How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[warbird]

Originally Posted by ThisIsMelwood

I couldn't agree more with bro WB.

If wife cheated then better leave her and get things sorted out before crisis no matter how pretty and good sex. In long term this will ruined lives.

Tough to live normal life when no trust. What about babies? What about when she come home late?

Today a condom had many usage. So why not ask and speak frankly about it.

Bro,

Thanks for your post.

Only a wuss will stay with a wife who is fucking other men.

Divorce her asap. 长痛不如短痛。

Cheers!

Bro WB

[Drachom]

Excellent thread here, thanks bro warbird!

[justwanadoit]

All this work only if she likes you

Originally Posted by warbird

Good evening,

What an auspicious night!

About two weeks ago I received the following article on A HIGH-VALUE MAN. I have done very minor editing.

A High Value Man

by Stormrider


Your frame should be:

"Let me find out if this girl is interesting."

This is the frame of a high-value guy with abundance.

Women are used to guys rewarding them for being pretty and nothing else. So their default state is to give you the window dressing.

That's why she appears uninteresting.

You reward her for window dressing, which causes her to view you as a low-value guy with no standards.

A high-value guy asks for more than window dressing.

I qualify a woman on her interests, hobbies, goals in life, things she likes to do for fun, etc.

It is only when she opens up to me and reveals what is unique about her that I show interest.

Her effort = my reward.

I do not supplicate. I only appreciate a woman that has depth to her.

And the more I appreciate her unique self, the more I bring it out of her. In a sense, I am almost molding her to be her best self around me.

And after she's completely opened up to me and made an effort to express her real self, that's when I reward her with...

"I just realized that not just are you sexy but you are also (insert unique quality). I really like that about you. Let's hang out sometime."

This paints me as the validator.

I'm the source of validation, not her.

She was the one who qualified herself to ME.

This frame will probably skip over most people's heads.

It doesn't matter if I am on text, in the nightclub, at the gym, social events, etc. I prompt women to make an effort to open up their unique selves to me and show me more than just window dressing before I show them any type of interest.

This makes her see me as a high-value guy with standards and also makes her feel appreciated for being her, and not just another pretty face.

She feels comfortable showing me different shades of her. Something most guys don't see. This is what romance is. Being naked in front of another person. Metaphorically.

In short, my frame is she has to seduce ME with her feminine charms and interesting personality before I validate her and escalate things.

Now whether or not she is willing to submit to my frame is a whole different story.

I set the frame. If she doesn't submit, there is no romance.




Of course, being a high-value man is a lot more than having the right mental frames. However, if you don't have the right frames and an abundance mindset, nothing else matters. It's a prerequisite. Even if you're a very powerful, rich, intelligent, handsome, and sexy real-life prince.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[shiroi]

Wrong thread

[shiroi]

Wrong post

[warbird]

Merry Christmas to all samsters,

I like to share some of the words of Mike Haines. BTW, I don't always agree with him...

What is FAR more important than how you look, is how you present yourself…
Your presence… your vibe…. your “energy” as a man.
“Vibe” is a weird word for something intangible which we’ll discuss more in
detail later.

But for the time being, just understand this:

Men are attracted to a woman’s appearance
more than anything else.
But women are attracted to a man’s vibe more
than anything else.

And you’ll be approached by women far more because you have an attractive
vibe, than for your looks.

What is “vibe” exactly?
It’s hard to put into words, but I’ll try to explain it using a little analogy.
“Vibe” as the music of the snake charmer

Having an attractive vibe is like being the snake charmer.
And the “snake”, in this metaphor, is the woman.


When you have an attractive vibe….
it has an almost HYPNOTIC effect on the women
around you.

Despite being a fairly “ugly” guy, I’ve cultivated a
mesmerizing, hypnotic sexual vibe that draws
women to me like the music of the snake charmer.


So as we go forward, keep this in mind.

Making yourself look as good as possible is an important ingredient to getting
female interest and attention, and being approached by women who find you
attractive. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

But there is a much bigger part of this that is not as obvious as looks are — and that’s your VIBE.

THE “RELAXED, CHARISMATIC VIBE” IS
THE KEY TO BEING APPROACHED


It’s hard to “define” vibe in a single word, but here are some rough definitions.

