Hanging Flowers Joints

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by songest

I think "bian man" means 偏门

BRO HCEF started using 0401 when he signs off with Escapee 0401 in Feb.
So my guess .. it stands for his targeted escape date when he has his final closures with the singers --- MMDD - April 1st. I stand corrected

Brother songest, how did you read my mind .
Yep it was MMDD aspect following the USA
system. Targetted 1st of April for final closure with all of the singers in totality.

Cheers
0401

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

Not been there this year. I kinda like the decor, setup and seats arrangement. Used to have few lookers and always thought this place will make it all the way.

Well, i was there from the very first days till July last year.

Exact reasons why enterprises fail, lady boss got too big in the head and started to like staff flattering her instead of listening to criticism, plus karma i suppose, in the way they treated the singers.

Plus customer, like they say, big small eyes .

Well not going back there anyway, lots more other places, that you can have fun and relaxation.

0401

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by K9696

Bro, in this forum, u r not the onli one is kind hearted. You should practise discrimination between WL aka ghost n human. For ghosts u got to b 恨!! For human u got to b Nice!!
WHY thank them, u r customer, u hv ur right, they r here to serve u, n not the other way.

Hi Bro, you absolutely right, lots of brothers have a kind heart. And the price is paid for the nature.
In the end what does not kill us, just makes us a lot lot stronger and moving on...

Cheers
0401 (shit, i nearly wrote my name! my mistake like in emails...)

[花场Escapefrom]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

At the end of the day, there's ni such thing as going back to a HFJ just to test yourself if you wanna hang anymore regardless of denominations.
What's your objective?
To test if you can resist hanging flowers when sitting before the stage?
Totally dun make any sense to me.
Just like, for example, a drug addict who used to get his highs from a drug den, then kicks the habit, but to test himself, goes back to the drug den every other nite to test if he'll consume drugs again????????
Totally no meaning bro.
Wanna quit, just walk away, dun worry, the only one who'll be missed is not you but you'll miss the action and nothing more!
So, wanna retire, just retire, like me

Bro DYBJ and the rest fyi,
Closure Report.

Summary: Addicted to hanging flowers.

Conclusion:Better not look for love or sex even in hang flower joints, in present financial and physical condition.

Therapy: Maximal avoidance of Hanging Flower Joints and Singers in totality, with one exception.
No more chasing of singers, no more supporting, no more face issues, no more concerns about quotas, no more face support.

Singer XX:Club1, knew this babe for a while, made a half-heart attempt to woo her, in the new club.
Her boyfriend came back, and then she got a big customer.
So no need to say goodbye at all, still on speaking terms, case closed.

Singer SS:Club1, tried wooing this babe, invested close to over 5k flowers, i pulled back at the last minute. Still owe the club about 4k have not paid and looking back, have not decided to pay yet.
Resolved, might have hurt her feelings, but in reality, she already have a long term boyfriend. So no regrets and no need to worry, case closed.

Singer LL:Club1, invested 2.5 k on the babe on a whim, hurt her feelings pretty badly, as i chased after her friend ML, at another club. She is still asking me on how much i can contribute to her show, i was smiling at her and said, at least 50 bucks... Me unemployed with some debts, case closed.

Singer SS:Club2 ( yeah lots of same names)
Total invested 5k
A bit of a messy situation, she wanted to go to bed with me but.... she said.
你会娶我？就算是骗我， 也让我听这话吧。。。
Being the idiot I am, i am constitutionally not able to lie. So i told her, if it was so difficult for her to get into bed with me, that she needed to convince its out of love that she is getting into bed with me, i would rather not make any demands out of her.
Case closed, so I am carrot cake again, lesson learned, i != cassonova.

Singer ML, here is the interesting one.

I got to know her only on the 15th of Jan, had a nice bonking session on the 30th of Jan. First time ever that a girl wanted to get into bed with me with less than 1k invested in flowers.... And then she tested positive for a baby 2 weeks after.

So i went through the whole routine of angst, took her to see the doctor and got the procedure done. Cost me close to 1.8 k, yeah, it was Mount E clinic. The interesting thing, was that she reveled to the doctor, that her period was already late by 7 weeks :0...

