How long did you not have sex with your wife or gf?

[Bronco]

Originally Posted by Castrol

he cant be a sbf bro becos sbf bros will never say no to sex.

Well said bro, tat the reason why we r here, all the horny and hungry bros & sis...looking for 2 gm of meat(for guy)and hotdog(for woman)....

[stephan]

Originally Posted by AhYoung

hee hee , i am not alone.. if wife dont give, then venture outside loh... No big deal. she ask for it.

Either FL,ONS or you can choose to find an office affair. fling amongs the secretaries or sales personnel. Dont forget to wear condoms!

hahaha... bro,

Well quoted, but same thing will happen to your wife (or my wife or others bro wife), they will find office affair, fling among the managers or tiko peks at the office. They also will not forget to ask the guys wear condom!!!

[coleman28]

Hi folks,

Managed to reset my counter from 1 yrs 3 mths of sexless life back to 16 hr ago. Like many bros and sis out there, my partner is no longer that active and always have excuses for not having sex.

For the past one month, I had been jobless, taking a break from job. Before that, I was actually the sole-bread winner. But somehow, I had decided to swap roles with my wife. I stayed home, do house work and take care of 2 kids. Sleep with the kids to ensure that they don't disturb her sleep. Now, I have more time, no work to bring home, so will watch TV with kids and her.

Family lifestyle seems improving, and yesterday she somehow initiated for me to sleep with her and the rest is history...

Hmm... the invisble tension between us seems to ease. But another kind of tension building up now. I had given up a 60K per annum job to try and save the family, while she works for less than 20K per annum for now. Financially, we should be able to sustain this lifestyle for 1 yr. But it won't be long before I have to get another job and we have to swap roles back again.

[sengkang9]

Originally Posted by jemz

nice to see some ladies commenting...


i see alot of bros complaiing the wife sian of sex.

for me... i donno whats wrong, im not ugly nor fat. frm this forum, i know either i initiate, be more exciting or one day i will lose my husband. so i will ask him very often, but he always will watch dvd until damn late, i wait for him until i sian also. we married less than a month only.

i want, but he like ai mai ai mai like that. or during the day i tease him, build up the anticipation until at night, den he will go and watch dvd. i like.. sit there and just . maybe i marry the wrong guy. before we got married he not like that one. i think also only a matter of time before i go out and find a partner or work as FL to earn income and to satisfy my own needs also if he continue like that. haix....

Hi, like most guys here, I usually do it once a month, sometimes 2 months!
Its not that I dont want sex, I think I dont find OC sexually attractive now.|
I am responsible openly, helping her in housechores, taking care of my kid.
Even to the extend of ironing for her (She dont like to do it).
I think the problem is me, not her. Divorce is not on my mind.
I do it with her becos I felt bad. Nowadays its getting more difficult to give her orgasm (She almost got it most of the time in the past).
Now she urges me to shoot 1st then ask me to help her get her orgasm.
Guess as we get older, woman is more horny but cannot get orgasm like the younger days.
I always get questions like whether I am getting it outside? (Yes, I am doing it outside on FL. I do feel bad, having stayed faithfull with her for 11 years until my kid was born.
I think, once we tasted the forbidden fruit, we are doomed!
Cant seem to get out of this situation until now. Very embaressing.

[coleman28]

Originally Posted by sengkang9

....I am responsible openly, helping her in housechores, taking care of my kid. Even to the extend of ironing for her (She dont like to do it)....Now she urges me to shoot 1st then ask me to help her get her orgasm....
I always get questions like whether I am getting it outside? (Yes, I am doing it outside on FL. I do feel bad, having stayed faithfull with her for 11 years until my kid was born.
I think, once we tasted the forbidden fruit, we are doomed!
Cant seem to get out of this situation until now. Very embaressing.

Brother sengkang9, like you, when I have a job, I am already helping her in housechores and kids + ironing all clothes (she don't iron, unless bo bian due to me working OT).... before we stopped sex a yr and 3 months ago, our sex is always half-way through, she asked me to pull out and said she not keen. Never even bother to DIY for me, so leaving me a very dis-satisfied man.

That leads me to take up FL and have fucking buddies (FB). As soon as this habit build into you, its difficult to shake it off. Even for now, ever since I became a "house-husband", though I knew financially we may run into problem. The habit just isn't easy to kick off. I continue to watch porno every day, DIY, tempted to FL, call up ex-colleagues who used to flirt and at times go to FB. So, no need to be embarassed, you are not the only one being not able to jump out from situation.

[Rainman]

Originally Posted by poorman4sex

Hi,
you dun pray for yr kids not to end up like them... you educate them.
if you as parents had already given up hope on your kids, then no one will ever want to help them.... you think gov. and schools bother about your kids...???
so if you are a parent or want to be a parent, think again... if you have no responsibility to raise your kids... then dun give birth.

Yes we all need sex, we all like sex.. but have sex also must be responsible for yr actions.. shoot liao very shiok... be it shoot inside hole or inside condom... so before you shoot inside into the hole, use you BIG head and think~

Well, sad but true.

The kids need u for a certain period of their life. Maybe till 10-14. Thereafter they too have their own life and friends.

