Happening Discos/Clubs in BKK

[WOOHOO]

yo braddur C

happi happi dude. WOOHOO loves all your posts.^^
Live life to the fullest and always do what you wanna do ya!!

[monvantee]

Bro Charmaine,

Just do/decide whatever you think the best for you ... is your life, is your choice, is your lifetime experience, regardless happiness or sadness, no matter what.... for sure u never feel regret because is your choice ....

Best wishes to you ...

from a bro who is living and appreciating the life in BKK

จะไปไหนเจอใครมากมาย ทำไมมันมอง..หาแต่เธอ
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หลับตาฝันก็ยังพบเธอ ก็มีแต่เธอ
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แปลกจริงๆ คิดถึงเธออีกแล้ว
แปลกจริง คิดถึงเธอจัง

[yanz]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I got off the cab at the airport and she remained inside. The car pulled away and she turned around to look back at me through the rear windscreen until we couldn't see each other anymore. I stood rooted at the exact place which I alighted for what seemed like an eternity. We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

yo bro charmaine, didnt managed to read up on your whole story but this part alone touched me. the one trait that's missing from general thai girls(or those i met) is honesty. maybe they got the whole avoid confrontation mindset in their culture?! at least your gal's upfront with what she honestly thinks.

up u with my modest 3pts. do update if possible.
at least this is a fresh change from the other thai threads with the same bozos harping on the same issues.

[etct88]

..........."Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work?.......

......"Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work? .........

......Why ask why?......

Hi Bro C

Too many whys, don't ask...... you should just try. You only live once. But PLEASE be prepared......

The extra mile will be needed.

etct88

[ownage_sex]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Thank you everyone for your very constructive comments and genuinely concerned feedback.

"Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work? If two people are in love, why should anything stand in the way?" were just some of my thoughts on the way home on the plane, alone. I've since settled down, got back to work, and achieved at least some sort of perspective two days after it happened.

She's living a relatively good life in Bangkok - hell, even I don't have a car. There's no reason why she should give up any of that for me. There's no market for her in Singapore - she's a graduate but it wasn't from a good University and all that she could hope to do here is some random salesgirl job in a retail shop or slogging her way through selling cosmetics in a shopping mall make-up counter. We did talk about it before - she's open to the idea of working elsewhere but the money has to be good. Right now there's nothing that could pay her as well as what she's doing now. She was financially supported by a rich Japanese customer about 2 years back (he found a job for her in a trading company and sent her money regularly) but she stopped his payments out of guilt and went back to the G-Club. She didn't want to owe anybody anything, she said, although she must have definitely exchanged her body for that short-term favour. I don't want to think about it.

As for me, I'm just a normal-salaried employee trying to make ends meet in a medium-sized company. I'm not a rich businessman who can afford to travel to Bangkok once a month for pleasure. I've recently purchased an apartment and am moving out from my parents in a few months. I'm perfectly able to find a decent Singapore girl to settle down with, but there's just something about her that is so.. alluring. Maybe I'll grow out of it, maybe I won't. Right now I'm just indifferent.

During that fateful dinner, she said to me "Don't make me fall in love with you." Before I could answer, she covered my mouth with her hand. "Don't need to say anything. I just don't ever want to be heartbroken again. I hope you understand."

It sounds like something out of a B-Grade Korean drama serial but it really happened.

"Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work? If two people are in love, why should anything stand in the way?"

Why ask why?

What is life? Why are we here? What is the purpose?

The truth is we all have to die.

The truth of life is about how we want to LIVE it.

The important is the experience, the choice but not the results.

[jwbparty]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Yes, we're in love...I stood rooted at the exact place which I alighted for what seemed like an eternity. We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

charmaine,
i know how you feel. i have had similar experiences in my past trips. all i can say is that time (and for me, distance) will heal your wounds, as it did mine. it's been nearly 2 years since my last trip. on the other hand, if this doesn't work...SG is only a few hours away from TL for you, which allows for weekend/3 day side trips. i wish i live in SG.