And I had a good talk with her last night, and she finally came out and admitted indirectly it was the case...

Total invested, 12k, case closed, still on speaking terms, no hard feelings, she is only 20 years old. Will monitor to see she gets home safely next month. 1st time in singapore.

Singer GG:Club3
The last one is one that i cannot achieve closure.
I have known her for over 2 years.
1st term, about 20-35k invested, nothing just a kiss.
2nd term, did not even see her.
3rd term, invested about 2k in total.

To be frank, if her heart had been tougher, more merciless, i would not have even gotten into relationships with other singers or even attempted to get into relationships with other girls. She was my first singer....i ever loved totally.

To be frank, i had an emotional break down yesterday, and it was a bad one. i was sitting in the rain. And out of the blue, she gave me a sms to ask how i was doing. And actually consoled me quite bit, fragments of the conversation follows.
She is only 21 years old.
“狠不下心， 骗你的钱， 你太善良， 可是， 你的钱会被别的歌心骗。 忍不下心， 骗你， 我宁可骗那下有钱有家庭的老头子， 寂寞，出来找刺激，要面子的人。 骗你的钱， 会有报应的。 你又不是个很老的人， 没必要在花场玩， 找真爱, 那是不可能的。看开点， 不要想太多，每一天， 会更好。"

So that is the one singer, that cannot have closure, but in reality. I do not think of her as a singer anymore. Not a lover, not a sister, but something in between i suppose...

Cheers.
0401.
End of Report.

[sheridan]

[QUOTE=花场Escapefrom;5783944]
So that is the one singer, that cannot have closure, but in reality. I do not think of her as a singer anymore. Not a lover, not a sister, but something in between i suppose...

QUOTE]

bro,

OK. This last sentence nailed it! I doubted you will ever able to retire from hanging flowers until you are out of this "do not think of her as a singer anymore" illusion.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by songest

I think "bian man" means 偏门

BRO HCEF started using 0401 when he signs off with Escapee 0401 in Feb.
So my guess .. it stands for his targeted escape date when he has his final closures with the singers --- MMDD - April 1st. I stand corrected

Bro songest, thanks for the clarification.

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

.....

Closure Report.
......

“狠不下心， 骗你的心， 你太善良， 可是， 你会被别人骗。 忍不下心， 骗你， 我宁可骗你敌人， 寂寞，要大花的人。 骗你的人， 会有报应的。 你又不是个很老的人， 没必要在花场找真爱, 那是不可能的。看开点，不要想太多，每一天，会更好。"

Thanks for the closure report and I will use above reverse on the meimei under suitable circumstances.

[saytoomuch]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

But take note of what they are worshipping in the place, both in the main hall and the counter behind.

0401.

Please inform the details. Very interested to know. Have noticed but wondered what is it.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

But take note of what they are worshipping in the place, both in the main hall and the counter behind.
0401.

Originally Posted by saytoomuch

Please inform the details. Very interested to know. Have noticed but wondered what is it.

Thanks to Bro saytoomuch reminder, what's that?

Also I mentioned in much earlier thread, the smiling old man kept washing hands in the toilet is the toilet care taker, correct?

[K9696]

Originally Posted by 花场escapefrom

“狠不下心， 骗你的钱， 你太善良， 可是， 你的钱会被别的歌心骗。 忍不下心， 骗你， 我宁可骗那下有钱有家庭的老头子， 寂寞，出来找刺激，要面子的人。 骗你的钱， 会有报应的。 你又不是个很老的人， 没必要在花场玩， 找真爱, 那是不可能的。看开点， 不要想太多，每一天， 会更好。"

so that is the one singer, that cannot have closure, but in reality. I do not think of her as a singer anymore. Not a lover, not a sister, but something in between i suppose...

Cheers.
0401.
End of report.

四月一日..就是你退出江湖之事.. 那好..祝你好运.. 一却从头在来.. 铁倒了要慢慢爬起来.
走过了一段黑暗的日子.看过了人生的另一面,生活更充实了,想通了也只不过-过眼云烟.

我有个弟兄生了一场病之后,, 看到人生更透彻了..

