Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Goalie

Another samster bites the dust. You still long way to understand Viet ladies

This is typical of Viet lady wanted to be possessive and yet showing you that she needs to work by selling herself as nothing was wrong. Loving you is to trap you and her rights to do so

actually this is exactly what i experience from VB. at first they will start giving u a lot of attention and affection. then suddenly gone or even they MIA. then we will keep looking for them and once we do that they know they got advantage in kc game.

another KC trap is once they find us committing some mistakes or somehow make them BUC BOI... they will tell they r not good and we should chia tay etc... to make us invoke the feeling of lost-already-then-know-how-to-appreciate. sorry my tieng anh is not good as well. paiseh haha...

but actually this WL keep telling me all the time that she's not good cuz she need to work at ktv for her family and mother and keep asking me to leave her and find another gal. maybe KC trap though... even though i can sense that she's quite newbie...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Although 18 years old is the legal age to marry in Vietnam, I will think it's a very big risk to marry such a young gal. Her thinking is not mature enuff. But there will be some bros out there who are interested in young gals.

agreed 18 yrs old is too young...but in Vn 18 yrs old ger already quite matured...just that big gamble to marry her because she will be unable to adapt to life in sinkie and culture diff...if can get to know her for 4 years from now then will be better...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

actually this is exactly what i experience from VB. at first they will start giving u a lot of attention and affection. then suddenly gone or even they MIA. then we will keep looking for them and once we do that they know they got advantage in kc game.

another KC trap is once they find us committing some mistakes or somehow make them BUC BOI... they will tell they r not good and we should chia tay etc... to make us invoke the feeling of lost-already-then-know-how-to-appreciate. sorry my tieng anh is not good as well. paiseh haha...

but actually this WL keep telling me all the time that she's not good cuz she need to work at ktv for her family and mother and keep asking me to leave her and find another gal. maybe KC trap though... even though i can sense that she's quite newbie...

she say is correct,so listen to her and leave her,leave her alone for her to work for money to take back

they are not interested in having a relationship

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by batty

Hi Alimi. Since that Vietnamese KTV girl wants to earn lots of money and finally marry a well off single Singaporean bachelor, it could be that she later divorce him. She can be awarded half of his assests depending on the number of years they stayed together. Then she can repeat this process again and again.

Women are still women. End of the day, they will want a good family and good husband.

i don't think she can repeat it many times... somehow there will be some record with the ICA esp when apply LTSVP, PR etc. Furthermore, age is a factor for women. When she grows old, she will be less appealing. I think not many vb knows about women chathered so won't take the assets.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by VietnamLover

A friend of mine asked me for help to introduce a good Singapore man to her. Here is a few details about her. Her name is Han, 18 years old girl, living in HCMC. She is neither pretty nor ugly, just average and acceptable looking. She requested that the guy should not be more than 40 years old, is still single and knows basic Vietnamese language. Those who are interested to know her, kindly PM me. Thanks.

I fit the bill

Originally Posted by SingViet

Although 18 years old is the legal age to marry in Vietnam, I will think it's a very big risk to marry such a young gal. Her thinking is not mature enuff. But there will be some bros out there who are interested in young gals.

Bro VietnamLover never say about marriage leh. Can par tor and test test first

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

bro KT do u want an apprentice?

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

yea actually i feel not enough bonk with her yet... but if cannot liao then move on to 3rd WL!

You already know the game...

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

she say is correct,so listen to her and leave her,leave her alone for her to work for money to take back

they are not interested in having a relationship

even i entangle her she also can work ma. make sure i don't shit at the same place next time. seriously i've seen one guy having one ban gai at one viet ktv and i think bros here also...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

even i entangle her she also can work ma. make sure i don't shit at the same place next time. seriously i've seen one guy having one ban gai at one viet ktv and i think bros here also...

u can stand her give man touch here touch there when she was working if u go into relationship with her?i dont think so.

but if u are talking about fake relationship like act act here,act act there to win the oscar best male artist,u can carry on hahaha

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

You already know the game...

thanks bro KT but i'm still very far from the bros here and you. need more con gai to up level

the thing with the 3rd WL(known as no3 hereafter) is they are friends and i think they are housemate? kaoz... if the 2nd WL (known as no2 hereafter) wan to pass me to 3rd WL i dont mind also ler hehehe... no3 actually seem to be very enthu with me cuz i spoke some TV to her and i told her i had bx in vietnam and she's quite impressed? when she reach home she sms me and call me and say she wan to sleep roi, nho anh.... xao nhieu nhieu...

anyway see how it goes. now my no2 say she give me one last chance. hahahah... typical VB pattern. i can confirm they will come back.

