....yes she may sleep with you...to Viet cultures...this is really nothing...sleeping with you doesn't equate loving you...you still need to really spend time understand her and her understand you...
let me tell you a true story...
"a decent VB first time met a sinkie man in hcm and then they just happy to be together after chatting online for a month...they lam tinh a few times...before the man fly home...the VB told the man...I still want to see you if possible even I am married...the sinkie man was stunt...this VB who he had f**ked a few times....just had an affair when she is getting married...even her mother knew she was in the hotel with a sinkie man...she dun sleep in the hotel at night with him...but just go out with him in the day and spend alot of time in the hotel room in the day...morale of the story...lam tinh to them is nothing...the rich VB had no say who she marries....marriage to them is arranged by their parents....but they still like to have fun...."
bro...from this really learn something different from you....ask you another scenario...if go out a few times, come back to your place, things heat up and end up lam tinh even not officially ban gai and chua nam tay, have been acting coy before that, not even a peck on the cheek...after that said that lam tinh is serious and wants commitment...co xao qua di k?
is it really lam tinh nothing to them? if so, really eye opener for me...i really thought the decent girls really traditional...
i was told that only in sillypore or those WL then will say the phrase "xao nhieu nhieu"
within a vn family, they will say "xao wa" or "xao ke"
once they say XNN, the family will know their daughter been in contact or did work as WL.
oh i see...i have never heard xao nhieu nhieu before cos maybe my bit of TV is vietnam-trained, not sillypore trained haha...
you are right...its spelled 'xao qua' though...normally add a 'di' or if really close friends or family, jokingly can say 'xao qua ba' or 'xao qua me'...ba - father, me - mother...even though not addressing the father or mother...
'qua' meaning a lot...dep qua, nhieu qua, khung qua....
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oh i see...i have never heard xao nhieu nhieu before cos maybe my bit of TV is vietnam-trained, not sillypore trained haha...
you are right...its spelled 'xao qua' though...normally add a 'di' or if really close friends or family, jokingly can say 'xao qua ba' or 'xao qua me'...ba - father, me - mother...even though not addressing the father or mother...
'qua' meaning a lot...dep qua, nhieu qua, khung qua....
Yes, it's spelt qua, but Vietnamese are very creative. Since their alphabet set does not use w, most SMS "wa" instead of "qua", or used j in place if i because j is only 1 punch on phone keyboard whereas i is 3 punch on phone keyboard. KT's version of TV is very effective if want to sian VB. heh heh..
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or used j in place if i because j is only 1 punch on phone keyboard whereas i is 3 punch on phone keyboard
this version of explanation is no longer valid. replacing a letter with another letter is just to be cute and creative.
why no more valid?
Ans: many vb use iphone(s) or handpone with qwerty keyboard already
Reason: many carrots/roberts in JC/GL offer iphone in return for love and sex
ps: many vb uses old traditional phones but in their bag or home, there are 1 or 2 iphone
for carrots - iphone is not a trand now. most want iphone 4s or ipad
oh i see...i have never heard xao nhieu nhieu before cos maybe my bit of TV is vietnam-trained, not sillypore trained haha...
you are right...its spelled 'xao qua' though...normally add a 'di' or if really close friends or family, jokingly can say 'xao qua ba' or 'xao qua me'...ba - father, me - mother...even though not addressing the father or mother...
'qua' meaning a lot...dep qua, nhieu qua, khung qua....
There's xao lon & xao cat & xao cu chim too!
Also jokingly can address friends or family members e.g. Sisters n brothers n cousins as ong noi & ba noi, grandpa & grandma.
this version of explanation is no longer valid. replacing a letter with another letter is just to be cute and creative.
why no more valid?
Ans: many vb use iphone(s) or handpone with qwerty keyboard already
Reason: many carrots/roberts in JC/GL offer iphone in return for love and sex
ps: many vb uses old traditional phones but in their bag or home, there are 1 or 2 iphone
for carrots - iphone is not a trand now. most want iphone 4s or ipad
Shit! Since when did this world progress to iPhone 4 / 4S? I'm still stuck in the 3GS era. Before keep it at home before embarrassing myself in front of VBs... And, does Apple produce a pad for women for use when they lai ang??
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if addressing a girl and want to say she rat bluff, can say 'xao qua me'
if addressing a guy and want to say he rat bluff, can say 'xao qua ba'
otherwise, non gender specific normally i say 'xao qua di'
me too really never heard in hcm ppl says XNN....most they said xao qua...or just xao...
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Shit! Since when did this world progress to iPhone 4 / 4S? I'm still stuck in the 3GS era. Before keep it at home before embarrassing myself in front of VBs... And, does Apple produce a pad for women for use when they lai ang??
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Of course my above post is just kidding. Anyway, my last Viet babe is a certain con gai from Hanoi in 2009. Maybe you will remember which one since you saw us crossing the road from Rohor beancurd stall to M51 side. Yup, I've been out of the VB game since her. Moved my playground to Batam. But now am looking to make a comeback. Heh heh heh
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bro...from this really learn something different from you....ask you another scenario...if go out a few times, come back to your place, things heat up and end up lam tinh even not officially ban gai and chua nam tay, have been acting coy before that, not even a peck on the cheek...after that said that lam tinh is serious and wants commitment...co xao qua di k?
is it really lam tinh nothing to them? if so, really eye opener for me...i really thought the decent girls really traditional...
haha...dun think you ever face this problem in Vn...unless you had promised too much before hand...if nothing was promised...and still lam tinh then you can be sure she will not hold you responsible unless she got pregnant which caused some complications...still can be resolved if detected early...so need to wear protection for safety...
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