Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by volcano

the red book comes along together when u buy the house.unless u are buying houses that has no proper title deed.houses with no proper title deed is cheap,but then u will need to pay the police in order to get a proper title deed.

i bought my house in HCMC few years back and i never pay or bribe any police.

U are correct basically i put it in a simple way,should be those officer and not police.My wife own the land but after build her house on that land,she have to buy from that bloody owner that red book.He just pocket 2k and only show me his damm bastard smiling face when go and do all those document.Bribe is to those officer to process and not really police as what i mention

Like what u say,without that red book,she cant sell at a higher price next time

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

KT...as a sinkie and voter, quickly see your MP in the meet the people session...seek MP to help with gynae letter...preferably your MP is a Minister of Home Affairs or MOS of Parliament Sec MHA...this will be very fast...tell the MP you had voted for him...ask for help for LTVSP and extension...

Fast to approve or fast to reject or fast to get the news?I dont think will of much use cos mine is wks but in the end still the same.Maybe i never go meet the people session to help them sweep the floor lah,thats why.

[zion1989]

Originally Posted by volcano

nobody will be able to give u an exact answer.price of house depends on where is the place.e.g HCMC,outskirt of HCMC,province city,province village,house at main road,house at intersection of 2 roads etc.

u can build a small small rectangular house in province village for 5k usd,but that same small small rectangular house can be 100k usd if its in District 1 of HCMC.

little advice to u,you seems young and very green regarding matters concerning Vietnam and Vietnamese gals.do give yourself a few years to understand the culture and mind set of Vietnamese before u commit anything.some of the incidents mention in this thread seems scary,but that's true if u met the wrong partner.there is bound to be black sheep in every place or country including Singapore.

i do know of several foreigners who just marry her wife alone but not her whole family but i also do know people who actually marry the whole ancestor tree.

for my case,i am happy and lucky enough to just marry my wife alone and no one else.....

wish u good luck and welcomes u to the world of VBs.....

hjhj thanks, it seem that their house is really costly. I not commiting anythings, but just trying to understand. You people have ba xa so, you all are in better position to explain to me as i might not know what i am really getting into. I also cannot just pull a girl i like from the street in HCMC to ask her and understand her mah. Hopefully i will not get the black sheep.

[Blast88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

Fast to approve or fast to reject or fast to get the news?I dont think will of much use cos mine is wks but in the end still the same.Maybe i never go meet the people session to help them sweep the floor lah,thats why.

I agreed, seeing MP are also not much use, ton of people have been seeing MP regards to their bx ica issues & i believe their letter to them are also in standard format & officers in ica are already numb to reading those letter. Utimately, to the bottom ine, their consideration still based on your job status, salary, income tax contribution, etc, we need to face reality as these is Sillypore

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by volcano

the red book comes along together when u buy the house.unless u are buying houses that has no proper title deed.houses with no proper title deed is cheap,but then u will need to pay the police in order to get a proper title deed.

i bought my house in HCMC few years back and i never pay or bribe any police.

how did you managed to buy a house under your name since you are foreigner ? house or condo ? condo possible, house only possible under company's name or your Ba xa's name

[volcano]

Originally Posted by SingViet

how did you managed to buy a house under your name since you are foreigner ? house or condo ? condo possible, house only possible under company's name or your Ba xa's name

obviously under my BX name.

that's why i always tell my BX that she is richer then me in Vietnam....

[asdfghjkl]

i was told a normal house costs USD100K now.. without a loan..

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Blast88

I agreed, seeing MP are also not much use, ton of people have been seeing MP regards to their bx ica issues & i believe their letter to them are also in standard format & officers in ica are already numb to reading those letter. Utimately, to the bottom ine, their consideration still based on your job status, salary, income tax contribution, etc, we need to face reality as these is Sillypore

yah,i also think so.It makes no different whether u are from pap ward or wp ward.Even if u are in a home minister ward also the same.It base on that man financial ability and that wife record here.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i was told a normal house costs USD100K now.. without a loan..

sis,with or without a loan,that amount is still 100k what.Even in sillypore,if u take a loan from hdb or bank,that house still 100k.If u rich enough and dont dont take,that flat is also cost 100k.So any different

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

sis,with or without a loan,that amount is still 100k what.Even in sillypore,if u take a loan from hdb or bank,that house still 100k.If u rich enough and dont dont take,that flat is also cost 100k.So any different

hahha bro. Actually it makes a difference, big difference. If there are no loans available, it will take many years to save that amount to buy a house. If loans are available, you may just need to fork out a certain percentage as deposit and pay the rest in installments. If singaporeans do not have access to loans, the percentage of house and car owners will drop drastically.

