Seeking advice for introverts

[Bananahard99]

Hi to all big brothers here. Been lurking here for few years already and finally decided make an account to seek advice from all the experience big brother here and also to thank you all of you for the interesting reading material provided over the years. I am 30+ plus never chiong before. am quite an introvert and do not hold conversations well in 1 on 1 scenario with unfamiliar people. Always wanted to experience and try those 2-3 hours or overnight WL package but always worry there will be awkward silence or no chemistry. I have always read that chemistry is important. So What is all your usual conversation topic/jokes/flirt during your session to make it more fun to build chemistry in a session or is it fine to not talk and straight to the point. Yes I understand I am not looking for gf/wife in this places. Please help this sad introvert here. Thanks in advance.

[oxeso]

30+ liao then don't start.. tiagong from a 50+.

[LeonLurker]

No need to talk bro, just get straight to the point if you guys have nothing to talk about. You can try a foreigner FL who doesn't know English, maybe in Dome 1, the language barrier can be your excuse if you don't feel like talking. Based on my experience, the sexperience can be very good even without talking beyond a few sentences, so on the FL's part conversational chemistry is not a must in order to give you a good time, unless you deem it necessary. Some working girls also don't like talking anyway hahaha. Good luck and have fun bro!

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Bananahard99

Hi to all big brothers here. Been lurking here for few years already and finally decided make an account to seek advice from all the experience big brother here and also to thank you all of you for the interesting reading material provided over the years. I am 30+ plus never chiong before. am quite an introvert and do not hold conversations well in 1 on 1 scenario with unfamiliar people. Always wanted to experience and try those 2-3 hours or overnight WL package but always worry there will be awkward silence or no chemistry. I have always read that chemistry is important. So What is all your usual conversation topic/jokes/flirt during your session to make it more fun to build chemistry in a session or is it fine to not talk and straight to the point. Yes I understand I am not looking for gf/wife in this places. Please help this sad introvert here. Thanks in advance.

I came across many introverts in my life...so I am not sure what kind are you...

Type 1 - this chap will sit at ktv and will never able to decide which girl to pick...even we let him select first but always end up picking nobody during gals parade...after 10 mins, the rest of the guys will pick theirs...and this chap still undecided...

So the next parade came and finally friends helped him pick one gal...he will just sit an ddo nothing in the ktv while others enjoy by kissing rubba play nips breasts etc...at the end, he wanted a gal to go hotel but didn't say anything even at the end....so we have to help him ...

Type 2 - very similar to above but at least more season, at the end he will just inform me that he wanted the other person gal...so if the friend didn't bring the gal to hotel then I will ask the gal if dun mind to go with this chap...

Chap will never have small change when we will doing money changing...or will ask if can change money from SGD or USD when about to pay...one worst thing will be never bring money...

One last thing, knock my room ask me for condom...

[Radial]

You don't need advice.
Or rather, the best advice is, you need friends.

[ripstop]

I am an introvert too, and I have learned to just be myself.

Seriously, you are paying for a service, not trying to find a girlfriend. Why stress yourself trying to keep her entertained/engaged? If she clicks with you or she's the chatty type who fills up silences naturally, yeah ok great. If you have nothing to to say to each other, just literally fuck her silly. That's all there is to it.

But if you're trying to test an ML's limits, now that's a different tactical story...

[WhiteMilk]

Originally Posted by ripstop

I am an introvert too, and I have learned to just be myself.

Seriously, you are paying for a service, not trying to find a girlfriend. Why stress yourself trying to keep her entertained/engaged? If she clicks with you or she's the chatty type who fills up silences naturally, yeah ok great. If you have nothing to to say to each other, just literally fuck her silly. That's all there is to it.

But if you're trying to test an ML's limits, now that's a different tactical story...

