Unlocked ML

[Megafan1981]

Originally Posted by Megafan1981

I share with my close cheong friends after i had enough fun with a massuer and was ready to move on. Sometimes it is also hard to maintain so many masseurs and i do lose some of them over time.

In more unfortunate cases, some losers would screenshot my message conversation and then approach the massuers i unlocked and up and then demanded sex from them. When they refused, they would just show my message conversations on how i up them, etc. Total losers.

But life goes on.

"When you got it, you got it"

Received a few comments about me hao lian about these. I have no idea who you are hiding behind doing all these 小动作, but it's so obvious you are not in this game at all.

You know why?

Cuz those I previously shared are not precious contacts. But then if you need to screenshot conversations and PMs and show to the gals to say bad things or use it to ask them to treat you like how they treat me, that is real loser. You should instead go spend time to rethink your strategy and hone up skills.

Like i said, life goes on.

[lawrene]

I agree with this. The only difference is ML will open to a few and not only you. So just enjoy while the feeling is there. Usually after hitting the ultimate motive, the feeling also slowly no more and I will quietly moved on.

Originally Posted by sexyback

Not true. Yes they are here to earn sgd but they are also human with their 底线. Imagine you are in sales line and a client want you to eat shit then will buy from you with top up tips, you want?

[lawrene]

I agree with this as well but it not the game that i want to play. You don't get the same feeling with throwing money loh. I have success with ML that other customers offer 10 times more than what i paid her but she still rejected.
Throwing money is not unlocking, it is buying...haha.

Originally Posted by Inner69

Other than life and death, 99% of the problems can use $ to solve, another 1% use more $$$ and time also be solved.

It may sound bad but 这就是人性！

[sexyback]

Originally Posted by Inner69

Other than life and death, 99% of the problems can use $ to solve, another 1% use more $$$ and time also be solved.

It may sound bad but 这就是人性！

I agree, problems can be solved as long you have money and nothing is impossible. But also do have the minority who are not affect by this. Just depends whether you are lucky to meet one or not.

[KangTuo]

reading the comments, I can see that most of us agrees that unlocking ML need time and all star (factors) must align to open up the black hole for the pole to slot in. Those that unlock just by money or more money are termed as FL.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by Mobile88

If true unlock by feelings, then wouldn’t be called a customer anymore.

Truth be told, people do these things is not to cease to be a customer. They just want to be more special than other customers. Even someone like me who is not skilled in talking to gals can have a few regulars over the years who give me out of the menu services without paying extra (but I will buy food for them or ask them to accompany me for dinner). I’m just more hardworking in finding the right masseuse. Don’t ask me for contacts.

[Sinser]

I not tall and I don't think I'm very handsome also but like bros say just treat them like person talk to them. My ML unlock no FJ. But can DFK and finger for good 15 20mins, even code red also can.
i never spend alot initially, but go quite often last time 1hr. then reccently 2hr sessions
She also never ask for alot got a few time give me free HJ (it's twice in a session) but I paiseh so buy her gift or top up next session. Sometimes buy her food. she also paiseh buy me food also sometimes bring home eat after massage
just chat with her like a friend treat them like a person
also knowing how to read the room and body language helps

[Mobile88]

Personally I have only tried attempted to unlock a ML.
Truth be told, I wasn’t trying very hard also.
I also noticed I am getting too attracted and keep thinking about her. Self-KC.
Since then I have rarely revisited more than twice for any ML except a few where they have already have full menu from the start. (Or you can say FL)

Would you bros, not be afraid of getting too deep into the relationship? Not just about investing resources into trying, but its like a courtship into something which might not blossom, especially in the long term.

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by Teo Ken

Sharing my experience in unlocking a MILF ML after numbers of years visiting her. She not those chio or attractive MILF just plain Jane house wife type. During all my visit max she allow is providing me HJ nipple licking and me playing her pussy till wet still no penetration allow. Only till recent she completed her divorce she start to be more lose probably due to morale conscious. Most important no extra money ask for and I did ask why now allow after so long time. Answer was now she's single and chemistry had build over the years.

Nipple licking is she lick your nipple or you lick hers? :P

[Zendude82]

first off, let me say that my mentality is different to most bros here. I've realised from my previous r/s that I am unlikely to stay faithful to anyone for long. I'm single, and no longer looking for long term committed r/s to prevent further heartbreak to others and myself.

the MLs that i've "unlocked", are just ladies that really clicked with me. good conversations, good understanding, have chemistry. As other bros here have mentioned, it's not about throwing them money, it's about showing them respect as a fellow human. They too are people with emotions: treat them like a whore, they'll treat u as just another customer. Maybe Ive been lucky in not meeting the truly money faced ladies; but I won't attract those types either since I'm not swimming in money, never given any of them expensive gifts etc

still in contact/chat with a couple of them even though they've rtc and unlikely to return

Originally Posted by Mobile88

Personally I have only tried attempted to unlock a ML.
Truth be told, I wasn’t trying very hard also.
I also noticed I am getting too attracted and keep thinking about her. Self-KC.
Since then I have rarely revisited more than twice for any ML except a few where they have already have full menu from the start. (Or you can say FL)

Would you bros, not be afraid of getting too deep into the relationship? Not just about investing resources into trying, but its like a courtship into something which might not blossom, especially in the long term.

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by seeker2019

Need deep pocket to play the unlock game la. Something also hit and miss, it doesn't mean regular visit will able to unlock.

What is the definition of unlock? Only fj or hj also can? Also, must not be openly outright advertise got unlock?

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

Unlocking some MLs are like the same as dating regular girls and eventually bring her into the room. Not all MLs are easy to unlock. Some bros can spend 2 yrs before finally getting it. Those gotten too easily are not fun too, no feel doing it.

Can you pls share dating normal women can do what? Cos I am a noob in dating, age 34 no first gf before, it's very painful. You can PM me if it is more comfortable. Thanks.

[farlequin]

Interesting thread haha

well, for me there's been a spectrum. some can unlock relatively quickly within the first or second session (they claim to only provide HJ but end up we fucked). it is possible that they do provide full service discreetly, but then why not just advertise it? so not sure why but maybe she was in the mood or whatever random factor kicked in.

some is after some time you get them horny through making out/fingering then it just...slips in. have one malaysian ML who no longer does massage but mans the counter (she only does regulars with booking). Gets super wet and i just turn her around and slide it in. Her HJ skills are good so i have to try hard to prevent myself from cumming inside her after she has already worked the cock well.

another case was this ML who for some reason enjoyed sex with me. she would ask me to keep fucking her and we would change positions back and forth cos she wanted to cum more. its like i actually get tired and she still wants to keep going. my guess is that she doesnt really get much sex.

there are 2 in particular where I first visited them when I was in uni. So they were older women back then (about 4 to 8 years older) and they kinda saw me as a small boy so they said no (just gave HJ and footjobs). But as I continued visiting and got older they eventually came round to the idea. One instance was quite hot - visited her a long time after I left school and she was horny as well so started making out and then we fucked raw - she had transitioned to a private operation in a condo by then. The other one was a more gradual process - bbbj and then finally rawed her in the shop as well.

so yea, every case is different, cos ppl are different and they experience different circumstances at different points in time. take your shot when you think you've got a chance.

i think having some degree of privacy in the environment is also quite important. cos situationally that counts quite a bit as to whether the ML is willing to take the risk.

i also dont think looks are that big a factor. im a short guy and i look very ordinary. i'm just nice and respectful to them and treat them as people/get to know them as people.