[asdfghjkl]

or pay in gold lor ~

[jklpoi]

Going to share some of my experiences.

First, my story.
My Ba Xa was a WL, and is still working now as a WL, just to implement and support my income. I told her about my income and how much i earn which is around the average side of what a singaporean should be earning. Around 3k-4k plus? I also told her that i have debts that need repaying and those debts may take me up to 2 years to return. Thats what spur her on to work, and i fully support her as i 100% trust her. (Do not be too quick to judge me on this, hear out the story first.)

She is 7 years older than me and with 2 children, Japanese-Vietnamese mix blood, dammn bloody cute. She is not a looker, very small size, and only A cup breasts, so i can be very sure that i love her not for her looks, but for what she is. Her children is the main reason why she wants to work. She is not that poor in Vietnam too. Her sisters have their own shoe shop, selling shoe, and her mum has lots of kids, and grand kids. A very very close knit family.

I too hear of horror stories of Vietnam ladies asking for money for their families, buy this buy that. But somehow, my ba xa family is very different from typical traditional vietnam family. Its hard to explain, but you have to be there to experience it. Her mum only calls and ask for money for a few things.

1) House rent - SGD200+ every month.
2) Food, clothes, school fees, english school fees, tution school fees for my ba xa 2 kids. - SGD 300-400 every month.

She never even ask for medical fees when she has a genuine case of bad knees. I allow my Ba xa to work because i understand the hardship of living in singapore and she too understand it.

The funny thing is that she will be the one to always find excuse not to work and i will always be the one to chase her away to work. I told her that as long as she can earn around SGD1000-SGD1500 per month is good enough, no need chiong so much.

Its true that Vietnam lady are very loyal once you are really the one for them. They feel you are the one, they will stamp their marking on your forehead and you are forever theirs.

They belong to a generation of "When a problem arises, you fix it and not throw it away." at least my BX belongs to that generation, i dont know about the younger ones.

Money wise, its as what the other bros are saying, educate them and they will learn. I am lucky that my BX already know how tough it is to earn money here.

I am not going to hide what my BS done. Yes, she sleeps with customer, yes, she works here for a long time, she comes in singapore many time. And i am not blind to the fact that maybe she loves me because i am her ticket to working in Singapore.

You can call me "Xiao Bai Nian" Loser boy who feeds on woman earning, but i am more of the open minded kind of person, this is only her job, men touch her, men give money to her, money comes into my pocket. Everybody happy.

but the most important thing is that i know that she loves me deeply. And that's why i marry her.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Going to share some of my experiences.

First, my story.
My Ba Xa was a WL, and is still working now as a WL, just to implement and support my income. .....

I am not going to hide what my BS done. Yes, she sleeps with customer, yes, she works here for a long time, she comes in singapore many time. And i am not blind to the fact that maybe she loves me because i am her ticket to working in Singapore.


but the most important thing is that i know that she loves me deeply. And that's why i marry her.

U mean she still sleeps with customers now??

[jklpoi]

Originally Posted by casannova03

U mean she still sleeps with customers now??

Haha, not now, of course, now only sit sit, go out eat supper only. Touchy Touchy.

[AdGuy]

Originally Posted by jklpoi

Going to share some of my experiences.

I said this and I say this again.

You think you understand your Vietnamese life partner? I quote 2 bros

1. "Do you dare put her to the test"

2. "If VBs can be trusted, pigs can fly"

If your salary is really 3-4K, and she really is willing to stick it out with you, she won't need to work.

As for you being a xiao bai nian, and saying that money goes into your pocket and everybody is happy, you have serious issues dude.