最后一段的短信,我相信她也有她善良的根在里头. 有当着她是外星人来给你迷津去选择自己的路...

[songest]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

...
Cheers.
0401.
End of Report.

Penning a closure report to share gives your closure the finality it deserves.

Seeking closure is the right thing to do, and once attained, experience the peace and calm that envelopes your heart and soul, rejuvenating you for your onward journey in life.

Will up u with humble 2 point token of encouragement for you attaining your goal ahead of 0401.

[songest]

Originally Posted by K9696

四月一日..就是你退出江湖之事.. 那好..祝你好运.. 一却从头在来.. 铁倒了要慢慢爬起来.
走过了一段黑暗的日子.看过了人生的另一面,生活更充实了,想通了也只不过-过眼云烟.

我有个弟兄生了一场病之后,, 看到人生更透彻了..

最后一段的短信,我相信她也有她善良的根在里头. 有当着她是外星人来给你迷津去选择自己的路...

Allow me to translate to English ... hope I convey the original essence of the post...

April 1st is your retirement from HFJ. That's good.. wish u good luck. Have a fresh start, and pick yourself up slowly whenever you fall. Emerging through the days of darkness and after seeing its dark side, life becomes more fulfilling, and once you reason it out, they are but transient cloud and smoke that obscures your very eyes.

I have a brother that suffers from a bout of sickness, after which he is able to see life in a different light.

As for the last part of the post, I believe she do have the milk of kindness in her.. just think of her as an alien that shows you the right way out of the maze.

[Kranji Boy]

Originally Posted by 花场Escapefrom

Bro DYBJ and the rest fyi,
Closure Report.

Summary: Addicted to hanging flowers.

Conclusion:Better not look for love or sex even in hang flower joints, in present financial and physical condition.

Therapy: Maximal avoidance of Hanging Flower Joints and Singers in totality, with one exception.
No more chasing of singers, no more supporting, no more face issues, no more concerns about quotas, no more face support.

Singer XX:Club1, knew this babe for a while, made a half-heart attempt to woo her, in the new club.
Her boyfriend came back, and then she got a big customer.
So no need to say goodbye at all, still on speaking terms, case closed.

Singer SS:Club1, tried wooing this babe, invested close to over 5k flowers, i pulled back at the last minute. Still owe the club about 4k have not paid and looking back, have not decided to pay yet.
Resolved, might have hurt her feelings, but in reality, she already have a long term boyfriend. So no regrets and no need to worry, case closed.

Singer LL:Club1, invested 2.5 k on the babe on a whim, hurt her feelings pretty badly, as i chased after her friend ML, at another club. She is still asking me on how much i can contribute to her show, i was smiling at her and said, at least 50 bucks... Me unemployed with some debts, case closed.

Singer SS:Club2 ( yeah lots of same names)
Total invested 5k
A bit of a messy situation, she wanted to go to bed with me but.... she said.
你会娶我？就算是骗我， 也让我听这话吧。。。
Being the idiot I am, i am constitutionally not able to lie. So i told her, if it was so difficult for her to get into bed with me, that she needed to convince its out of love that she is getting into bed with me, i would rather not make any demands out of her.
Case closed, so I am carrot cake again, lesson learned, i != cassonova.

Singer ML, here is the interesting one.

I got to know her only on the 15th of Jan, had a nice bonking session on the 30th of Jan. First time ever that a girl wanted to get into bed with me with less than 1k invested in flowers.... And then she tested positive for a baby 2 weeks after.

So i went through the whole routine of angst, took her to see the doctor and got the procedure done. Cost me close to 1.8 k, yeah, it was Mount E clinic. The interesting thing, was that she reveled to the doctor, that her period was already late by 7 weeks :0...

And I had a good talk with her last night, and she finally came out and admitted indirectly it was the case...

Total invested, 12k, case closed, still on speaking terms, no hard feelings, she is only 20 years old. Will monitor to see she gets home safely next month. 1st time in singapore.

Singer GG:Club3
The last one is one that i cannot achieve closure.
I have known her for over 2 years.
1st term, about 20-35k invested, nothing just a kiss.
2nd term, did not even see her.
3rd term, invested about 2k in total.