[ChaYen]

To try to bring the thread back on course:

I was at Santika again last friday, and it was jammed with really hot chicks. I was unfortunately with CO, and was unable to try my luck.

Also went Song Saloong the weekend before, and nearly duo'ed 2 ONS with a friend... but just before we left, another girl showed up to rain on the parade. Apparently she wasn't going to let the two girls go anywhere with us, and she insisted on sending them home herself. Bummer. Even managed to get my girl to sit on my lap while feeding me popcorn.

Anyone had better luck recently?

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

Yes, we're in love.
We never said goodbye or waved. Sometimes it's better this way.

bro charmaine ... i can understand how u feel as i was in a similiar situation before ...
Time will heal ur wounds ...
we have to understand that when we get into any relationship, we must be prepared to get hurt ...
the pain & hurt will make us stronger and wiser .. although some might need to be hurt more times in order to feel the pain ...

u've make a choice, i hope u have, and that's good ...
it's time for u to move on with ur life ....
everyday .. ppl have to make decisions or choices ...
every decision or choice u make will have a result ...
regardless what's the outcome of the result, remember u make that choice ..
u'll regret it if u make the wrong one ... who will not ...
but it's okay ... the important thing is to be able to stand up, learn from it and move on ...
Learn for the past, plan for the future but live now ...

IMHO ... i would said u r a very fortunate guy to have know this gal ..
i can feel that she's a very honest person and she does not want to hurt anyone ...
u r a passionate person and could have easily fall into these KC traps ..
On the other side of the coin, if she's playing a game on u .. than i'll give her credit for doing a great job ...

nonetheless ... like all senior bros mentioned here ...
long distance relationship need a lot of mileage to go ...
it's a uphill task ... one that's easily fall all the way down even when u think u've reached the top ....

don't keep asking urself "Why" ...
try asking urself "How" ...

...."Why is this not possible? Why can't I at least try to make this work?..
Try this .....
...."How is this going to be possible? How can i make this work? ....

"Why" is a negative perspec in this case ....


The happiest ppl do not necessarily have the best of all.
They simply appreciate what they find on their way.

[piratedking]

Originally Posted by ChaYen

To try to bring the thread back on course:

I was at Santika again last friday, and it was jammed with really hot chicks. I was unfortunately with CO, and was unable to try my luck.

Also went Song Saloong the weekend before, and nearly duo'ed 2 ONS with a friend... but just before we left, another girl showed up to rain on the parade. Apparently she wasn't going to let the two girls go anywhere with us, and she insisted on sending them home herself. Bummer. Even managed to get my girl to sit on my lap while feeding me popcorn.

Anyone had better luck recently?

Tot tai girls normally with just let their friend go with anyone? or u never offer 3 or 4 some and ignore her is it?

[Charmaine]

Thank you all who even bothered to read my story and left so many constructive, and heartfelt, comments on this thread originally intended for "Happening Discos and Clubs in Bangkok". I do realise that I'm intruding but I never felt like my story merited any sort of new thread or attention - that's why I have always sought to discuss everything on this existing one. After all, as many friends here have already pointed out, my situation is not unique. It's nothing new and many others have unconsciously fallen into, fallen out of, or simply allowed themselves to be sucked into, this familiar situation.

Yes, I think about her all the time. Yes, I hate the idea that she has to be groped, touched, hugged and caressed by different men everyday. But no, I have not allowed myself to nose-dive into full-blown love. I have always held back, and I think she does the same too.

As time passes, it's now been a week since I last saw her. I dream of her a lot less now, which must be a good sign. I know I'm making the right choice, but there's always a little thought in me, when looking back at past threads and stories contributed by fellow forummers here, that asks why I can't end up like them - happily together, married, or emotionally contented with their Thai girlfriends or wives.

To me, she will always remain a G-Club girl. In terms of social standing, a potential relationship will never see the light of day. I'm a young employee in a medium-sized company with (I hold no shame in saying this) a fairly bright future ahead of me if I'm willing to try. She, on the other hand, comes from a middle-class Thai family which fell apart when her father died a car accident, her mother remarried and crumbled under the addiction of gambling. I know this is nothing new - every WL has their own sob story. And I could potentially find the right girl in my own backyard (if I'm willing to compromise).