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

u can stand her give man touch here touch there when she was working if u go into relationship with her?i dont think so.

but if u are talking about fake relationship like act act here,act act there to win the oscar best male artist,u can carry on hahaha

yea actually, IF and IF ONLY i get into R/S with such ppl, i can stand her let other man touch here touch there, IF and ONLY IF i know i'm the one she's really into and the rest of the men are just Robert Lee to her.

BUT the thing is we can hardly know who she's really into at the moment. from this thread, i understand that we can only know via observation of a pro-long period of time, say at least 2 years or even 5 years.

so at the moment, i think better do not dive deep into cam thinh. try to keep it and but not treasuring it. and see how it goes before making decision. SO i think it's the safest to be oscar best male artist first

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

yea actually, IF and IF ONLY i get into R/S with such ppl, i can stand her let other man touch here touch there, IF and ONLY IF i know i'm the one she's really into and the rest of the men are just Robert Lee to her.

BUT the thing is we can hardly know who she's really into at the moment. from this thread, i understand that we can only know via observation of a pro-long period of time, say at least 2 years or even 5 years.

so at the moment, i think better do not dive deep into cam thinh. try to keep it and but not treasuring it. and see how it goes before making decision. SO i think it's the safest to be oscar best male artist first

remember to thank your dad and mum when u get the award for best male artist

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

cam thinh.

should be tinh cam

also from some of your posting..
nhan tin (nt) = messaging (action)
tin nhan (tn) = the message

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by Golden question

remember to thank your dad and mum when u get the award for best male artist

haha yaya... and also i must thank bro KT, bro goldenquestion & bro hurricane for lots of guidance, bro singviet for starting the thread, and other bros who gv me lots of advice, sorry if i dont mention your nick here but that long toi cam on moi nguoi. thanh that cam on... LOL!

[ilovedoggie]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

should be tinh cam

also from some of your posting..
nhan tin (nt) = messaging (action)
tin nhan (tn) = the message

thanks for the correction. actually i thought cam tinh is a noun whereas tinh cam is a verb.

same for tin nhan as a noun while nhan tin as a verb

talking about nhan tin... the first time i heard this word from no2. i heard wrongly cuz i heard she say lam thinh.

me: huh? lam thinh?
no2: NHAN TIN!
me: ohh oh...
no2:ugh... lam thinh lam thinh...

makes me wan to laugh hahaha... then we go home lam thinh hahahha....

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Alimi

'consistently' need more funding from me

confused ??? you are NOT the only sole contibutor so dun confused n WAKE Up ...

Originally Posted by Alimi

Initially, I made a mistake by involved emotionally and "almost" fallen in love with her but she is 'smart enough' to tactfully rejected me given reasons that I'm a family man with kids and she can not love me as a boy friend

Don't PLAY with Fire !

Originally Posted by Alimi

She told me 'frankly' that she does not love me but likes me as a good man just like she likes few other good men (young and/or old) because of our monies - sugar bfs and/or daddies a money shaking tree.

well, sad to say ... it started from here n progress further ... u start off as 'carrot' and then maybe progress to something else ...

Originally Posted by Alimi

I personally feels that we bros can spend reasonable amount of monies to enjoy emotionally and have fun with the VB that we really like as long as we mutually enjoy each others company, but we know that this is only for short term relationship without positive ending.

Thanks for the 'Good' Recommendation ... i think the BROS here WON'T Play with fire n won't be a 'Joint Shared Holder' for a Gal ...

Originally Posted by Alimi

As my VB and I asserted each others mature thinking that our relationship is solely built on Money and Sex associated with little emotion attachment since we agreed that we can not and should not attempt to develop beyond this M&S boundary.

Slowly n Slowly n Slowly ... it will develop .. when small head rules over the heart n in turns the heart rules over the big head ...

Originally Posted by Alimi

No matter how, there is a hidden risk should uncontrollable emotion feeling on either party developed over time to becoming stronger and stronger ... which is something one should try prevent in order to prolong such relationship for a longer period of time if both parties wanted to.

Prolong ??? I really admire you ... cheers ...