/ strong masculine traits (such as dominance, trustworthiness, decisiveness, courage, kindness, humility, confidence, optimism, ambition, unflappability, perseverance, sexual mojo and emotional mastery) is the key to female lust."

I standby the above statement.

Originally Posted by nissanmotor

Bro WB

Nice to learn about rejections.

We need to take rejections as a positive encouragement. My friends told me when they got rejected, go out buy more investment. Another friend will buy one more condo. One will buy another Rolex watch or buy a kg of gold.

So when all these gals learned about what they bought then regrets.

Hope to learn from you.

Cheers.

Bro,

I love rejection and competition! Otherwise, life is meaningless.

Originally Posted by JogAlone

Love the 2 points too.

Thanks bro WB for a very good thread.

Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by WeberBrowse

Indeed a great masterpiece.

Learnt so much from bro WB.

Cheers.

Originally Posted by ChaseHandshake

Very good lesson on rejection. I will buy a Swiss bank and make the gals regret.

Thanks bro WB.

Have a good Sunday.

Originally Posted by longshanwang

Marvellous thread by bro WB. Read the first few pages already so impressed.

Thanks bro and have a nice week ahead

Originally Posted by KaiHavert

Yes very refreshing.

Thanks bro WB for a superb forum here.

God bless.

Bros, tks.

Have a wonderful afternoon to all samsters!

Bro WB

[premierleague]

Bro WB

Love all your cardinal rules below.

Yup agreed that women love men base on touch and feel of masculinity. The women love surprises and fun. If any guy can make any woman cum and cum then she will love you no matter age, looks etc.

This are fundamentals of women love.

Basic necessities must provide but not provide without any body contact.

Hope bro can comment more.

Thanks.

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!

There are some cardinal rules re relationship that most men don't truly understand.

I believe that chasing girls makes a man very unattractive.

Caring too much, trying to buy her affection/love w/ money and gifts or being insecure, needy or jealous is repulsive. The girl will try to run away if she could...it's a certainty.

Remember the story of King Fuchai and Fan Li?

FL was the slave of King Go Jian when GJ himself was a slave of Fuchai. King Fuchai eventually lost Xi Shi to Fan Li!! Behave like Fan Li when interacting w/ the most beautiful girl in the world. And she may fall for u.

Here is a brief Email from a guru:

The biggest lesson I ever learned about attraction…

Like many guys I was really insecure about my looks.

So I spent a lot of money on fancy clothes, expensive personal trainers, and pricey haircuts.

At first I felt great...but my new look didn’t help me whatsoever in the dating department.

I was still a dateless virgin.

And this is because I believed women were attracted to men, the same way men are attracted to women.

Let me explain…

Typically a man sees a woman, determines if he finds her attractive, and then tries to build an emotional connection.

For women it’s the other way around…

When a woman meets a man, she determines if she’s attracted to that man based on the emotions he makes her feel.

When I learned this my entire life changed…

I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met.

This is just one of the biggest lessons I’ve ever learned when it comes to building attraction.

Take home lesson. Girls are not attracted to men the same way we men are attracted to them.

Here is something to encourage my fellow ah peks.

"Women get sexually turned on just as men do of course, but -- owing to differences in reproductive biology -- by a completely different set of mental processes. Men go for a VISUAL look that suggests youthfulness and thus fertility. But females aren't interested in a man's age so much because males remain virile well into the later part of their lifespan."

Cheers!

Bro WB

[premierleague]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

"I stopped focusing on things that were out of my control, and started focusing on stirring positive emotions in women whom I just met"

Grand Idea ..... easier said than done

Originally Posted by warbird

Yup, nothing in life is easy.

Controlling one's anger or giving up gambling is tougher.

Emotional mastery is THE most difficult thing in the world to achieve. It's also the most desirable masculine character trait.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Yes bro WB agreed totally.

Easiest to use money to buy sex and no love.

That may be good just for lust and plenty of other considerations too. Anyway is a challenge to hook gals and hv fun.

Thanks.

[premierleague]

Originally Posted by AAconnection

Triggering Automatic Female Lust

But can female lust be triggered by the deliberate actions of a man?