But there's just something about her which I can't explain.

It does help that she's physically attractive, but even in the morning with all her flaws (sans make-up, bad breath and ruffled hair) I can see the beauty in her. Maybe love is blind. But it can also go away as easily as it came.

And that's all I hope to achieve out of the coming weeks.

[happywater]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

To me, she will always remain a G-Club girl. In terms of social standing, a potential relationship will never see the light of day. I'm a young employee in a medium-sized company with (I hold no shame in saying this) a fairly bright future ahead of me if I'm willing to try.

At least you have a stable job right? I must admit long distance love is hard and i think you are now in a situation of sweet, sour and bitter all mixed in? Shiok shiok right? I'm sure alot of cheong bros have been thru this before but you still need to carry on and concentration on your work.

Maybe a song for you to chill out... a not so old song from OMD - how bizarre



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Perhaps you will meet a better girl later on in life and your past romance will become sweet memories... take care and all the best.

[Maitong Kit Mak]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

It does help that she's physically attractive, but even in the morning with all her flaws (sans make-up, bad breath and ruffled hair) I can see the beauty in her. Maybe love is blind. But it can also go away as easily as it came.

And that's all I hope to achieve out of the coming weeks.

Bro..having what's said...it seems abit scary...even in the morning with all the flaws like bad breath and ruffled hair etc...u can still see beauty in her...have u ever wondered there is some kind of 'Black Magic' happening around u?

[adidas88]

Originally Posted by Maitong Kit Mak

Bro..having what's said...it seems abit scary...even in the morning with all the flaws like bad breath and ruffled hair etc...u can still see beauty in her...have u ever wondered there is some kind of 'Black Magic' happening around u?

bro MKM ... dun scare the hell out of him with all those "black magic" stuff lar ...
it's just LOVE .... maybe this is the first time that bro charmaine really fall in love ...
aiyah ... believe we all have been through that road before ...
when u r in love ... everything abt her is beautiful ...

bro charmaine ... u have a choice ...
either u carry on day dreaming abt her and ruin ur carreer and life or
u move on with ur life and look forward to a better and bright future ...

it's okay to think of her some time ... even i do think abt my ex once a while ..
but when i think of her ... there's smile on my face cos i know what have happened have taught me a valuable lesson and changed me ...

For everything that happens in a person's life,
there is a reason.

Live on bro .... there's a bright future for u ...
it's ur choice ...

[Charmaine]

I bought her phone credits to use yesterday. I decided to grab matters by the scruff of the neck and determine if this is really something I should stick my neck out for instead of wondering what might have been. Since she was always complaining that her credits get used up fairly quickly and she's not able to sms or call me as often as she likes, I bought her 500 baht worth of credit and sms-ed her the serial number for her to top it up. "I bought you these credits so that you can contact me more often." I said in the message. "Thank you so much!" was her reply.

It's been a day and I haven't heard from her since. I realise that she's run out of excuses. I'm paying for your goddamn phone bills and you're not even bothering to contact me?

I guess this story is just like one of the million others. She was never special, and neither was I to her. This never left the realm of "transaction". I know now.

[Cyberspace Nerd]

Originally Posted by Charmaine

I bought her phone credits to use yesterday. I decided to grab matters by the scruff of the neck and determine if this is really something I should stick my neck out for instead of wondering what might have been. Since she was always complaining that her credits get used up fairly quickly and she's not able to sms or call me as often as she likes, I bought her 500 baht worth of credit and sms-ed her the serial number for her to top it up. "I bought you these credits so that you can contact me more often." I said in the message. "Thank you so much!" was her reply.

It's been a day and I haven't heard from her since. I realise that she's run out of excuses. I'm paying for your goddamn phone bills and you're not even bothering to contact me?

I guess this story is just like one of the million others. She was never special, and neither was I to her. This never left the realm of "transaction". I know now.

So will u stop posting your CRAP now?