Your vibe is:
- the way you walk into a room
- the way you look at her
- your posture and body language
- the way you move (slow, deliberate gestures and movements)
- being relaxed and loose
- being carefree
- feeling as comfortable in a loud, intimidating nightclub as you would standing
in your own bedroom in your pajamas
- being completely at ease around people
- being able to project “smoldering sexual intensity” with your eye contact,
body language and other non-verbal cues
- having a relaxed, easy-going demeanor


Yes, I have to agree with Mike.

Strong masculine (mental) frame = Awesome sexual vibe

Watch Humphrey Bogart in Casablanca. He had an awesome masculine frame and sexual vibe. He was only 164cm in height.

Good night!

Bro WB

[bondage]

Bro WB,
Vibes refer to the energy people can feel. When the vibes are there, the girl will resonate with you in full alignment of words and actions .

The idea here is you are in control and she's happy to be led.

My 2 cts.

[junior_cannibal]

Bro WB, first of all, wishing you and all a great festive season.
About vibes, easier say than done. These are a little unlikely to be groomed but bornt. Besides, for those with many prospects, it would be easier than those with one and only.
Women can have very sharp six sense, as most of them are not out there looking for a good fxxx, the moment they sense an average Joe who's only horny and hot about their bodies, they will run for the fire exit.
My own experience is, just be yourself, don't try to be someone else's. Imitation is rarely liked.

[bondage]

Originally Posted by bondage

Bro WB,
Vibes refer to the energy people can feel. When the vibes are there, the girl will resonate with you in full alignment of words and actions .

The idea here is you are in control and she's happy to be led.

My 2 cts.

Of course, if you get the bad vibes, then need to manage the situation.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by bondage

Bro WB,
Vibes refer to the energy people can feel. When the vibes are there, the girl will resonate with you in full alignment of words and actions .

The idea here is you are in control and she's happy to be led.

My 2 cts.

Bro, tks.

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

Bro WB, first of all, wishing you and all a great festive season.
About vibes, easier say than done. These are a little unlikely to be groomed but bornt. Besides, for those with many prospects, it would be easier than those with one and only.
Women can have very sharp six sense, as most of them are not out there looking for a good fxxx, the moment they sense an average Joe who's only horny and hot about their bodies, they will run for the fire exit.
My own experience is, just be yourself, don't try to be someone else's. Imitation is rarely liked.

Bro, tks.

A strong frame and sexual vibe come primarily from the subconscious mind. Can't fake it. Very difficult to reprogram the subconscious. I'm still making very slow progress...

Originally Posted by bondage

Of course, if you get the bad vibes, then need to manage the situation.

Yes, bro.
..........................................

More from Mike Haines.

The vibe of an attractive man is hard to put into words, but you “know it when you see it.”

Vibe is an intangible quality about a man, where
just by looking at him, women can tell
immediately:

“This guy gets laid. He’s at ease with himself and
women. And he has no problem getting sex
whenever he wants it.”

This is the essence of attraction, for a woman.
It’s all about the man’s demeanor and presence — and what these things indicate
about him, namely that:

• he is successful with women

• he is at ease, relaxed and loose

• women naturally gravitate towards this guy and he has sexual relationships
with them easily

When a woman gets this “feeling” from you, she
will either approach you or make it so obvious
she wants you to approach her that even a baby
could figure it out.

So how do you cultivate this charismatic, magnetic vibe?

There are basically two parts to having an attractive vibe:

(1) internal (biological)

(2) external (skill, practice)

It’s very important to understand BOTH of these aspects of being attractive — as one on its own will not work.

I’ll give you an example.

There are lots of little tricks and techniques I can teach you to make you come across as more attractive.

For example body language techniques, walking techniques, eye contact
techniques etc.

These are all EXTERNAL. They’re “learned”. They’re not innate to you. They’re
SKILLS which you get better at with practice.

However, there is a DEEPER ELEMENT to being attractive — and this is
something I can’t teach you.

It comes from WITHIN YOU.

It’s part of YOUR BIOLOGY as a man.

You might even say it’s your “essence” as a man.

To give a simple example of the importance of biology:

You could have all the tricks and techniques for appearing attractive in the world. However, if you’re suffering from a mental illness due to a chemical imbalance in your brain, then it won’t work.