What they look for, instead, are signs of male POWER.
by Brother Warbird


Just last week close friends( Mr.F) of mine promise to bring me to
a happening joints along Foch Road. He like VSYT=Vietnamese
Sweet Young Thing. Able to speak and sing in Vietnamise he also
educate the girls there.

Again I was late by the time I arrived he was with one of his friend
and his friend was already hugging and rubbing. Besides him two VSYT
was smiling and chatting having fun.

Friend you lucky today says Mr.F, I reserve a happening VSYT for you.
He went out brought a girl to me. Yes! she was good looking 36D
sexy and wore very seductively. Sitting besides me she starts to
rub me with her charm but I didn't bite because not my cup of tea.

Politely I declined her sitting, disappointed she walk out of the
room. After the girl left he told me that the girl is one of hot
potatoes in the club why I didn't sit her. I smile and tell him that I
have animal conditions for girls who sat with me.

Next thing he does was to call in manageress to introduce one that
suit me. The manageress was surprise that I did not take the girl Mr F
recommended. She say that there is one kept wild horse that always
disappoint customer,if I want she can arrange and warn me that this girl
don't goes around knocking doors but warn me to be mentally prepare for
no show,if she don't like you she will walk away without apology.

Immediatel, I say yes! this is kind of Hot Potatoes I want to try.
Few minutes later she came in glance at me, I stare fixly into
her eyes and she sat down with me. 21yrs VSYT I hug her and begin to
smell her bare back body. Indeed is a wild thing her skin texture
and smell will make any man want to have sexual relation with her.
Playing with her Tattoo full of Roses and begin my
journey slowly down each time paying attention to her body language.

To cut the story short after when we finish our sessions. The manageress and my friend Mr. F have a side talk with me, ask me what is my secret
that I can manage to her sit the whole night. First I didn't smile at her.
Secondly, I did not submit to her when she stare at me. Thirdly, before I
come I bath with Italian body wash (Roberto Cavalli) which different from others. Men wear fancy clothes to attract girls. For me I am very simple but I wear invisible add on to let girls bite. Most girls who moonlighting are familiar with normal bath smell but not Italian that make me unique. She is wild and she bite wild things.

Challenge of this kind is very rare not all the time I am successful. But most of the time I make decision to throw the hook or not to hook.

Very well written forum and re-post for all.

[tagota]

Originally Posted by premierleague

Very well written forum and re-post for all.

Thanks for re-post.

Cheers.

[chabonco]

Fully agreed with bro WB too.

Thanks for a great thread.

Have a nice day.

Originally Posted by premierleague

Bro WB

Love all your cardinal rules below.

Yup agreed that women love men base on touch and feel of masculinity. The women love surprises and fun. If any guy can make any woman cum and cum then she will love you no matter age, looks etc.

This are fundamentals of women love.

Basic necessities must provide but not provide without any body contact.

Hope bro can comment more.

Thanks.

[MouParkVan]

Originally Posted by premierleague

Yes bro WB agreed totally.

Easiest to use money to buy sex and no love.

That may be good just for lust and plenty of other considerations too. Anyway is a challenge to hook gals and hv fun.

Thanks.

Haha this is very true.

Thanks bro WB for a wonderful thread. Hope to learn more here.

Cheers

[wymore]

Originally Posted by warbird

Every SYT or young woman of my type, both WL and non WL, anywhere in the world is fair game to me. Of course, I'll take into account personal safety. For example, it would be foolhardy to pick up the beautiful mistress of a Mexican drug lord or Yakuza boss haha.

I'll never, ever knowingly touch a married woman, a blood relative or GF/mistress/lover of a bro I know personally.

Sometimes this is complicated when a 'GF' is not a GF. You see, a man should never call a gal his GF/mistress or lover when he has not had penetrative vaginal sex w/ her. Fair enough?

Yup, some men imagine a girl they fancy as their 'girlfriends.' They may hv wasted a lot of time and hv spent lots of money on them and still couldn't get close enough to smell their pussies. Some hv not even french kissed their 'GF.' They are deluded. Some of these men are very experienced, or so I thought. These gals are just stringing them along to extract more money...it's very painful to watch. The best chance they hv is to let go of the 'GF.'

The following article mentions this problem.