To be frank, if her heart had been tougher, more merciless, i would not have even gotten into relationships with other singers or even attempted to get into relationships with other girls. She was my first singer....i ever loved totally.

To be frank, i had an emotional break down yesterday, and it was a bad one. i was sitting in the rain. And out of the blue, she gave me a sms to ask how i was doing. And actually consoled me quite bit, fragments of the conversation follows.
She is only 21 years old.
“狠不下心， 骗你的钱， 你太善良， 可是， 你的钱会被别的歌心骗。 忍不下心， 骗你， 我宁可骗那下有钱有家庭的老头子， 寂寞，出来找刺激，要面子的人。 骗你的钱， 会有报应的。 你又不是个很老的人， 没必要在花场玩， 找真爱, 那是不可能的。看开点， 不要想太多，每一天， 会更好。"

So that is the one singer, that cannot have closure, but in reality. I do not think of her as a singer anymore. Not a lover, not a sister, but something in between i suppose...

Cheers.
0401.
End of Report.

Good Good .. Your mind finally clear .. Better quit HFJ la ..... Why waste time and money to spend on singers .. In HFJ No Money No Love la ... Spend so much money on a singer because of Go to BED with her you must well come over to ChangPing 常平 which more than 800 - 1000 young Babe prettier than those singer in SG la for only RMB 1000 the most for you to choose.. They accompany you one fully night + BED .. haha ....
Once you come over ChangPing, u will not thinks of going to KTV in SG or HFJ la ..

You said HFJ will get addicted , no la because your want face and go bed with them so you are addicted la ...Me go HFJ for more than 10 years also won't addicted , why because I go HFJ is to talk talk with the singers and enjoy drinknig la ...U must know that most singers have alternate boyfriend la or else how can they survive unless you are a big supporter to her ..

I have a friend who support a singer for more than 2 years, every month at least 10K and my friend to date still think that he is the only bf in this singer heart ... Too bad, this singer have go to BED with another guy and my friend still don't beleive and still support her at JBL ..Those go JBL should know this guy la .. haha

Good Lucks To U and My friend ... Cheers ..

[K9696]

Originally Posted by K9696

四月一日..就是你退出江湖之事.. 那好..祝你好运.. 一却从头在来.. 铁倒了要慢慢爬起来.
走过了一段黑暗的日子.看过了人生的另一面,生活更充实了,想通了也只不过-过眼云烟.

我有个弟兄生了一场病之后,, 看到人生更透彻了..

最后一段的短信,我相信她也有她善良的根在里头. 有当着她是外星人来给你迷津去选择自己的路...

Originally Posted by songest

Allow me to translate to English ... hope I convey the original essence of the post...

April 1st is your retirement from HFJ. That's good.. wish u good luck. Have a fresh start, and pick yourself up slowly whenever you fall. Emerging through the days of darkness and after seeing its dark side, life becomes more fulfilling, and once you reason it out, they are but transient cloud and smoke that obscures your very eyes.

I have a brother that suffers from a bout of sickness, after which he is able to see life in a different light.

As for the last part of the post, I believe she do have the milk of kindness in her.. just think of her as an alien that shows you the right way out of the maze.

Yo Bro.. thank you... perfect score...

[Ah_Seow]

I have gotten word that the legendary Gila & Ah Seow was seen at Club Macau 2 nites ago. Only heard they hung less than 1k and left not long after the PPC. Ah Seow seems to have a new cai over there and heard that she's the hottest mixed blood looking singer on stage that many guys are after and cannot score and for the 1st time yesterday since she came to Club Macau, she was not seen at work for the whole of yesterday! Wonder how true is this retirement, or is it just another smoke screen???

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by Ah_Seow

I have gotten word that the legendary Gila & Ah Seow was seen at Club Macau 2 nites ago. Only heard they hung less than 1k and left not long after the PPC. Ah Seow seems to have a new cai over there and heard that she's the hottest mixed blood looking singer on stage that many guys are after and cannot score and for the 1st time yesterday since she came to Club Macau, she was not seen at work for the whole of yesterday! Wonder how true is this retirement, or is it just another smoke screen???

lol...another smoke screen la....how come you kena zap huh....are you the real or fake ah seow...