If you’re sick… unhealthy… or otherwise disordered and out of balance in your
biological system, no amount of learned techniques and tricks will plaster over the problem.

Attractiveness = Health

Health = Attractiveness

This is a very important concept to understand.

Being attractive and being healthy are not two different things. They’re the exact same thing.



IMHO,

Strong (masculine) mental frame + good health = Male attractiveness

Any comments?

Cheers to all samsters,

Bro WB

[showtalker]

Great thread. Got lots to learn from bro warbird!

[PeteTsang69]

came across this many many years ago ... thought of bro warbird instantly

we share the same perversion with many bros here ... SYT

[warbird]

Originally Posted by showtalker

Great thread. Got lots to learn from bro warbird!

Tks, bro.

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

came across this many many years ago ... thought of bro warbird instantly

we share the same perversion with many bros here ... SYT

Bro, tks.

Great quote!

You have not posted here for over 6 years! Where have u been?

Loving cute and pretty SYTs is not a perversion, even for a lao chee ko pek. I like my lao pos to be 18 yo when I first meet them. Then we could grow together, in as many ways as possible. Yes, even growing old together.

TY is now 21. She has asked me many times: 我们会永远在一起吗？ I never answered yes.



Cheers!

Bro WB

[PeteTsang69]

Originally Posted by warbird

Tks, bro.

You have not posted here for over 6 years! Where have u been?

Bro WB

popped in irregularly ... just busy with figuring out life's messiness

i posted recently in sammy's 20 year anniversary thread

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

Congrats Sammy!

this forum has been a lifesaver ... history will show its more than a forum to get sex

i have a high sex-drive which i consider normal ...

sammyboy allowed me to safely satisfy my physical needs without going insane

cos my partner has low sex-drive, no intimacy, different beds for many years ...

discovered soap-land with syt's, juagen and best of all ...

a lover for last 15 years whose 26 years younger than me ...

met her at a reflexology place thru here ... best ever lovemaking every time i kid you not ... covid has put a pause

but yes, from the outside i look like a normal professional with family of 2 kids ... nobody knows

honestly just hanging on for the kids sake ... but soon they will be independent of me ...

so the next chapter is unknown & will be most interesting ...

physical needs and intimacy is paramount in life and needs to be satisfied in a wholesome loving relationship ...

take great care in choosing your life partner ... be compatible in this aspect
high drive + high drive, low +low ... don't be high + low
recipe for unhappiness ....

cheers

was going to post in "Best Sex you had" thread

to me what i have experienced as the best is what i called ... "excitedly relaxed"
lovemaking last 1-2 hours
most times i am pumping away but can joke and laugh ... slow down, then pick up speed, change position etc
relaxed and at same time charged up ...
after one round ... chat, then i get worked up again for another round ...
both of us feel the same why ...
i wonder if this is normal or common? ... cos i have never read or heard about such feelings

i know its real bcos we are in that "Flow State" (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
where suddenly 2 hours have past when it feels like only 20mins ... we are so focussed on what's at hand

cheers bro

[warbird]

Originally Posted by PeteTsang69

popped in irregularly ... just busy with figuring out life's messiness

i posted recently in sammy's 20 year anniversary thread



was going to post in "Best Sex you had" thread

to me what i have experienced as the best is what i called ... "excitedly relaxed"
lovemaking last 1-2 hours
most times i am pumping away but can joke and laugh ... slow down, then pick up speed, change position etc
relaxed and at same time charged up ...
after one round ... chat, then i get worked up again for another round ...
both of us feel the same why ...
i wonder if this is normal or common? ... cos i have never read or heard about such feelings

i know its real bcos we are in that "Flow State" (Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi)
where suddenly 2 hours have past when it feels like only 20mins ... we are so focussed on what's at hand

cheers bro

Bro,

So good to hear from you again!

You're describing a form of Taoist sex.

Making love frequently to girls who are much younger is good for a man's physical and mental health. It has rejuvenating effects.

I'm much older than you. When I started this thread, I was already an ah pek.

My sincere advice for all men and boys.

"You don't stop making love to young women when you get 'old.' You get old when you stop making love to young women."



Erectile dysfunction is a strong predictor of death. Although no definitive data are available, I believe that most men with new-onset ED, due to physical causes, have a life expectancy of fewer than 20 years. Sometimes much fewer.

Cheers!

Bro WB