"Hitting on your friend’s lady is just bad form. Your boy is trusting you when he introduces his girlfriend to his friends. Be nice, be playful, include her in the group, but don’t flirt with her or get overtly sexual. Be a good friend.

However, this rule doesn't necessarily apply to girls that your bro has "dibs" on, whom he hasn’t actually taken to bed. I know some guys like to "reserve" girls for their own flirting pleasure, when some other guys are more suited or able to bed them. It's really up to the kind of relationship you have with your friends.

Sometimes my friends and I set a time limit on how long one of us has to talk to a girl and get her interested before the others are allowed to move in. Other times, if a guy really, really likes a prospective girl, we just let it be."


If a bro I know would like to keep a gal LT or marry her, I won't touch her even if he has not made love to her. I would be happy to share w/ him what little I know about getting pussies n relationship n sex. And get her to fall for him. Yup, emotionally and sexually addicted to him.

But most men are too proud to accept my unconditional help. That includes my sons. Sad.

Your comments?

Cheers!

Bro WB

Bro WB

Above nice forum.

I fully agree that guy must be gentleman and don't touch friends gal.

Great advice too and never touch married woman.

Many things to learn from a great Senior Grandmaster here.

Hope I shall pickup interesting prodigy here and there.

Cheers.

[wymore]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bros,

Tks for your posts.

I wish more bros will share their theories, insights and experiences w/ all of us. If you hv a question re relationship, sex or break up, post it here too.

Here is a brief newsletter I just received from a badass gentleman:


These Secrets Will Help You Keep Your Girl Addicted to You!

Before I show you how to keep your girl addicted to you I want to tell you what qualifies me to give advice about women.

On May 11th 2007 I was near a big industrial alcohol container while it exploded. Half of my body was severely injured, and I thought I was going to die.

This near encounter with death made me change my perspective of life, and the way in which I related with people, especially with women.

My new view of the world had a huge impact on how women perceived me. Suddenly, they were chasing me and not the other way around, as it used to be.

Physically I am almost the same man I was before my accident. Yes, I’ve lost some weight, but other than that, the only difference in my appearance is now half of my body is filled with scars. Fortunately, this doesn’t seem to be a problem to females. This made me realize that looks are not as important to women as they are to guys.

So, now that you know me, I want to share some of the things I’ve learned that will help you make your girl addicted to you.

#1. – Don’t behave like a child

As a general rule, females like boys but love men. Women feel an addictive attraction to mature men, while the boys live trapped in the friend-zone. As long as you behave like a confident, powerful and adventurous man, women will be helplessly attracted to you.

Show them that you live on your own terms. You know what you want and you are going to take action to achieve your dreams. Men are creatures of action, while boys are passive individuals. Females want a guy who takes care of them, not a child they need to take care of.

#2. – Give them space

To make a girl addicted to you, make her enjoy the time she spends with you as much as possible, and in the climax leave. Give them time, and space, so she can miss you. Let her come to you, this will force her to work for your attention, and as a result she will want you more.

Only confident males are able to give space to their women, especially when they are drop-death gorgeous. Giving space to females will show them you have rock-solid confidence, and this will raise your social value.

#3. – Pay attention to her needs

Know her needs and you will make her addicted to you. The secret here is that you need to use your powers of observation. In other words, listen to her actions, not to her words. Watch her physical reactions. What makes her aroused? What makes her nervous? What makes her sad, happy, etc.?
Knowing how to affect her feelings in an effective way will give you the upper hand. Become a keen observer and you will become her drug of choice.

My accident made me realize that females are attracted to guys who live with passion and in their own terms. I will die some day, that’s a fact. So, I live every day as if it’s the last day of my life. Internalize this attitude and you will become the fearless man girls get addicted to.




Comments?

Have a great day!

Bro WB

Bro WB

Let me share my personal experience.

Saw this gal intro by a friend's gf. So she sat beside me during dinner, drinks and in the car.

All along I just answered short yes no or few words.

Then the gal obviously keen to know more about me and kept asking my friends and gf more about me.

Then she face me and mouth very close by and I just kissed her.

As they said the rest history.

The above pointes, I strongly agreed. Just don't give a damn and gal more keen to find out more.

Cheers.