U will then realise that instead of coming home to a complete family, u will see probably your maid as wife busy working, kids out for party with friends....

That's life when the kids grow up.

Cheers

[Wins88]

Originally Posted by jemz

nice to see some ladies commenting...


i see alot of bros complaiing the wife sian of sex.

for me... i donno whats wrong, im not ugly nor fat. frm this forum, i know either i initiate, be more exciting or one day i will lose my husband. so i will ask him very often, but he always will watch dvd until damn late, i wait for him until i sian also. we married less than a month only.

i want, but he like ai mai ai mai like that. or during the day i tease him, build up the anticipation until at night, den he will go and watch dvd. i like.. sit there and just . maybe i marry the wrong guy. before we got married he not like that one. i think also only a matter of time before i go out and find a partner or work as FL to earn income and to satisfy my own needs also if he continue like that. haix....

Sit down with him to watch DVD's. We guys like that, rather than our GF or wives leave us alone to watch by ourselves. Also, it often helps if the DVD's you watch together is PORN - sex surely happens!

[pokeman71]

hi bro,

compare to some bro out there, i am small small fly la.

The longest i have without SEX with CO is about 3weeks. To me, making love with her is more as a regemental duty. So i look foreard for some ECA and exercise.

I can sense that when come to 2weeks without sex CO will face black black liao, then after one round of love making session, tomoorrow the counter start to count again.

cheer

[BaoBei512]

Hi to all out there,

After listening to all.. darts! i think i better not get married, sometimes i can understand that guys need some change of "flavour" once in a while... but for a guy to treat sex with CO like a CHORE its too much..

Talking about counters and stuff.. or wait till CO get mad.. it sounds like the inevitable to me! And... it don't sound good to me..

[poorman4sex]

Originally Posted by Rainman

Well, sad but true.

The kids need u for a certain period of their life. Maybe till 10-14. Thereafter they too have their own life and friends.

U will then realise that instead of coming home to a complete family, u will see probably your maid as wife busy working, kids out for party with friends....

That's life when the kids grow up.

Cheers

hI Rainman,
yap.. kids can go out for party...
Dun we go out for party when we were kids..?? got to let them have the freedom too, but definately not out of hand.
they are yours, you have the reponsibility to raise them up "properly"...when they went detour... parents got to steer them back.

I read many cases in the papers... parents blaming on the kid's misbehaviours, sending them to Juv. Court saying they beyond their control.....SAD~~!
Adults blame Kids ....Big Joke~~

[poorman4sex]

for those that are not married yet... dun be afriad lah~~

look at the numbers of members in SBF and the numbers of pple replying to this thread... we are only a very very small portion...

i also heard that woman after 30 very horny....but dunno why my wife not horny leh... maybe I hear wrong ?

anyway.. i also reset liao lah...
I show her my tulan face everyday until she also cannot tahan so KK come n sayang me....

[mscucky]

Originally Posted by poorman4sex

for those that are not married yet... dun be afriad lah~~

look at the numbers of members in SBF and the numbers of pple replying to this thread... we are only a very very small portion...

i also heard that woman after 30 very horny....but dunno why my wife not horny leh... maybe I hear wrong ?

anyway.. i also reset liao lah...
I show her my tulan face everyday until she also cannot tahan so KK come n sayang me....

i love wat u wrote ere.

[kendory]

Hi Bros,

Has anyone have a thot of the sis here that face with hubby not interested in sex.

We Bros look for FL and etc... just curious what does the sis here do to let off the urges ? look for ONS ? or ex-bf to settle it or DIY.......

for those sis that DIY...don't your hubby gets turn on ? and too much DIY don't you want to try it with a real man ?

would like to hear out from the married sis here..... :-)

i don't mind providing a listerning ear..... do message me in private if you are shy to post it here :-)


ken

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by poorman4sex

you dun pray for yr kids not to end up like them... you educate them. if you as parents had already given up hope on your kids, then no one will ever want to help them.... you think gov. and schools bother about your kids...???

I am absolutely sure that every parents do educate their kids to be a better human beings, at least, they did try. We all aware that teens are rebellious and peers' influence is much greater than parents'. Make no mistakes, there are good kids around. What I was trying to say is that ur kids will grow up even without ur guidance. What's more important is ur life.

Originally Posted by poorman4sex

Yes we all need sex, we all like sex.. but have sex also must be responsible for yr actions.. shoot liao very shiok... be it shoot inside hole or inside condom... so before you shoot inside into the hole, use you BIG head and think~

There's a saying, "A hungry man is an angry man." Not sure how true is that but I'm quite sure that "A sex deprived man is an angry man". How about that?

jimbo

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by Rainman

Well, sad but true.
The kids need u for a certain period of their life. Maybe till 10-14. Thereafter they too have their own life and friends.
U will then realise that instead of coming home to a complete family, u will see probably your maid as wife busy working, kids out for party with friends....
That's life when the kids grow up.
Cheers

Wise men think alike. If u think ur kids will stay close with u till ur sunset days, think again. u will be lucky if they do come back once a week for a reunion, or rather, a quick dinner.

jimbo