Swinging/Sharing Advice

[newcouple]

We are an attractive working couple in our mid-twenties, have been dating for some time and might be getting engaged soon. We have been talking a lot about swinging or sharing her with another guy, which really makes our sex hotter, but we're not sure how/where to start.

Would anyone have any tips or advice for us to get into the swinging/sharing lifestyle? We want to try this and have lots of fun, but we need to be discreet.

[purepulp]

1) Take small steps. Do not jump into the thick of action.

2) Make sure you guys are really really ready because once you get to that point, there is no return. You either make or break.

3) Discuss boundaries and respect them. Don't push it.

Lastly, and this is something beyond your control, make sure you are comfortable with the other party. Do not rush it because imagination and reality is often very different. Good luck.

[Orange22]

Maybe you could start with having a watcher

[hiretuja]

Start from the basic first. Same room no swap, watch/get watched. If better join a cpl and watch them in action. If things get hot then maybe you guys can participate the things i mention.
After that can upgrade to soft swing. Let a partner of that cpl do a MMF or MFF.
Chemistry with other cpls play a part if want to go full swing.
Good luck!

[Polar.Bear]

if you need watcher, here's one ready for you.

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by purepulp

1) Take small steps. Do not jump into the thick of action.

2) Make sure you guys are really really ready because once you get to that point, there is no return. You either make or break.

3) Discuss boundaries and respect them. Don't push it.

Lastly, and this is something beyond your control, make sure you are comfortable with the other party. Do not rush it because imagination and reality is often very different. Good luck.

That's some pretty good advice. I knew a couple in the past who broke up eventually because of #2. Seriously TS, do think twice before opening this can of worms. Lots of ways you can spice up your sex life without introducing other parties into the bedroom.

Good luck with popping the question (for marriage).

[jabwemet]

Ooooo attractive some More!
I also volunteer for watcher