I am not sure how u look in your 30s

I am the kind of guy who still got requested for IDs when trying to buy beer even up to my mid 20s

So what I used to do is to play the "innocent virgin boy" thing with the WLs and escorts and usually I managed to get "extra mile" services from them

I think it's fun to do that, but once I reached beyond my late 20s, the girls no longer buy it and usually no longer believe that it's my "first time visiting here and still virgin"

[staminadick]

cheong 1st think later

dun do overnight 1st

just book 1/ 2 shot
bonk and bonk can liao

[Bananahard99]

Thank for all the reply. the reason why i am asking is because one of my introvert friends say his experience is he have no chemistry at all, and the WL don't allow to kiss/touch and just wants to get over it as fast as possible while some of my friends can build chemistry till the point that WL/KTV girls go out with him multiple times a week to have sex or WL's tries hard to maintain him as a customer and always send miss you/love you texts and gives better GFE feels.

yeah i understand i should not stress too much because just paying for a service. but i am just curious if there is any ways just to receive a better overall experience.

[ripstop]

Originally Posted by WhiteMilk

I am not sure how u look in your 30s

I am the kind of guy who still got requested for IDs when trying to buy beer even up to my mid 20s

So what I used to do is to play the "innocent virgin boy" thing with the WLs and escorts and usually I managed to get "extra mile" services from them

I think it's fun to do that, but once I reached beyond my late 20s, the girls no longer buy it and usually no longer believe that it's my "first time visiting here and still virgin"

Haha nice, I look young for my age too, but not to your extent. It helps me with MLs less than half my age when I don't give off the dirty old man feel.

[boyboy1001]

prepare at least $5k first , once you start you cant stop

dont do overnight , its boring , gal also tired

If you can do 3 times , find those instead

For noobs , I think go low cost , low expectation to get a feel first

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by Bananahard99

Hi to all big brothers here. Been lurking here for few years already and finally decided make an account to seek advice from all the experience big brother here and also to thank you all of you for the interesting reading material provided over the years. I am 30+ plus never chiong before. am quite an introvert and do not hold conversations well in 1 on 1 scenario with unfamiliar people. Always wanted to experience and try those 2-3 hours or overnight WL package but always worry there will be awkward silence or no chemistry. I have always read that chemistry is important. So What is all your usual conversation topic/jokes/flirt during your session to make it more fun to build chemistry in a session or is it fine to not talk and straight to the point. Yes I understand I am not looking for gf/wife in this places. Please help this sad introvert here. Thanks in advance.

Dear Sad Introvert,

Here are some pointers that I can give you:

1. Make sure you look good and sharp. Not handsome nevermind, just need to look good. Get a new sharp haircut, dress well and smell awesome. First impression really counts.

2. Smile more.

3. Shower the lady with compliments. Talk to her like she's already your lover, and make sure you do that with deep eye contact.

4. Practice your conversation skills with anyone in your office, even that cleaning lady. Try to talk for 2 - 3 mins. Practice makes perfect.

5. Grow a sizeable dick (Not a must, but always good to have)

Don't waste your money on those overnight packages. Stick to short time.

If you successfully follow the above pointers, then eventually it will come a time when you don't even need to pay for sex.

[Northern]

Originally Posted by oxeso

30+ liao then don't start.. tiagong from a 50+.

Hi, thanks, done.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Piledriver

Dear Sad Introvert,

Here are some pointers that I can give you:

1. Make sure you look good and sharp. Not handsome nevermind, just need to look good. Get a new sharp haircut, dress well and smell awesome. First impression really counts.

2. Smile more.

3. Shower the lady with compliments. Talk to her like she's already your lover, and make sure you do that with deep eye contact.

4. Practice your conversation skills with anyone in your office, even that cleaning lady. Try to talk for 2 - 3 mins. Practice makes perfect.

5. Grow a sizeable dick (Not a must, but always good to have)

Don't waste your money on those overnight packages. Stick to short time.

If you successfully follow the above pointers, then eventually it will come a time when you don't even need to pay for sex.

If chap can do all above then no longer introvert...

[tynom32]

After cheonging a few times, it becomes easier ah. My first time was superrr awkward. Now can talk 1 on 1 quite well.